Hello Guys 'n Dolls,

How are you doing? I hope all is wonderful. I was reading and found some points that we could make adjustments to in our lives. Little things that we might allow to make us less than productive, physically as well as emotionally.

Here they are:

  • Doing everything yourself causes fatigue, constant rush, and the lack of tangible results. Instead, try to delegate, collaborate, accept help and support.
  • Worrying about what people will say, instead focus on what is good for you.
  • The fear of failure holding you back.
  • Complaining doesn't change anything. When things don't go the way you would like, just do the best you can.
  • Unfinished tasks consume energy and attention. You have to decide to execute or give up.
  • Comparing yourself is unproductive. Comparison can leave us bitter, jealous, and insecure.

I welcome your feedback folks.

Namaste

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jtaienao Premium
Hi M,
These are some of the common traps that we can get ourselves caught up in. Trying to avoid these situations will surely result in up being more productive and in a better state of mind. Thanks for the share.
J
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mybiz4u Premium
True words said J. We just need to keep it in our 'forefront' and ACT accordingly.
We are all work-in-progress.
Namaste
M
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drcmaint Premium
Why does some of this sound familiar?
Not to mention, I have no real idea what I'm doing. Seems I'm guess a lot.
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mybiz4u Premium
LOL...ooops.
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Sylvierinu2 Premium
Good points. Some of them apply to me. I just need to keep going. I try not to complain too often : )
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mybiz4u Premium
It has to be an exercise in patience....self- patience.
M
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Roybretton Premium
A few thoughts:

We were not created to do things totally alone.

Worrying will not change a thing, it will only hold us back.

Fear will definitely hold us back and stop us reaching our full potential.

If we don't finish a task, it will always be at the back of our mind or even the front of our mind and we won't be giving our full focus on the things that we should be doing.

Never compare yourself with your fellow human being, just do the best you can and learn from other people and encourage each other.
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mybiz4u Premium
Beautifully said, Roy. Thanks for sharing.
M
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Marlene2 Premium
This has happened to me and this is not for not trying to get others to be a part, some people do not want to work hard and some do not want to wait for the big break. They want to get big money now. Anyway, I am not giving up.
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mybiz4u Premium
Go get 'em, M
M
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Marlene2 Premium
This has happened to me and this is not for not trying to get others to be a part, some people do not want to work hard and some do not want to wait for the big break. They want to get big money now. Anyway, I am not giving up.
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wyeming52 Premium
wow, like reading about myself. Thanks for the reminder...
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mybiz4u Premium
LOL...you are certainly not alone in this one!
M
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loriC1 Premium
I think some of those play a roll in my everyday life.
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mybiz4u Premium
LOL...acceptance is half the battle won, L.
M
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garydlc Premium
Hi Michelle

Valid points, but sometimes complaining is a good method of just venting frustration, I call it therapy, I complain for a while then I continue as if it never happened,

I have never been insecure in my adult life so public opinion of me as a person has never affected me negatively, in actual fact I take it all as constructive criticism, and I use it to improve and strengthen myself.

I only fear GOD, period.

No patience to delegate, others seem to move too slow, so I work hard and play equally hard to combat fatigue.

Unfinished tasks is a form of procrastination, something I have never been a fan of and avoid, I never start things I cannot finish, it is just part of my ethic.

Comparing to others, is a huge time waster as we all have our own pro's and con's this is what makes us unique, being secure in who you are is one of GOD's greatest gifts, whether we accept it or not is up to the individual.

There it is, my 50cent on these matters LOL.

Gary
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ericpierre Premium
Good points Michelle. Especially complaining is a time waster. But also a time killer.
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mybiz4u Premium
Indeed, to say the least.
M
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kasage00 Premium
good points!
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mybiz4u Premium
Thnx, K.
M
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RoriO Premium
Good ones!
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mybiz4u Premium
You're welcome.
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albert22 Premium
All good points. Just do the best you can, as you suggest, and know you didn't give up.
Thanks -
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mybiz4u Premium
Indeed, A.
M
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spurway Premium
Hi, Michelle,

these points are great and so true.
thanks for sharing.
have a beautiful day

Atma Namaste
Sylvia
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mybiz4u Premium
You're welcome, S.
Atma Namaste
M
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