My own worst enemy
I have come to realize that I am my own worst enemy. I continually doubt myself, I am one of the most indecisive people I know. I catch myself daily saying no, that's just not going to work, or no, that just sounds wrong.
I have been here at WA for about a month and have learned a lot of valuable information. Everyone post amazing things here and I catch myself reading and rereading things, trying to learn everything I can quietly in the background.
With me writing this blog and posting it, I am so out of my comfort zone. And this is why I have decided to do it. I have to take the first steps to get over my fears of judgement and learn to not be so worried about what people may say or think.
If I can finally get over this one hurdle I know I will be able to stop being so critical of myself and just DO IT!!
Thanks for just listening.
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend,
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Hi Deneda, Congratulations on taking that first step. You can do this. You may have to remind yourself that you can but....you can. Don't worry about judgement here in this community. We are all at different stages of learning and all try to help one another. When you have a question, ask it. There are no dumb questions. If you think it, so does someone else. I applaud you for digging into the training. Just take your time and don't allow it to overwhelm you. All my best wishes to you.
Deneda, I read your blog. You are making the right steps towards your progress. You displayed courage in facing your problems. I have my own struggles to face every day. I can do it, you can do it, and others can do it. Thanks for sharing this.
Thank you and your welcome. I think it has helped me get this one small hurdle out of the way.
Your blog reads really well, and what's more recognizing little quirks in our personalities is 90% of their solution, we all have them, every single one of us.
One thing I've noticed here at WA is that some people spend a lot of time active in the community, while others get stuck right into the training. You might feel you're learning quietly in the background but in fact your doing the same as the rest of us.
The other thing I would say is don't spend to much time trying to take in all the information from one lesson before you move on to the next. What you learn today will most probably crop up in another lesson in a few weeks, and then again after that.
I'm amazed at how for I've come, and how much I've learnt in the short time I've been here and I'm sure you'll be the same.
Enjoy it, as your experience grows so will your knowledge and before you know it you'll be making money like a boss.
Good Luck
Martin
Sounds like you were raised by my mother. UGH I know how hard it is to break free of the failure mindset. I have to kick myself in the pants every day to wipe that crapola out of my head. You can do this! That's what's so great about WA. It's step by step how to succeed. There is no other option! Don't stay in the background. If you need help, ASK!!!
It was my dad that created this little issue i have. It is really hard to break free, the funny thing is i was able to teach my own kids not to worry about this stuff, but just havent followed my own advice i guess. Its a new day for me and thank you carla I will absolutely be asking and getting more involved in discussions.
Deneda, when you have nothing to lose and a great deal to gain by trying, by all means try. Just do what you fears most and just try. We will not let you fail, do you understand that?
What I have in front of me taped to my computer screen is, "Act As If It Were Impossible To Fail". You can use that if you like. What would you attempt If it were impossible to fail?
Still think this is hard? Read my latest blog, I wrote it with you in mind.
https://my.wealthyaffiliate.com/brooklynphil/blog/you-think-building-an-online-business-is-hard/comment/2934346
Find A Way!
Deneda, you can do it!
Stop worring about other people and concentrate
on what does Deneda want to do and be.
You will do great things.
Thank you Ken, i do need to just worry about what i want and need. thank you for reminding me what should be focused on.
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Haha. You did much better than me. Here was my first blog post EVER 4 years ago: https://my.wealthyaffiliate.com/nathaniell/blog/day-one
Now I sometimes write 5,000+ words per day. Writing is like anything else. You get better with practice.
Now that really looks like one I could have written. Thanks that really did help in so many.