Roller coaster effect

Last Update: March 22, 2018

Roller Coaster of Emotions

By Paul Murray

I go through a roller coaster of emotions during my SuperAffiliate training. I will be excited and optimistic for awhile, a few days orso, and then I will become discouraged and pessimistic for an equal amount oftime. Anybody else out there go through the same?

I get excited about each step forward, however small, andthen I become depressed when nothing more exciting happens. I received acomment from somebody outside of Wealthy Affiliate, and I became super-excitedat this small but important accomplishment. But then somebody told me it mightbe spam. It sure didn’t read like spam, but I nonetheless became disheartenedand discouraged once again.

The one thing that would cure me of depression permanentlywould be to start making sales. It is encouraging to read about other peoples’first sales and successes, but ultimately I need some of my own.

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Desiverion Premium
Nope...cuz then your happiness is based on sales. Your happiness comes from within first. you must be happy AND thankful for what you have and in the meantime you have set your sights even higher. Why do you want to have money? Freedom? Stability? Free time? Are those the things you truly want?
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Desiverion Premium
And naa bro...Like we have a site geared toward healing crystals. Healingcrystalstheirmeanings.com... We became an Amazon affiliate...just google become an amazon affiliate...set up the account then use their links to find relevant products to your site. Copy and paste the affiliate link on your site...then every time someone clicks through....even if they dont get THAT product any product they buy through your link you get paid for
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RitaAnn Premium
Hello Desiverion, I wanted to check out your link on this page: but was unable to find the site.

RitaAnn~
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JeannineC Premium
Are you only using Amazon, or are you using other merchants too?
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PMurray1 Premium
I have no idea how to get on Amazon. Is there some connection between Amazon and Wealthy Affiliate? I'm not aware of any. I hear people talk about selling on Amazon, but I'm assuming that they are not selling WA memberships on Amazon.
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JeannineC Premium
They aren't selling anything on Amazon. Instead they are promoting Amazon products on their site, hoping that their readers will click through and buy something which will earn a commission for the site owner.
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PMurray1 Premium
I'm still confused. Thank you for your answer, but I'm still very unclear what connection Amazon has with trying to sell WA memberships.
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JeannineC Premium
Amazon has no connection whatsoever. I'm talking about people that are building sites which don't involve trying to sell WA.
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verazhelvis Premium
Hi Paul. I understand you. Yes we are made to achieve, to become successful, etc. We get discouraged and disheartened when this doesn't happen. or even when we fail some small things.
But good news is that we can learn to control our emotions and quench the storms inside us. It's very bad for our emotional state and it influences our organs causing various sicknesses.
See , I don't normally do this, but now it's justified , i believe. I want to give you a link to one of my articles on the topic.Here you go:
http://lifetothefull.siterubix.com/emotional-intelligence
Hope it might help.It helped me. I also had a lot of inner storms . Not now.:)
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RitaAnn Premium
Hello verazhelvis, I tried to check out the link you left about emotional intelligence on this page: but it appears it's no longer available. I'd love to read the article if you have it.
RitaAnn~
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JerryMcCoy Premium
It will come. It just takes time.
Jerry
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