“What should I name my baby that sounds good with ‘Nkechinyerem’ and means ‘joy’?”

🌍 Why This Is Un-Googleable

1. Cultural + Linguistic Nuance

A name that “sounds good with Nkechinyerem” depends on Igbo language rhythm, tone, and cultural naming practices. Google can give lists of “names that mean joy,” but it won’t filter them for harmony with your surname or middle name.

What “sounds good” is subjective — rhythm, syllable balance, and even spiritual feel.

2. Deeply Personal & Emotional

This is tied to identity, family, and heritage. Baby naming is not just about meaning; it’s about belonging, legacy, and how the name feels when spoken aloud.

The emotional weight makes it specific to your child and family, not a generic list of names.

3. Context-Specific Filtering

If you just Google “Igbo baby names that mean joy”, you’ll get raw lists (e.g., Chimdirimma, Ifeoma, Oluchukwu). But:

Does it flow well with Nkechinyerem?

Does it carry the right spiritual or poetic resonance?

Does it avoid awkward repetition of sounds?

That kind of fine-tuned aesthetic choice is not searchable — it requires human ear + cultural sensitivity.

4. Buyer-/User-Specific

This is like a “customer journey” but personal. You’re not just looking for any name — you’re asking: What name will sound beautiful with the one I already love and honor my culture?

The “best” answer depends on you: your faith, family traditions, and taste.

✅ In short: This question is un-Googleable because it’s not about raw data.
It’s about interpretation, emotion, and harmony between culture, sound, and meaning — something only a thoughtful human (or AI with cultural sensitivity) can help with.

>>> My Deep, Niche-Specific Question

"What internal narratives stop burnt-out creatives from promoting their own work, even when they know it’s good?"


>>> Why It’s Un-Googleable

This question blends psychology, personal identity, emotional exhaustion, and creativity.

It’s not about general burnout tips or how to market artwork.

It’s about the stories people tell themselves (a unique inner dialogue) that block their own success.

Google will give surface-level answers like “take breaks” or “use social media tools.”

But... the real answer lives in the emotional trenches of creative minds.


>>> Bonus: AI’s Answer (GPT-5/ChatGPT)


Burnt-out creatives often carry internal narratives like:


- “If I promote this, I’m just seeking attention ... and that feels gross.”
Rooted in shame and cultural conditioning around self-promotion.

- “If people don’t like this, it’ll confirm my worst fear: I’m not good enough.”
This makes visibility feel like a threat, not a reward.

- “I should be more productive. Why bother showing this if I’m not consistent?”
A perfectionist loop that punishes inconsistency and devalues existing work.

-,“Art should speak for itself ... if I have to explain or sell it, maybe it’s not good enough.”
The romantic myth of the “silent genius” that undermines the need for real-world connection.


✨✨✨✨✨ What helps? Rewriting the narrative:

Promotion isn’t arrogance >>> it’s invitation.

Visibility isn’t vulnerability >>> it’s bravery.

Inconsistency isn’t failure >>> it’s humanity.



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I’ve sat across from dozens of Bigfoot witnesses, and there’s one body language tell they can’t fake. Google can’t find it, AI can’t guess it but I’ve seen it with my own eyes.

The Un-Googleable Question: What Bigfoot Witness Body Language Can’t Fake

I’ve spent years listening to people tell me the impossible. From the Pacific Northwest woods to the swamps of Florida, I’ve sat across from men and women who swear they saw Bigfoot.

And I’ve noticed something Google or AI can’t teach you.

I asked ChatGPT-5: “When a witness describes their Bigfoot encounter, what single shift in their body language instantly reveals they’re telling the truth even before their words do?”

The answers were textbook stuff “micro-fear flash,” “breathing shift.” Useful, but too clinical. A Bigfoot encounter isn’t a courtroom testimony. It’s a moment that shatters reality.

And the truth leaks out in a way no algorithm can predict.

My Answer: The Blank-Out Moment

The one thing I’ve seen over and over? The blank-out moment.

Right in the middle of describing the most terrifying part, a witness’s eyes glaze over. Their words stop. For a few seconds, they’re gone back in the woods, staring at glowing eyes or a massive shadow.

You almost have to call their name to snap them back.

This isn’t just Bigfoot. It’s a trauma response. You see it in accident survivors, soldiers, anyone reliving something too big for words. Memory and emotion collide, and the body just shuts down for a beat.

That’s the tell you can’t fake.

Why This Beats Google

This works because it’s not a fact it’s field experience. You won’t find it in an article or an algorithm. You only learn it sitting across from people, watching their faces, and catching the moment when the story pulls them under.

The deepest truths aren’t online. They’re in the pauses, the drift of someone’s eyes, and the silence when they’re too overwhelmed to speak.

Well, I enjoyed this challenge and had a good laugh. I put my question to Google who couldn't answer it.

Q - How should I restructure my business and investments right now based on early economic signals that most people are ignoring?

