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(The header image depicts two scenarios: one with ambiguous gesturing through frosted glass and another with two people in clear, direct conversation.)
Let's talk about communication for a sec. Have you ever asked someone for something in a roundabout way, kind of hinting at what you want instead of just coming out and saying it? Maybe you were worried about being too forward or didn't want to put them on the spot.
But you know what? That guessing game rarely ends well. All too often, it just leads to confusion and hurt feelings on both sides. The truth is, when you need something, the best policy is to say it plainly. "Hey, can I get your help with X?" Or "I was hoping we could do Y."
That way, no one's left playing mind games. You'll get a clear yes or no. And regardless of the answer, at least you know where you stand. Establishing clear boundaries in a relationship is so important for building trust and respect.
I'm definitely guilty of trying to soften requests at times. But I've learned that it's better to be upfront. Playing hints and games may seem easier in the moment, but it usually just breeds resentment down the line - both toward the other person and toward yourself for not being honest about your needs.
At the end of the day, strong communication is the backbone of any healthy relationship, romantic or otherwise. It's about taking responsibility for your words and actions instead of skirting around what you really want to say. It's Communication 101, but so many of us could use a refresher!
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Real honesty is so rare! Most of us compromise constantly, shilly-shallying, as you say, misleading and over-protecting others, etc.
But it does all come down to the words we choose I think. Yes, it’s all about content!
Actually, I’m constantly amazed that we manage to communicate at all given that we each have our ideal universe at our fingertips to absorb ourselves in!
Abi+, I’m so glad you brought this up!
We need more courage to be unswervingly devoted to our creativity, values and judgements. Then the world would be very different.
Blessings & toasted eggplant. 😉
Kudos to you, Lindi :)
The same as I said to Steve... They may need Communication and Relationships 101 - Be that initiative... 🤣
You are welcome, Lindi - And yeah! I love my eggplants 🍆🍆🍆😍😍
I have a few relatives like this, Abie. We may chat once in a while, but I can tell when they really need something- they try to butter me up, with all this beating around the bush nonsense.
Be blunt. Get to the point!
I mean, when I want something, I come right out and ask.
My two cents.
Isaiah 🙂
I love your statement, " I can tell when they need something." 🤣"Get to the point"—precisely that.
The same here... I can also smell bullsh^t from miles away... Read people... Etc...🤣 It is funny...!
Thank you, Isaiah! I appreciate you.
Hi Abie
I totally agree that it’s imperative to communicate clearly and precisely.
It keeps things in perspective and supercharges our chance of success!
Excellent communication can be more challenging in personal relationships, but it’s just as important as in business deals, if not more so.
My wife and I are two very different people, but we have made our relationship work well for 28 years with love, caring, and the understanding that only effective communication can provide.
Happy Saturday! 🥳
Frank 🎸
Yup, totally! I am really happy for you guys... You have done well.
Your feedback is top-notch and profound... It is effortless if folks get to try...
Thank you, Frank! Happy Saturday weekend.
Hi Abie
I know that Stacy likes to see a Sci-Fi movie on a rainy day, and then there's a surprise party for my brother-in-law's birthday later tonight.
We got him a 1/11th-scale exact model of a Harley motorcycle that he'll love!
Looking forward to it! 😎
Frank 🎸
Quite productive. Today is a day to keep out of the wind and rain and get some other jobs done.
How about you.
Currently, I am focusing on a task that needs my attention pronto :) Later, if the weather is excellent, we may go for a drive...
Yup, we may also have a meal outdoors, Alfresco... We'll see. Thanks, Bux; I appreciate you.
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True, true. Thanks