Where will YOU be in 100 years?
That's a crazy question, right?
So you're probably wondering why I asked. Well, I'll get to that in a minute.
We've had our history lesson and discovered what you can learn from inmates. I will do my best not to get to off track. :) By the time we get to the end, you will see why I asked that crazy question.
I move around a lot. I have never lived anywhere more than three years my entire life, from birth up to present. With all the moves, it's hard to have a so-called 'stable' work history. I have worked many jobs in my life. I did work in corrections for ten years but in that time I was at four different facilities, in two different states and four different counties.
Before you start a new job, you usually have an interview. In your interview, many employers are going to ask you the question. Where do you see yourself in five years? in ten years?
I have always felt this is a useless question but I understand why they ask. The employer feels that if you have long term goals involving their company then you will be a more loyal employee. They will feel you are investing yourself into the company which means more commitment to the company.
Crazy Question
I know that's what they want to hear, so that's what I give them. But in reality, I don't know where I'll be five days from now let alone five years. To me, asking where I see myself in five or ten years is just as crazy as asking me where I will be 100 years from now.
So what's the point? Many people are focused on those long term goals and that's great for them. It just doesn't work for me. I guess you could say, at least in that respect, I am a non-conformist. And you know what? That's okay.
Part of the reason many people are unable to find happiness is because they are too worried about fitting in. I must say, that has never been a concern of mine. I know who I am and I am happy with who that is.
I would say there are many of us here at WA who are like that. Even though the internet has been around for awhile - as long as I have been out of high school. More than 20 years - wow. ANYway, building a website and an online business is still considered a bit outs the box.
My Point
-- They are simple and easy to achieve.
-- They don't require long term commitment.
-- It is an excellent way to build up your momentum.
-- They allow you to keep on track and maintain high level of motivation.
-- It can also help to boost your self-confidence.
-- You get instant feedback which allows you to measure your performance and progress.
Get the picture? Please leave any questions or comments below.
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It's been my duty to send out the first snail mail Christmas card every year so that my friends and relatives know where to send one back. Since I don't have my Uncle (Sam) to pay for those moves anymore, I guess I'll be more settled. However, there IS something to be said for short term goals!!! ~Debbi
I agree short term goals are important...but what you do today creates your tomorrow. I believe in progression in my goal setting.
From daily to weekly to monthly to quarterly accomplishes your yearly. Kyle has a tutorial explaining it.
Angela, you are pretty good in writing, I love reading yr blog although sometimes I need much patience, lol. :)
I also prefer short term goals as they are easier to fulfill. :)
I especially like what you said here;
"My main focus is today. I don't want to miss out on the miracle of today because I was worried about what I am going to do tomorrow."
Thanks again my dear friend Angela. :)
Yes, I do tend to wander around before I get to my point. lol
But, I am a writer so I guess I have to tell a story.
Good post. I hate long term goals, which is probably why I never planned for retirement properly. Lol.
Are you guys so sure you wont be around in 100 years...technology is moving so fast that bionic adjustments will prolong our lifespans......LOL ?....anyways its nice to dream! :))
Yes I am, living on at my websites:) which are by then inherited by my great grandchildren:) who will earn huge amounts of money from it!
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I agree, it's difficult to know where I'll be five mins from now, much less a decade from now. I know where I *want to be*, but if life has taught me anything it's to expect curveballs!
Ain't that it though lol.