I put the same question to ChatGPT - the problem is I work so closely with ChatGPT the answer it provided was almost word for word what I write in blogs. It even provided a recommendation that I join my wealth membership

Then, it asked if I wanted the answer converted into a pillar post or Medium article

I've definitely got a good sales agent and well trained assistant in ChatGPT - 🤣

Ah, mine is surely complex for Google and other traditional search engines, and even AI struggles to understand it because it's a situational question that can only be answered by a human or someone who faced similar situations before.

Q: "What life lessons can I learn from several scapes at a gunpoint as a child, teenager, and adult?"
Google tries to get similar questions instead of answering it. Example, it says:

A: "23 Life Lessons fo Teenagers" and this is not an answer to my question. It failed to try to give me a straightforward answer.

Q: "What life lessons can I learn from several scapes at a gunpoint as a child, teenager, and adult?"

A: ChatGPT-5 gives this answer to the same question:

Surviving several gunpoint escapes at different stages of life can shape you in ways that textbooks, sermons, or motivational speeches never could. Here are some of the life lessons you might carry from those moments:

1. Life Is Fragile, Time Is Precious: When you’ve looked down the barrel of a gun more than once, you stop assuming tomorrow is guaranteed. You learn to stop procrastinating important things—love, forgiveness, dreams—because delay is a gamble with odds you’ve already seen can turn ugly.

2. Fear Is a Teacher, Not Just a Prison: Fear in those moments isn’t just a weakness—it’s a survival alarm. It teaches you to pay attention, read people’s intentions, and sense danger before it announces itself. Over time, you start trusting your instincts like a second set of eyes.

3. Adaptability Can Save Your Life: As a child, you might have survived by freezing or complying. As a teenager, maybe you talked your way out. As an adult, perhaps you relied on negotiation or strategic movement. You learn there’s no single survival tactic—each moment demands a fresh approach.

4. Pride Is Expensive—Humility Is Cheaper: At gunpoint, titles, ego, and reputation mean nothing. Swallowing pride to save your life becomes natural. That humility stays with you afterward—you realize that in most conflicts, walking away is not weakness but wisdom.

5. The Smallest Decisions Matter Most: Sometimes survival hinges on something tiny—turning left instead of right, making eye contact, or saying the right sentence. Those experiences teach you that the smallest, most ordinary choices in life can have extraordinary consequences.

6. Violence Is Random, So Peace Must Be Intentional: Seeing how quickly life can be threatened makes you value peace, not as a fluffy ideal but as a deliberate choice. You learn to defuse tensions in everyday situations before they reach a boiling point.

7. Gratitude Gets Deeper: After surviving again and again, every meal, laugh, sunrise, or hug feels different. Gratitude stops being a polite word and becomes a habit that colors how you see life’s ordinary gifts.

MY ANSWER: "SOMETHING OUTSIDE/BEYOND ME HAS THE ANSWER FOR MY LIFE, NOT ME!"
These answers from ChatGPT-5 are the best guesses ever. They might sound true but they are too general. You can expect such answers when dealing with anyone and everyone. But I am not everyone or anyone. I am John.

Though these are 7 great lessons to learn, they are interconnected, and to be honest, I had no time to even reason as such when someone threatened me with a loaded gun, which happened in 1993, 1994, 2001, and 2014 respectively.

In 1993, I was ten years old, and my reaction was very childish, staring at the man.

In 1994, I actually ran away as fast as I could, and he actually fired about 5 bullets at me, missing me all the time until he either ran out of bullets or he gave up. Or I was further away from him and he thought it was making no sense to keep shooting.

In 2001, the event happened at a very close range where I had to just speak. I didn't stare or ran away because none was useful. And even the way I spoke was not out of fear but concern. In my mind, I was asking, "How long are we going to keep killing each other for no apparent reason?"

In 2014, I was actually very angry at the soldier, almost commanding him to put down his gun. After he took me to the nearby forest where his commanders were seated, they asked me to sit down on a wooden bench, but I almost refused to sit. After siting, the first question the commander ask me was, "Ee muonyjang yin?" Which means "Are you a Dinka?"

I looked at him in the eyes and said, "What do you think?"
He looked at his comarades before looking back at me with anger. I then ended up lecturing them all about the danger they were creating, reminding them that they were supposed to be a national army instead of malitias, targeting people, their civilians, by tribe. I told them I can't rebel against the government comes what may.

But they didn't listen until someone followed us from the car we left by the roadside because the soldier handpicked me from an NGO Landcruiser to the bush. This man was from the Sudan (north) and he was able to prove to them I was a Dinka, and that's when they told him, "Come and take your man," which means they didn't believe in what I was telling them.

Yes, there were different responses in all these incidences, but I feel like both Google and ChatGPT only guessed the correct answers. AI tried its best from the common sense, using human thinking processes, but I feel like this is too generic.

In all these events, I wasn't spared because I did or didn't do a thing. I realized life is not just random. Someone/something mysterious is in charge for mine (life), as well as that of a housefly. That's where I put my trust: God!

Lessons: God has a plan for me to live to this day for His own reasons.

Ah, I have a lot of such stories to tell! I have told them throughout my books, but I need to stand on a stage to just talk about these to inspire, empower, and integrate individuals into the ecosystem of life and existence.

I hope this makes sense.

John