The Cup of Life

byMelissadior

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Updated 1 year ago

Life is like a cup of water. (anyone else in their head like chocolate was better?) Sometimes it is complete, sometimes, it is empty, and sometimes it is somewhere in between. How we perceive the cup reflects how we perceive our lives. Are we optimistic or pessimistic? Are we grateful or resentful? Are we hopeful or hopeless?

For most of my life, I have been an optimistic person. I have always considered the cup half full, not half empty. I have always seen the bright side of things, the silver lining in every cloud, and the opportunity in every challenge. I have always believed that life is a gift and that we should make the most of it.

But lately, I have been feeling down. I have been going through some hard times, which have taken a toll on me. I have been struggling with stress, anxiety, and depression. I have felt like nothing is going right for me, like everything is falling apart, and I have no control over anything. (And please understand I'm here to write this out because this post might help someone one day.)

For the first time, I looked at the cup as half empty, not half full. I looked at it and saw only what was missing, not what was there. I looked at it and felt only sadness, not joy. I looked at it and thought only of the problems, not the solutions. And I looked at it and gave up on myself and my dreams.

I realized that I had lost my optimism and became a pessimist. I realized that I had let the negative thoughts and emotions take over me and that I had forgotten how to be positive. I realized I had stopped appreciating what I had and started complaining about what I didn't have. I realized that I had stopped living my life and begun surviving it. If you have ever dealt with depression, it's survival mode!

I realized this was not who I was or how I wanted to be. I realized that I needed to change my perspective and that I needed to change my attitude. I realized that I needed to look at the cup differently and that I needed to look at life differently.

I decided to look at the cup as half full again, not half empty. I decided to look at it and see what was missing, not what was there. I decided to look at it and feel the joy, not the sadness. I decided to look at it and think of the solutions, not the problems. Finally, I decided to look at it and believe in myself again, not give up on my dreams.

I decided to let go of the negative thoughts and emotions and embrace the positive ones. I chose to appreciate what I have and to work for what I want. I decided to live my life again and not just survive it.

I decided to see the cup as a symbol of hope, not despair. A sign of abundance, not scarcity. A symbol of possibility, not limitation. A sign the cup is half full or half empty, depending on how we see it. And so is life. But sometimes, it is hard to see the cup as half full. Occasionally, we need some help to change our perspective. Sometimes, we need some support to change our attitude. Sometimes, we need some inspiration to change our life.

That is why I am grateful for being in this community. A place where I can find help, support, and inspiration. This community allows me to connect with others who share my interests, passions, and goals. This community is a place where I can learn from others and where others can learn from me.

One of the things that I love about this community is that I can write. Writing is one of my favorite hobbies. Reading and writing are two of the best ways to express myself. They are two of my most powerful tools to improve myself.

Writing helps to clear my mind, organize my thoughts (except for today, I'm all over the place! 😏), communicate my ideas, and unleash my creativity. Writing helps me cope with my emotions, heal my wounds, overcome challenges, and achieve my dreams. Writing helps me to discover myself, understand myself, and grow.

Reading helps me to expand my knowledge, enrich my vocabulary, to enhance my skills, and stimulate my imagination. It takes me to explore different worlds, to meet other characters, to experience different stories, and to learn different lessons.

-Reading and writing help me to open my eyes, to open my mind, and to open my heart.

-Reading and writing make me happy. Reading and writing make me wise. R

-Reading and writing make me better.

(My daily affirmations 😊)

- Conclusion

The cup of life can be half full or half empty, depending on how we see it. We choose to be optimistic or pessimistic. And we choose to be grateful or resentful. Or we choose to be hopeful or hopeless.

So this evening, the cup of life is half full because I choose to see it that way.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. Writing has always been a massive part of my life. And I like reading everyone's posts; I sometimes stay in the shadows because I feel more comfortable there.

Here's my actual daily affirmation that I repeat in the morning:

-You have a unique gift to offer the world. You are talented, creative, and resilient. Your past mistakes or failures do not define you. You are growing and learning every day. You are a beautiful person inside and out.