Premium NOT Failure
Now a Premium member at Wealthy Affiliate... Yes !!
Hello dear friends and welcome to my first blog at WA.
In my email of Congratulations and Welcome to WA as a Premium member, Steve Razinski suggested the writing of a blog would be a good idea. I also thought so at that moment of reading but then the heebee's set in and I became concerned as to what to write for a major public audience. Some may call it writers block or writers anxiety.
Ever had that experience, that feeling?
Fundamentals
Knowing that writing IS one of the fundamental aspects of communicating my message here at WA, attracting people to my website, engaging them once they are there and then motivating them to make a purchase or join me as an affiliate, I needed to do something, something to sort this situation.
Action
Recognising immediate action was required, I sat down and did a little self analysis. Vuala, what did I discover? Something I thought I had dealt with a long time back, fear of failure and just to add an extra degree of difficulty, I had some concern regarding commitment.
Now these are just some of the hurdles that many of us face or are confronted by. Hopefully my technique (and there are many I am sure) to deal with mine may help others. As I continue to write this blog I am strongly considering doing a training blog that can be more detailed on what is a very special technique for me. Maybe it should be "My Niche" and a website, now there's a thought!
For now though......
Basically, to deal with my immediate problem, I took a blank piece of paper, I wrote on it " fear of failure ", I have then drawn a rectangle around these words, then drawn 3 horizontal lines through these words from outside the rectangle and then just sat still to feel the tension ease. I then repeated this process for " concern of commitment ", " unexplained fear " and " failure itself ". I also reminded myself " I am a Success "
Reward
The reward that I have experienced is to feel lighter, be much less concerned, be happy in myself and then be able to complete this blog to share it with you guys at WA. It has also freed me to get on with setting up my web site, an important step forward.
The community here at Wealthy Affiliate is truly awesome. You guys warmly welcome and then provide learning, support and friendship. I have connected with folks from many countries and walks of life. Thank you Kyle and Carson for a brilliant concept and program.
You may share this blog with anyone who you know may also be a bit stuck. It may help.
Please feel free to link, share or comment below.
Here's to Great Success.
Recent Comments
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Hi, your blog is great and something that we can all relate to at one time or another. Thank you for sharing!
I went to a boarding school and had to write letters home. It was the hardest thing I had to ever do. Now I write every day. Tom
It will happen. A ghost must have written this blog for you.
wonderful post and we all have our walls to break through to help me over come the lack of courage to do make a tutorial on here I blogged about it so now I have to do it.. the first step in realization and you have done that .. wish you every success with all your goals
Great technique. It does help to know that so many here "have your six"--have you covered. You can really gum it up and you will have support. Kind of unique.....Dick
Hi and you look great in your picture and I see only a positive pair looming at me - failure no way as you will succeed and I am only a
Few days into this but I have been told to blog and that Google is
Watching and you move up n the ranks the more you do so now I
Am blogging every day so go to my site look at what I am writing about and it will give some ideas I know
http://audiophilecables.siterubix.com/
Best regards
Paul
I was stuck and had the same reservations. I just kept training and started to write content on site rubix. I have not published anything yet because I keep proof reading. New at this stuff ...but trying hard.
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Hi Rushton, congrats for the action to start your first blog post. Nice sharing of your thoughts. Here a great quote from Kyle that I like so much and wish to share with you:
"In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure." by Kyle
Yes, "You are a Success"!
Cheers
Jan