The Customer is Always King

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"The Customer is Always King", I'm sure you have heard this phrase on many occasions." but it certainly bears repeating.

Here's a lesson of what not to do as a representative of a successful business. Or to make sure what your employees should never do.

We ALL enjoy going out to have a nice dinner at a reputable dining establishment with our friends and loved ones every now and then.

Although we have experienced varying degrees of service, we do expect a certain minimum amount of courtesy from our waiters and hospitality service staff, especially when we know a restaurant has a good reputation.

So I'd like to know, has anyone here ever had an experience at a fine restaurant like this?


What was HE thinking?

Well one evening while on vacation in St Maarten, my significant other and I went to a reputable dining establishment with our friends Barbara and Bill to a place called Port de Plaisance.

Incidentally, our friends have known the establishment owners for quite a while, as she and her husband have been long-time customers.

We finished our appetizers which were excellent, and waited a long time for the main course. This was not a problem, as longer wait times are to be expected when good food is prepared and made fresh. And we were all having nice conversation.

Finally our main course arrived. Our friends were having duck confit, my partner seafood and foie gras, and I was having a special aged rib-eye steak.

After taking a few bites, I found that my rather expensive aged rib-eye was too chewy and unacceptable. Our friend Barbara observed I am having trouble cutting and chewing the meat, and suggested I send the food back.

Normally I would do this on my own without hesitation, but didn't initiate the idea on this occasion. However on Barbara’s behest, I called the waiter over.

I politely explained the problem with my meal to the waiter, "Sir, I'm sorry but this steak is way too chewy and I can't eat this. Would you mind taking this back and making another one please?"

That's when something very surprising happened.

Instead of adopting the correct and appropriate "Customer is always right" attitude by taking the steak back without question, the waiter insisted that he see proof that the steak was unsatisfactory, and asked me to cut the meat open for his inspection not once, but at least 5 times in different places !

By my third cut, he hovered over me and continued his rude interrogation while inspecting the meat while I complied without argument.

After additional deliberations and questions that seemed to last an eternity, finally convinced he reluctantly agreed to take the food back and bring me a new cut of meat, which the second time was done quite well and to satisfaction.

Barbara later commended me for acting pleasant and maintaining control with the waiter, even though he reacted rude and inappropriately to my request.

What I found out later was that Barbara complained to the restaurant owner who she knew well, and the waiter was reprimanded harshly by the owner, and later was fired.

The Customer Is Always King

There is a valuable business lesson here to be learned. The Customer is Always King, particularly when you have a new customer that is highly recommended by a long time return customer.

Under no circumstances is it acceptable to interrogate your customers. Ever.

Never do this or allow your employees to and risk alienating your past and future customers. Especially if you want your online or brick and mortar businesses to survive and thrive.

You will certainly lose your following one piece at a time. And such actions will damage your reputation irreparably

Remember, the Customer is Always King!

Thank you so much for reading, and I would love to hear your comments and experiences.


Cheers,

Kaju

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I have had my share of experiences that leave me cold. I don't try to remember them for very long - life is, indeed, short.

That experience you had was not a pleasant one, to say the least!

(I probably would have ordered a different dish the second time, maybe a little more expensive just to make the point I was not pleased at all!

Your last sentence crossed my mind, Mickey but I still really wanted the rib-eye. Really foolish behavior on his part.

yeah! (I am assuming you did not leave a tip!)

You assumed correct!

A very good example of the wrong behaviour, I'm not surprised either he got fired.

Carol I appreciate that you can see how telling this example is of terrible behavior.

Don't know the point this waiter was trying to prove, but its a perfect lesson of what NOT to do, and how not to act in business.And he ultimately paid the price.

Interesting story that proves your point. I've never seen a response like that before...not surprised he got fired. Debbie

I was totally stunned Debbie, and was too much in shock to get angry. I kept my cool. But in the end, he damaged himself beyond repair.

A great business lesson here.

Yep the customer is always king. That's absolutely outrageous the way you were treated. You did well to keep your composure.

Yes it was Rose, but at the time I was more perplexed than angered. I was thinking to myself "Is this guy for real?" .

Thanks for sticking by my side.

Very True indeed! And how much if any tip did you leave?

I normally leave one even if the service sucks because I have worked as a server many years ago, but then again, I never treated any customer that way..atrocious!

Cindy, I believe I did leave a tip but only the minimum.

I can appreciate how you may have empathy for servers, as you were one many years ago, however this guy was completely out of line!

Thats very true, the customer is always king and right. This builds trust and loyalty and gives you an even better reputation.

Mario

That's right, Little Wood. Whether we agree with the customer or not, the customer is definitely king and we need to treat them as such.
After all, they don't need to give you business, they could be giving the business to your competitor instead of doing YOU the favor.

Very true a maxim in marketing. Sometimes the customer is ignorant of a valid requirement. It is then the duty of responsible management to diplomatically educate him right Kaju!

Absolutely Mike, they must be educated!

Very well said young man !!!

This truly happened. Thank you!

You're very welcome

Kaju I spent 35 years in the restaurant and hospitality and the stories I can tell.
The saying we use is 'the customer is always right'.
The customer is not always right, the problem is that if you are going to build a business on repeat business the customer mast always be right. That's just part of doing business.

That's true, the customer is not always right, but if you want your business to succeed long term (except under the most egregious of circumstances) the customer must be always right.

In this case, there was absolutely no reason for this. Bad.

Amen, those words are gold, money in the bank!

wow!! That's unbelievable!! I mean I believe you..lol, but I have never heard of a waiter treating a customer that way!!! If my food is not served well, I'm afraid to complain in case they spit in it, or do something worse to it...lol (imagination here)

I wish it weren't true Terry, but YES this EXACTLY happened to me in St. Maarten. You cannot make this up! I was basically interrogated.

Never before and never again has this happened. And you are right, a vindictive waiter can really sabotage your order!

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