First WA Criticism and I'm $@$@#

I've been a Wealthy Affiliate member for a couple of years but I've only been active for about one year. The story I'm about to tell is why I limit my association with people on the internet.

I saw that my latest blog posts needed some comments so I tried the site comments platform for the first time in a while. There was only one blog on which to give a comment and it was not a topic that I'm really interested in. I should have gone with my initial instinct and just skipped it, but I needed the credit so I read the post and picked out some points that I thought I could use. I added the comment which I believe was an appropriate length and contributed as much as I could considering that I'm no expert on the topic. The author requested comments from all four categories so I gave overall feedback which went beyond "great post".

So, this morning I get a notice that the comment was disapproved. Okay. Then I read the feedback. They said my comment was too general. Okay. Then they added that I should go through Kyle's tutorial on giving feedback correctly.

I'm ready to blow a gasket. Don't get me wrong. I'm not some spoiled kid who can't take criticism, but I don't appreciate when people go out of their way to make you feel like an idiot and disguise it as "helping". Sorry, but you're not my boss.

I've given close to 20 comments, all have been approved with appreciation for my efforts. If a comment isn't what you're looking for, just leave it at that. Don't tell someone they don't know how to give proper feedback. I think this platform is based on the personal taste of what you're looking for. Are you that insecure with yourself that you need to insult others to feel big?

Then, I get in the email that if too many comments are rejected you're banned from the platform. So, my comment doesn't fit someone's taste and I get threatened with getting banned?

I've gone through the trainings and I don't promote WA, I'm actually an education blogger. Maybe this platform isn't for me anymore. I'm paying 50 a month for site hosting basically. I really don't need this, I can get comments off Facebook.

I've already seen the issues with abusive speech on the live chat, which I don't use. But maybe there should also be a training on giving appropriate feedback. I just feel that I went out of my way to try to help someone and I got slapped in the face.

I think it goes without saying that I WILL NOT be using SiteComments anymore.

I don't know, maybe I do sound spoiled but I swear I'm not. Thoughts?