The reason to help!
I hear so many people who have made it, or think they have complain about the poor or the illiterate. (which can in some cases be misconstrued as all sorts of inabilties or even laziness.
I have come across some people who were so insecure that they didn'y know how to approach me for help but I know they had ability and substance (Human Beings).
I gave them help because I could, I was already making money so My decisions was not based on my EGO or Profit.
I could have not helped them because I felt they were using me, but that's it they are using me just like several employers who were loaded and took advantage of my willingness to go above and beyond and not give me even a thanks.
I would rather help those who truly need rather than those who abuse others because they are in "position of authority" or more knowledgeable.
Look at the Internet and how much of it we get for free, some of these people who complain that others want freeness are the first to Click on a freebie.
I am just saying that if you want to help then help, if you don't there is no need the debase them just say "no, I can not help" and get on with your great life and leave them in the mire.
The WA community cannot be made up of people who are in the top 50, there are hundreds of thousands on here and not all of them are professors or internet guru's.
If we help some who is paying thier premiums and successfully achieve thier goals, how much better is that than someone who knows it all.
I am sure there is alot of people who won't agree with me, but I like the slogan "Kindness is contagious not conditional".
I will help anyone that ask me, if I want to and can.
At the moment I am helping myself because I dare not ask lest some "ego" thinks they done it for me and behind my back they are saying "I did that".
I like to collaborate to achieve, but this world is all about "Me, Me, Me".
I don't usually post much but it just gets my goat when someone who is knowledgeable forgets that once upon a time they knew nothing.
on a positive note WA is helping me achieve my goals and the majority of this community have good hearts.
Best wishes to all who can receive, so that they may give.
MelvinS.
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Melvin, I agree with you that the reason to help someone is that they need it and that we are able. It is unbelievable how much we benefit in the process of giving and helping others. All will not appreciate it but some will and they will go on to help others. Best wishes.
Harold
Thanks for your honest and from the heart thoughts. You have helped me out a lot, and I just want you to know how much I appreciate your kindness, time and knowledge. I am learning more and more, and look forward to being able to help any and all, but I do understand your point. Like Michael Jackson sang..."one bad apple don't spoil the whole bunch".
Keep on your good and helpful path and remember "kindness is contagious not conditional" , smile and move to someone willing to help for the right reasons. All the best...Lola
Ditto to you, Melvin.
We'll just keep climbing to the top...and when we reach the summit...we'll climb even higher!
Keep the faith and don't let the turkeys get you down!
Lola
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Melvin,
That is one reason WA is so refreshing and appealing. Kyle and Carson really want to help us succeed. They will always help when they can.
Paula
They are helping us all the time by keeping the whole thing going; but it must be difficult dealing with the volume of questions/queries.
I like to see when someone comments; that they have learned something new or achieved some success from following a tutorial/blog post; it encourages me.
Again "Thank you Kyle & Carson"
Best wishes for success to all at Wealthy Affiliates.
Melvin.