Oh dear - our home is being sold
We just got notification that our home of almost 10 years is going on the market!
Well that is a life changer, decision making time and for the 1st time in our lives we are without a plan! To me that is scary, but exciting.
Since I have started here in WA, my (our because I am married) life's outlook is changing because no matter where in the world I (we) are I can still work and earn and learn. To me that is EXCITING.
The scary part is having to get rid of stuff that we took 35+ years to accumulate, time to deem what is important and what is not. Massive job ahead, and that sure changes my winter plans!
The thing is I was hoping to be chosen for Kyle's coaching to become a Super Affiliate, but now with this looming and no home I wonder if I am chosen if I will have to give my spot to someone more deserving! What a difference a day can make. All things happen for a reason, I just don't really know what the reason is right now.
The thing is we live in a city where finding a place to rent is near impossible and the average home is renting for $3000.00+/month. Forget the idea of purchasing because you are looking at $650,000+ for just an average house. So now the dilemma is where to go, as we love our big Canadian Island, but can we really afford to live here any longer, or shall we do what our 4 children and 10 grandchildren have done, move away? Well my WA friends it is decision time in our home!
I wrote a couple of months ago It's all in the Blood post about my brother (younger than I) being diagnosed with 2 types of acute leukemia. He is currently at day 72 post transplant and day 100 is the magic number. He hasn't been back to his home or community since he was airlifted to our BC VGH in downtown Vancouver back in July 2017. He has been displaced and not by choice, we have been displaced and not by my by choice, BUT we have a choice of where we can go, what we can do. I AM SO THANKFUL on so many levels you cannot even imagine!
What road to take?
What door to choose?
The possibilities are whatever we choose them to be.Thanks for allowing me to chat with you all today!
NCH
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We can talk about accepting change, but how powerful the metaphor for change is leaving behind a home and ridding yourself of so many years' stuff? You've embraced change wholeheartedly when you're doing that.
I hope your brother responds well to his treatments in hospital, and that the process doesn't batter him too badly. My best to him.
Exciting and scary at the same time. I've been through a few of those life altering events myself advise is not to look at the big picture but as a step by step journey taking it one step at a time. True, you have to develop a plan but after that it is one step at a time.
We had to move half way across the country and it seemed over whelming at first but all it is is a series of little steps falling into place and somehow they did.
good luck to you but I'm sure you willbe just fine
Hi Craig
We are trying to decide whether or not to move halfway across the country or not! Thank you for the advice. Just one step at a time, and not to try to see the whole picture.
Thank you for taking time to comment, so appreciated!
All the best,
NCH
After reading your blog on positive thinking, I am fully confident in your ability to gather some new perspective on your current circumstances... Likely, life will throw even more challenges your way, but as likely you will meet these and remain grounded.
Best to you...And chins up! Respectfully, David
Thank you
I am generally a positive person, so am looking forward to a great outcome!
Appreciate you stopping by and commenting today!
NCH
Noreen, John F. Kennedy is attributed with saying "when written in Chinese, the word 'crisis' is composed of two characters. One represents danger and the other represents opportunity."
Whenever I am faced with what first appears to be a crisis I always remind myself that there is also an opportunity to be identified.
It sounds as if you are very open to the opportunities so I'm sure they'll present themselves to you.
~Mark
Thank you for your encouraging comments!
Seems like I am always in the new opportunity mode! lol
NCH
I’m glad you’re seeing this as an opportunity. Forced change can be really difficult so you have the right mindset :)
Only yesterday I was reading “Who moved my cheese” - if you haven’t read it, it’s a great little read. You can read the entire thing in half an hour. It’s about forced change and the different reactions that people have, and why.
There’s probably a PDF version of it available if you do a search.
All the very best to you.
Cheers
Melissa
Thanks, Melissa, I will look for it.
Being forced maybe isn't good, but hey it is a new day and a new challenge.
Ever thankful
NCH
Exciting times Noreen. Challenging, maybe....but exciting, definitely.
We based our decision of our last company on being able to do it from anywhere. Now with WA, that won't change. So keep working while you work out the move.
Possible consideration...don't make your next move (or the decision to move) a permanent one. Maybe say, hey, lets go (insert a place that would be awesome) for a year. Put everything in storage and just go. No need to be tied down again until you decide where you want to be permanently.
I have several places in mind I am ready to go test the waters....literally :)
Have fun with it.
Thanks for your comments.
We have actually discussed doing what you have just suggested!
Plan to enjoy every moment!
NCH
Having to move without it being your choice is really difficult, but you seem to be seeing it as an opportunity.
I have been deemed homeless twice in my lifetime through no fault of my own. I did not handle it as well as you are appearing to be.
My heart goes out to you and I hope the door you open is a positive and welcoming one.
With Grace and Gratitude
Karen
Hi NCH,
I know the feeling, we, that is my husband & I, have been moved around a lot. Each time I lose more of my treasurers. Thankfully this rental allows me to keep all my fabrics & sewing gear. Silly really as I only sew to repair these days, it's just hard to throw away good "stuff"
Send some messages to your angels, they will come through for you.
Best of luck with your choices.
Cheers Jae
Thank you, Jae
It is difficult to give up "treasures". The other part is my mother is trying to downsize too, so she wants me to take some of her 'treasures'
One day, one step at a time and we will get this done!
Thanks for taking time to comment today, much appreciated
Noreen
Hello NCH thanks for sharing it's very therapeutic and also extremely renewing to connect with others like ourselves out here in the universe experiencing all that we must. Embracing everything under the same umbrella of acceptance allows us to truly feel and grow in an empowering way, I'll think about you and your family and trust all will work out in the design of grateful choices...many blessings.
Thank you so much for your kind thoughts coming our way as we enter a new phase of life.
We are excited yet cautious and look forward to 2018!
NCH
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I find it amazing that you, on the other of the world to me, have exactly the same issues in your life that we do. Housing is so expensive, rentals are almost impossible to find and the problems associated with such a decision by the owner of the house to sell. All of these problems we face, scary that the world is different yet so much the same.
Hope it all goes well for you and your brother finds a healthy life again.
Thanks
It is amazing how no matter where we are the issues in life seem to be the same eh
Appreciate your kindness
NCH