Are You Ready? Cause I am!

byiJared

1.4K followers

5 years ago

Hello WA!

Yes I feel different today! I am excited and I hope you are too! For whatever reason!

In the last few days I have felt some very cool changes and I want to share them with you for a couple of reasons.

First, you are my family here. I feel an attachment to this community and the core people here I believe continue to set stunning examples of how to succeed at affiliate marketing and making money online.

Second, I want to pay it forward. I am grateful for my situation in life and I want to share.

Third, I have recently learned a few things about how my brain works and it turns out that as human beings, we learn faster when we attempt to teach what we learn, to others! Did you already know that? I didn't! But it makes senses right?

So here I am today, trying to catch up in all things we call life and make some new plans and goals.

Time to make some achievements.

In the last 30 days, I sold my house for cash. A decision made after quick calculations, personal mental health assessents around the death of my wife, and my future.

I have cleared my debt which included the first mortgage I had taken out to invest in my own delivery company with an App like SkiptheDishes.

I found a safe place for me and my 6 pets, my children. I enrolled in a brain hack class and I moved.

The last week of my life in particular has been the most enlightening. I am learning many things about myself and what is really important in life. And it's not money.

I would give everything back, and pay more to have my wife back.

But it doesn't work like that. I am still here and I am learning to be kind to myself. As we all have a story to tell.

All of these things lead me here and I am so very fortunate to have the opportunity to share.

Because I sold my house, I am not rich in this world by any means but I can tell you this; I can now find any excuse to not do what I am about to write about.

Today, I want to share my real priorities and let you in on some of the brain hacks I am learning.

The key to remembering something, like somebody's name! A lot of people have a trouble with this.

Remember MOM

Motivation

Our minds are super computers and your mind listens in on everything you are thinking all the time. If you tell yourself that you are going to forget a name because you always do. Well, you are going to forget.

You have to find a motivation for why you want to remember. Give yourself reasons it is important to remember this persons name when you meet them. This of course is so crucial in sales and creating relationships, you never want to forget a new customers name!

Observation

I think we all suffer a great deal from this one. Selfishly, I am guitly of not listening to hear a person, but listening to respond. This means I am not giving the other person the respect of the conversation, sometimes even interupting to say what I am thinking.

When we listen, we need to be paying attention and hearing the answers and the responses from the people we are engaged with. Only in observation and having an open mind to receiving new information can we actually remember it in the first place.

The same letters that spell listen also spell silent.

Mechanics

Remembering that there is a science behind all of it. Knowing that your mind and your brain works in certain ways and then adopting those patterns into practises.

Like everything else that works, there is usually repetition and routine involved so this all becomes habitual with you.

I suppose the first part of MOM is what is leading the way with most of my new found zest.

In moving and considering why I had to leave my environment, I had to look at my motivations. I don't mean just remembering somebody's name either.

I am still realizing it now, but it makes sense.

I am also learning to be kind to myself. It is scientifically proven that if we accept we are human and actually give ourselves credit for even the smallest of gains in life, we wil do better psychologically then if you beat yourself up about not getting stuff done.

In our heart of hearts only we can know whether we are being lazy in life, or just need better time management. For example, do you find yourself losing a few hours scrolling Facebook instead of writing a blog?

That isn't exactly being lazy, but you are not accomplishing your work, which can give way to finding reasons to be negative with yourself.

My motivation is very simple. I love the feeling...being alive. Just is, breathing is living.

I want to reach my potential in life, still unknown and only capped by my own limitations if I allow them.

I understand my priorities and even better I am becoming clear on the vehicles and means of sharing my message.

Wealthy Affiliate is the answer for anybody looking for a place to learn how to make money online.

It is also a place where who will find the most positive, supportive, like-minded community on the internet. I challenge anybody to show me a more honest, proven, successful offering on the internet.

Whether you are an affiliate marketer, a web designer, a freelancer or anything in between, want to learn passive income and life skills online, there is no greater value.

I want to do a little bit of everything. I know that's why I am here. I have been doing a little bit of everything since I got here.

My blogs of being inconsistent and holding myself back, are going to become a thing of the past. Learning from them, seeing and understanding what makes me tick so I can continue to build on the positives. Any time I may have been hard on myself, I remind myself, that I have acheived success amid the failure to be standing here today.

I love WA and I have a website dedicated to it. I have lost track of the focus of that site over the years and I have created unneeded stress because of it. It was all learning curve though.

An Affiliate Marketing site that sells options to join WA and other like-minded viable resources should be just that. Not mixed with personal opinions of world events or vastly different topics. There may be those who disagree and are successful, the definition of all this works differently for every individual.

I believe if I follow the courses, from the first step, like I should be I can be more successful here at WA. That is with the Affiliate Bootcamp Course.

As for a niche site. I love my pets and my mothers story of being a compassionate professional dog groomer is something to become a labour of love.

I understand the passion and the motivation behind just wanting to learn new things and adapt new responsibilities as a pet owner. I want to share this information. The affiliate marketing is a cool bonus as a monetary reward. I really hope to just enjoy the time spent with my pets more too.

This leads me to justlovenobs.com

My life story in ways, and still so many unwritten chapters. I was married to Nicky for almost 20 years, and not with a piece of paper. Seems important to me to mention.

I have always confused where to put my passions, my desires to share with the world my emotions and my thoughts. This has caused what seems chaos and failure in the past but now I realize that it is all part of this treasure we call life.

This isn't about money or monetization. This is just love and no bullshit about life and it gives me that chance to off advice and motivation. Whether I am an actual authority or not, is like anything, a matter of opinion. I want to help people find happiness within themselves. I think absolutely anybody can be an authority on kindness.

We all have a story and we all need to learn to be kind to ourselves. Live and learn.

It would seem that everything is forming in my eyes. I am in awe of the great accomplishments, the outrageous failures and happenings in my journey on this earth so far.

I am extremely grateful that I am able to find the strength and the energy to want more in my life and hopefully be able to empower more people as I go. I am almost greedy and selfish in my own desire to pay life forward.

There seems to be so many people out there who are capable of so much, they struggle to find the light within themselves. And often, it only takes one moment, one act at any given time to change a persons life fundementally. You never know in life where or how the help can come. You also never know in life when you will be given the opportunity to be that change in a persons life. So create your chances as much as you can.

Thank for being here today and sharing with me. I am selfish in my sharing because I want to learn as many new things as I can in my journey moving forward.

I thought I was alone but I am not. I have no debt, a new business and a online world that has a foundation to spread love to anybody willing to read or listen.

So I am throwing down my own gauntlet, because once again I have broad brushed my plans a little bit. I have been hard on myself for doing that in the past. Not today.

This blog is steps towards new goals and creating new habits that will compliment, as I said, everything that has brought me forward to this point in life.

My most personal goals at the moment, hitting the gym at 4-5 am. I like working out first thing for the day because it gives me this huge feeling of accomplishment and gets me juiced for getting stuff done. Studies also show, working out in the early am can result in a deeper sleep.

Exercise and sleep. Hold myself accountable to those things, channel my motivation into following these steps and run my online app.

I have my work cut out for me, but it's not work, right?!

Seriously, thanks for reading today. I sincerely hope you found something in here that might help you smile if you needed it.

Let's Make Money Online!!!