For men- a short guide into a woman

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9 years ago

After I had published some posts "For ladies...", there was a question-"How about us, men?" Well, I will try...

The thing is, nobody teaches us how to understand each other, men and women,and we make so many mistakes, starting with our choices.Some people never overcome hurt and disappointment and choose to live alone. if it's a conscious choice, it's fine. Some people are better off being alone.

But if you still suffer the consequences of the wrong choice and the wrong behavior,and if you are dreading a new relationship, you are welcome to read this post.

So she left...

She might have left a shoe for you to search for her and might not...

You are alone in your man den.

Still loving you, she left you the instruction:

the recipe of your favourite cake:

A collection of socks:

and shirts...

And you are at a loss...

If she had had enough guts, she would have told you this:

And she wants you to remember this:

and this:

And it never hurts to get some knowledge of psychology:

MALE AND FEMALE BRAINS

While some features are more common in one sex than the other, and some are typically found in both, most people have a unique mix.

A 2015 study at Tel Aviv University used an interesting and very thorough approach to compare the structure of male and female brains. Researchers looked at MRI scans of more than 1,400 people.

First, they measured the amount and location of gray matter (sometimes called "thinking matter") in 116 parts of the brain to find out which areas had the biggest sex differences. Next, the team scored these areas on each scan as either falling into the "female-end" zone, the "male-end" zone, or somewhere in the middle.

It turned out that maybe 6 in every 100 of the brains they studied were consistently a single sex. Many others had a patchwork quilt of masculine and feminine features that varied widely from person to person.

While some activities were more common in women (including scrapbooking, chatting on the phone, and keeping in touch with mom) and others in men (such as golfing, playing video games, and gambling), 98% of those studied didn't fit a clear-cut gender profile.

Overall, the findings suggest that "human brains do not belong to one of two distinct categories."

There are significant differences in the brain circuitry of men and women, even when they're doing the same thing: It's like two people driving from Philadelphia to New York, who take different routes, but end up at the same place," says Ragini Verma, PhD, associate professor at the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia. Differences in their "brain road maps" (scientifically known as "the connectome") can explain why males outperform females on certain tests of mental skills, while females have the edge in others
Women have more connections going left and right across the two halves of the brain. This could give them an advantage in pulling together information from different sources and drawing conclusions. The left half of the brain handles logical thinking, and the right is associated with intuition.
Men's brains have more connections from front to back, which may heighten their perception. They may be more attuned to what's going on around them so they can take action. Men have stronger connections between brain areas for motor and spatial skills. That means males tend to do a better job at tasks that need hand-eye coordination and understanding where objects are in space, such as throwing a ball or hammering a nail.
The biggest gaps between the sexes were the larger amount of gray matter women had in their hippocampus, a structure that plays a role in memory, and the left caudate, which is thought to control our communication skills.So is it surprising that women tend to be better at understanding how other people are feeling and knowing the right way to respond in social situations?