Stop Selling Your-Self Short with Fear and Self-Doubt.

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Do you ever feel like you're not good enough, doubting yourself and your abilities? It's time to put an end to selling yourself short with self-doubt.

Don’t let the fear of failure get to you when striving for success online. Fear loves to rub it in.

Fear can disguise itself in many forms in your mind; one of the many personas it takes is Self-Doubt

“Self-doubt is fear in disguise. Once you identify those fears, you can fight back – and move forward. Learn more about 6 steps to fight self-doubt”.

Quote from Tony Robbins

You don’t need such negative thoughts running through your head when you want to be better than ever before.

As a result, fear and self-doubt can hold you back and prevent you from reaching your full potential as an online marketer or, in fact, in life in general.

When you allow self-doubt to creep in it can be a major obstacle to achieving personal and professional success and interfere with any goals you may have set or wanted.

So how do we overcome fear and self-doubt?

It may not be as simple as just thinking positively.

There are times throughout life, even when first starting to work online, when uncertainty creates a silent buildup, allowing self-doubt to creep in.

So for some, it can take longer than others.

Remember everyone is different and everyone goes through various stages individually.

Some may be similar but it is an individual effort that makes it different for all.

Fear and self-doubt can work both ways and together.

For some, self-doubt can create a fear of failure, which can result in procrastination and more.

For others, fear of failure can create further self-doubt in one’s abilities or a feeling of lack of abilities, which, if left to continue, will lead to failing or worse, still quitting before you get the chance, which for most is just around the corner.

But when you become aware of what is hanging around you that is causing this, it certainly makes is easier to understand and deal with going forward.

It does require a combination of many aspects, some are self-awareness, positive mindset shifts, along with belief in oneself and more.

Plus, one important aspect is taking action in order to move forward.

They can be used both online and in your personal life. In fact, building resistance to fear and self-doubt in your personal life will boost your chances of success online as you build confidence in yourself and in all you do.

Here are 7 steps, examples, or affirmations you can take to stop selling yourself short with self-doubt:

Understanding Self-Doubt:

Self-doubt is that feeling of uncertainty or lack of confidence in oneself and one's abilities.

It often stems from past experiences, comparisons to others, or fear of failure both now and ahead of time which hasn't happened.

By acknowledging that self-doubt is a common human experience, you then start to separate yourself from these negative thoughts.

Understanding that everyone faces moments of self-doubt can help normalize these feelings and reduce the impact on self-esteem. It will also let you know you are not the only one facing such situations.

Example or Affirmation:

Instead of thinking, "I'm not smart enough to apply for this job," reframe it to, "I may not have all the skills now, but I can learn and grow."

Recognizing Your Inner Critic:

The inner critic is that harsh voice inside your head that undermines your self-worth and abilities.

By becoming aware of when this voice appears and the negative self-talk it brings, you can start to challenge its validity.

As you become aware, knowq that the inner critic is not a true reflection of you. When you do this, it allows for a shift in perspective and brings a more positive self-image.

Example or Affirmation:

When your inner critic says, "You always mess things up," switch the thinking to, "Everyone makes mistakes, and I can and will learn from this experience in the best possible way. Why? Because I am worth it."

Challenging Negative Beliefs:

At times, you will need to combat self-doubt and the fear it brings so it is essential to question and challenge such negative beliefs about yourself.

Ask yourself for evidence that supports these beliefs and consider alternative perspectives.

Don’t worry we all talk to ourselves so nothing abnormal about that.

Then again, some here are crazier than others and not because of talking to themselves LOL

By reframing negative thoughts with more realistic and positive ones, you will gradually change your mindset and build self-confidence.

Example or Affirmation:

Instead of thinking, "I'll never succeed," challenge this belief with, "I have overcome challenges before, and I will do it again. I have the ability to succeed."

Celebrating Your Strengths and Successes:

Acknowledging and celebrating your strengths and accomplishments not matter how small it is becomes a powerful way to boost self-esteem and counteract self-doubt.

By focusing on what you do well, acknowledging the progress you've made, you can build a more balanced view of yourself and your abilities.

Note:

As an online marketer this helps you to build more expertise, authority and experience with your content writing.

When you do, your readers will see this when reading your content and you then begin to show trustworthiness.

Does that sound familiar? think Google E.E.A.T. guidelines.

Example or Affirmation:

Make a list of your strengths and achievements, no matter how small, and revisit it when self-doubt creeps in. Tell pesky self-doubt, “Hey look what I achieved so far and you said it couldn’t be done.

So, eat that self-doubt and crawl back under the rock you came from, and take your fear friend with you.

Setting Realistic Goals:

Setting realistic and achievable goals at the start that align with your values and aspirations can help build confidence and motivation.

By breaking down larger goals into smaller, manageable steps, to track your progress and celebrate each milestone along the way.

Remember before you can earn a million dollars you first need to earn that first $1 so be realistic when setting goals.

You can still have larget goals in mind written but note it doesn’t happen overnight unless you win a lottery even then you need to put something in to get that reward.

The same with online marketing, you need to put and make the personal effort if you want to achieve success online, and it doesn’t happen overnight.

Example or Affirmation:

Instead of aiming to run a marathon without prior training, set a goal to run 1k first, then gradually increase it to 2k and build up your strength and stamina until you can comfortably run a marathon.

Regardless of the task, be it a marathon or working online say to yourself.

“I will complete my task or goals set and work in a positive manner, take proper and positive action until I finish the tasks or goals set. Then once done I will continue to move forward because I deserve this.

By the way, that is my quote in life online or offline.

Seeking Support:

If you are having issues in a personal sense don’t hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or even a therapist if really serious when dealing with fear and self-doubt.

As for here within Wealthy Affiliate just ask questions as you know you have a worldwide community of fellow members only too willing to help each other out.

You are not alone when facing challenges online.

This way you can get a fresh perspective, fellow members can boost your encouragement and show you links that can help you further.

Example or Affirmation:

I know there are no stupid or silly questions, as we are all at different levels of learning. I know that when I ask a question someone at Wealthy affiliate is always around to help me along my journey to success online.

Practicing Self-Compassion:

Self-compassion involves treating yourself with kindness and understanding, especially during times of self-doubt or with moments with fear of failure.

Offer yourself the same care and empathy you would give to a friend facing similar challenges.

This practice alone, can help foster resilience, self-acceptance, and a more positive self-image.

Example or Affirmation:

Instead of criticizing yourself for making a mistake, say to yourself, "It's okay to make errors; I'm learning and growing from this experience."

Final thoughts:

• When you start to understand, recognize and actively address your fear and self-doubts with some of what I gave above.
• You will start to cultivate more confidence and build a more positive mindset that can overcome any challenges faced before you.
• Never give in and always move forward and know you are not alone. We have your back and are always here for you as well.
• Seek support when you need it, we are only one question away.
• Don't give in and always move forward,
• Learn from past mistakes and not live them again. Fix what didn't work and move forward to achieving your goals and desires.

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