I can't do this! I will never be able to learn it!

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THOUGHTS OUT OF LEFT FIELD!


Do you ever have thoughts like these go through your mind? Do you ever see Wealthy Affiliate members achieving success and then these pop into your mind? Do you ever look at the challenges in front of you and again these thoughts come up? Do they come out of left field unexpectedly?



I constantly have had them come into my mind and I believe it is a big part of why I have not been as consistant with creating content, posting to social media and doing SEO. I can only imagine where I would be now if I had just been able to consistently post and create the whole time I have been here at Wealthy Affiliate.



Shinning this light on this challenge I face daily hopefully will help me manage it better and I hope it can help just one person who also deals with this challenge.


YOU ARE NOT ALONE!



You are not alone. You are perfectly suited to be here in this moment. As I have grown older I have come to not believe things happen by chance but by design. You and everyone here at Wealthy Affiliate who truly desires to change their lives is here by design.


And because we are all here, especially you, WE ALL have gifts to share which when revealed to us will push us to heights we only ever dreamed about.




NEXT TIME SAY YES!




So the NEXT time you notice those thoughts pop into your mind, just gently remind yourself and them "YES I CAN DO THIS" and then get on with it!


Thanks for taking the time to read,



Proud papa of two,





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I think it is human nature especially if you are faced with something outside of your comfort zone. The thoughts definitely jump into my head and I react by substituting the following - โ€œhow can I do this?โ€ Doesnโ€™t always work but very high percentage it does.

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Hi Hudson,

I like the way you react to thoughts popping into your head.

I will also try to ask myself that question.

Stopping to think and ask ourselves how we can do something helps break it down and make it not so scary(outside our comfort zone).

The mind is a funny sometimes.

Thanks

Jody

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I am there right now! However I really know I CAN!

For some reason I am afraid of doing reviews... weird huh.

Just the same I know I can.

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Knowing you can do something makes up a large part of actually succeeding at doing it. I believe I will succeed yet these thoughts keep popping up in my mind despite knowing I can and will succeed. It's no longer a matter of it for me.

Thanks

Jody

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Thoughts have only the 'potential' to change how you approach life and challenges. What you do with them is the ' kinetic' you choose how you deal with them...I have a baseball field in my head and when those 'unwanted' or 'intrusive', in my case, thoughts pop up, they manifest as baseballs, I smack them out of the park shouting "Be gone, you do not serve me"..but hey, lifes good in my head....

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I like the way you deal with unwanted thoughts and I am glad it works for you.

Getting rid of unhealthy thoughts is like weeding a garden. Stay on top of it and our minds will be in a great place!

Thanks

Jody

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That's the thing with a 'fertile'mind there will always be weeds, that's ok thoug as long as we have green fingers.

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Hi Jody
We are all in the same boat.... but you know what? We are going to make it to the final line because we are determined to make it happen for us and our family :๐Ÿ˜Š
Itโ€™s encouraging to see what others feel, have felt, and then see them succeed ๐Ÿ˜Š
Keep up the good fight, I wish you great success at WA.
Josie

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Hi Josie,

Thanks for sharing your determination to succeed.

I would expect for the vast majority of members family is one of the biggest motivations to succeed.

We will join those who went before us by staying true to the path we are on now.

I look forward to seeing you achieve your dreams!

Jody

Hi, Jody yep you are not alone we all feel the same way. I believe that we all can do this. I believe in you. Have a great day.๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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Thank you Nkaujzeb, I believe also we all can do this. You will succeed in achieving your goals!

Keep smiling!

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Thank you!๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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Jody,
EVERYDAY!! But I enjoy arguing with myself!
Shaunna

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Thank you.

Been there, done it and got the T-shirt.
Alister

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But did you take pictures?? LOL

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Thank you!

Thank you Joy for an insightful post. Great advice.

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Glad you found it informative MBartley! Have a great one!

Great

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Thanks!

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Great job! Keep up the good work. Take care

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Thanks David! All the best to you.

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