Noticing a Significant Change in Someone's Behavior

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Hi everyone,

I only just read today on another platform of a similar situation that happened with Jeff Brown.

A woman reported about an experience with her mom very recently:

On Thursday afternoon, she was her normal self. Everything was fine. She was running errands and helping me finalize some last-minute details.

Then on Friday, I didn't hear from her all day, which I thought was weird, because of how often we talk. Yet I was so busy, I didn't dwell on it.

When we both arrived at the rehearsal on Friday afternoon, I walked right up to her and started chatting, knowing instantly, within seconds, that something was gravely wrong.

She wasn't responding like her normal self. She was extremely quiet. Not engaged. It was like she was there, seemingly aware of what was going on, but she couldn't say anything.

I kept asking her, "What's wrong, Mom? Are you okay?"

And she kept smiling and saying, "I'm fine. I’m fine."

But I knew she wasn’t.

As the weekend went on, things did not get better.

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Long story short, on Monday she was taken to the ER and it was determined that she had a stroke.

Since then she is showing signs of improvement so she might make a full recovery.

Why do I bring this up?

Because Jeff Brown for perhaps 2 months or more after having a stroke was in a fog, but no one realized the seriousness of it until his friend Ron found him on the floor in his house unable to get up.

I will certainly try to bear this in mind as I interact with people in the future.

They need help and they don't know how to reach out to get it.

I hope you are all well and being productive as we go into another FriSatSu.

Happy FriSatSu!

Mel Waller

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Yes you are right. With stroke, if get medical help during that golden hour the chances of improvement is great. Jeff from small town people not aware of the warning signs of stroke. It is good to educate ourselves and watch for the warning signs and get medical attention right away.

If get tPA within the golden hour, improves the stroke and sometimes reverse it.

My Dad had it my Mom knew the warning signs but my Dad was stubborn he refused to go my Mom ignored him forced paramedics to take him. He had ischemic stroke. That caused him to have dysphagia. A year later he died of massive heart attack due to stroke related complications, he was 66.

My Dad had high blood pressure and was stubborn as a mule. He never liked going to the doctor was always in denial. He went to work sick many times. We all had a hard time with him. Dr force him to be on bp meds and take water pill but he often didnt take it so my Mom had to fool him by mixing it in his food. Dad never noticed. We knew he would have short life because he refused medical help.

My late husband was the same way. He died age 67 from Pancreatic cancer. He denied that he needed medical help I had to force him to go.

I know you arent that guy. You often wrote on your blogs here about how important it is to take care of our health.

You are a great example for other men who would refuse help.

Next time you can try to intervene when you see something like this happen to people.

Stroke can be irreversible if treated within that golden hour of onset of stroke symptoms.

The suggestion to check the time seems important for how medical people can treat a stroke victim; Mark reminds us in the comments below.

Thank you for sharing your information.
Sami

Thanks for sharing, Mel!

Yes, when someone drastically has a change in demeanor, it can certainly be that they had a mild stroke. It's more comment than we think.

We all need to pay attention to this with our family and friends.

Have a great day!

Hi Mel,

Last week I had a conversation with a friend from the UK who had posted on his Facebook page the signs that should be taken into account in case of a stroke. (image)

Different factors influence a stroke: a sedentary lifestyle that contributes to obesity and cardiovascular problems, smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and heart disease to name a few. Each risk factor interconnects, creating a cycle that increases the likelihood of stroke. Age and family history could also be taken into account.

Knowing the signs is important but more important is PREVENTING as much as possible!

Thanks for sharing Diana!

Mel

My pleasure. Enjoy your weekend!

Yes, education helps thanks for sharing that.

You welcome. Nowadays, almost everyone has access to education and knowledge, but too few put them into practice.

Hi Mel

Please do not hold yourself responsible in any way for not recognizing the potential seriousness of Jeff's condition during your phone conversations with him.

God willing, and with the proper medical care, we can all be hopeful that he will recover. 😎

Frank 🎸

Thanks Frank.

I realize our phone conversation wasn't enough. It wasn't until contact practically ceased that I at least knew something was up. Also, he had even been to the VA hospital for some routine tests and they didn't notice it at the time.

Mel

Yeah, that's a good way to look at it, Mel. 😎

TIA symptoms can be intermittent and fleeting before a CVA.

Frank 🎸

Know the signs:
F.A.S.T.
The American Stroke Association developed F.A.S.T., an easy-to-remember acronym that can help you spot a stroke in yourself or another person.

F – Face drooping – Is one side of the person’s face drooping or numb? When the person smiles, is the smile uneven?
A – Arm weakness – Is the person experiencing weakness or numbness in one arm? Have the person raise both arms. Does one of the arms drift downward?
S – Speech difficulty – Is the person’s speech suddenly slurred or hard to understand? Is the person unable to speak? Ask the person to repeat a simple sentence so that you can listen for slurred speech.
T – Time to call 911 – If any of these symptoms are present, dial 911 immediately. Check the time so you can report when the symptoms began.

Thanks for sharing Mark!

Mel

You are correct, it is within that golden hour. It can be irreversible if treated with tPA. Education is the best tool to be aware of the FAST warning signs. My Dad had it. My Mom knew it. Forced him to go. See my story in this post.

Thanks for sharing, Mel. Frightening stuff!

Tim 🎼

You're welcome Tim.

Mel

Hi Mel
It's great that you highlight this.
I believe strokes are notoriously difficult to predict and nearly as difficult to recognise, other than through noticing changes in behaviour.
Thank you.
;-)
Richard

You're welcome Richard.

Mel

Hopefully not too much damage happened during Jeffs stroke.

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