Why People Leave Affiliate Marketing
Giving or Earning
I was going to call this short blog Giving or Earning, however I think what I am going to talk about goes further than that.
Lately there have been a few people leaving , and I’m not talking about those that are successful or perceived as successful.
I am talking about those that come and kick the tires, maybe stay 3-6 months or longer, are not successful, lose interest and leave.
I started to think it was a generational thing. When you look around there are quite a sprinkling of grayer haired people, my self included.
Although I have “flecks” of gray finely accented to show the majestic skull underneath.. lol…hahaha.
When I was growing up, black and white TV, dinosaurs etc. we did everything ourselves because our parents were at work.
But we did things, we achieved goals. Even if it was just something small. At school our generation was taught not just facts but where to find things.
But now everyone gets help and a reward for participating.
I'll Get it For You.
Have you ever had someone say" What would you like I'll get it for you"
And we are not talking about something small, like coffee or cake.
They carry on to say, "I've been lucky and this is just a bit of payback" But you know there is no payback, because you did nothing for them.
After thinking about the offer that could possibly be one of the worst things a good friend could say to you.
A lot of people would probably say I'm crazy. I can hear them saying, "You're Crazy"..why don't you just say something you really want.
For example, I have always wanted a house in Japan about40-60 minutes out of Tokyo. ( It is something I am planning to buy as I have plans for this house, at the moment you can get something cheap, a fixer upper)
So why not just accept the offer of this gift. Let's say you mentioned it before and he/she said, I've got you on this one.
What’s wrong with that.
Death of the Dream
I think it is probably the worst thing a friend can do.
What you are doing is cutting out that feeling of achievement after expending the effort to get to the goal. Things we did when we were younger.
Now I believe that a lot of parents and family will step in and help but possibly crush that feeling of achievement and attainment.
And doing this will set them up for failure in the future as there is no reward system activated internally to give that “ buzz” of success.
So next time you think about giving something for nothing you may wish to think again.
( And this is in no way the same question as to helping the homeless, that is a completely different question)
Stevoi
The Pondering Parrot
100% Written by Human Hand.
Found this in a coffee shop in Go Vap HCMC.
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It's all about finding a way through the roadblocks we inevitably encounter...taking a step back now and then...assessing where we are (over a stiff drink or 7) and moving forward!!!
There is no right or wrong in this game for me Stevoi, but.... I am sure that the only way we fail..... is when we give up!!!
Keep on keeping on buddy!
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Never say die buddy.
What do you mean 7…. Not getting soft on me are ya…lol
Actually off the grog at the moment, been sick for a month and lost my voice last 5 days. Just getting it back today….myst ask it where it went..lol….probably had more fun than me..
Keep on rocking
Stevoi
Participation trophies, in my opinion, give the wrong message. If you don't learn how to achieve even the smallest goals in life then your life will constantly be filled with regret.
Learning what to do when there are no clear instructions but a clear goal will help a person start to look for and find the answer to the question. You may find some wrong answers but that will only challenge you to look harder and deeper for the best answer to the problem.
Jerry
Great post, Stevoi! And spot on!
"“flecks” of gray finely accented to show the majestic skull underneath" 🤣🤣
Thanks for your words of wisdom!
Tim 🎼
lol, I will send a signed photo…my left side is much more aristocratic…obviously the one Kyle saw before making me Ambassador.. all now down to the might….
Huh huh huh. Where am I
lol
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It's not generational, it's human. It's lonely. I feel lonely here sometimes, that's why I reach out and try to talk to people. Many think they have to figure this out by themselves... that everyone is trying to cheat them out of an idea. If we'd all work together and help each other succeed and push each other, we'd all be in a better place. If I felt my environment didn't foster success, I'd probably go somewhere else too. Just what's on my mind right now...
I think it’s human to feel lonely. Albeit I am very comfortable in my own skin and don’t need the affirmations
of others to feel good about myself
However, affiliate marketing can be a lonely road. It does take time but you will find others that will support you.
Overall I believe this is the best community for people sharing and giving advice and ideas with no expectations of reward.
But if you ever feel like you need advice or help please feel free to ask, and if I can offer advice or ideas I will gladly do so.
Steve
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"But we did things, we achieved goals. Even if it was just something small. At school our generation was taught not just facts but where to find things."
I've got your participation trophy for you...
We are resourceful, responsible, and quit isn't in our vocabulary.
Snowflakes, here's your safe zone.
These are all Things The Boomer Blogger Would Say.
But as a friend, I will help you out if you are struggling. Expecially if I have "made it". Reach out and help those around you. Am I purchasing the house for you, no. I may help with the down payment if I had it, I would help you move in. We are friends.
I worte about this before, as a person who is promoting Wealthy Affiliate, I hate when people just quit. Did you quit because it was too hard? You probably quit everything you attempted. But I will ask you,
Do you believe in what you are doing? Is your "Why" your motivation?
Then why are you quitting? Money doesn';t grow on trees, you have to earn it. What would you do for $25K a month? People are making it. Find them, follow them, emulate them.
Chasing the money will not work. You will never find the money. Master your craft, and people will find you, and the money will too.
Did you quit because you weren't heard when you were asking for help. That is a community failing the individual.
I am not sure if that is the Boomer in me or the military in me. Leave no one behind. But kill a dream, never, help fulfill the dream, most definitely.
Did you quit because you found a new path that you believe in, I support your decision, just don't be a stranger.
MrDon
The Boomer Blogger
I was just about to hit send when I got distracted with with another project. The second image is a screen shot of an X Reply. Do you still say tweets? How appropriate.
It was somewhere around Fresno when the"ether' began to kick in.. Bats what bats, these were Pterodactyl..lol.
Never leave anyone behind. Helping someone stand again is one of the best feelings, both on and off the field.
Stevoi