So grieving happens when we lose someone near and dear to us and losing the person that you thought you would spend the rest of your life with(whether through death or divorce) is enough to send you into grief mode. Your emotions will be all over the place until you are ready to get on with the business of living life to the fullest again. These emotions are normal and we all process pain differently. Some people will hurt a few days or weeks but some struggle with the pain for years. I can

Divorce means change and your life has certainly changed. So create new traditions this year. The holiday may be a strain on you emotionally and traditionally to try to recreate Christmas as you previously knew it.You maybe feeling guilty about your kids having to go through a divorce and feeling that you must overcompensate to give them the kind of Christmas they have always had but your budget is not in alignment with this decision.Give your kids more credit than that, if you sit down and t

Are you feeling paralyzed? Overwhelmed and not sure what you will do now. Breaking up, separating and divorce can all be challenging; especially during this time of the year, The holidays. If you're like me, I always had this vision of what the holidays were suppose to look like and it wasn't being alone but guess what? You may not have what you envision at this time but look at it( your current situation) as time to heal, time to grow, time to plan for your future. This is a time to be opt