Pay it Forward, Law of Attraction, Internet Success the Key

byAlexEvans

11.9K followers

7 years ago

One of the really attractive propositions about Wealthy Affiliate is the ethos of " paying it forward " it is a culture and now a tradition that has so many benefits especially in a learning environment folks helping each other out and sharing their knowledge and support, it just really helps everyone in their endeavors to create that online presence it is truly something very special to be involved in, for the folks helping and the folks that are being helped.

I hear so often that we as members don't own the platform but only pay to be here, I kind of disagree with that one, to me there is a sense of ownership that develops over time, it is like this extended family where we can participate and belong, we do in fact take ownership as we buy into creating our online success, but also helping others or at least making their journey just that little bit easier.

As discussed many times, success is different for each one of us we all have different goals and aspirations we live different individual lives and make individual lifestyle choices.

So where does that success come from?

It is born from that article that is written on waking at 1.30 am in the morning, it is born of watching that webinar at 3.30 am in a different time zone, it is born of working all day long in your day job and then half the night on creating your online presence, it is born of sleep deprivation, it is born of forgoing that social engagement in the weekend, it is born of working that 17 hour day trying to figure out that technical issue, it is born of writing and rewriting that draft, it is born of reading and researching, it is born of producing content, content, and yet more content, it is born of that determination to keep going when all things are falling away from you and that feeling that you may just be in free fall.

“ In the dark of the night and the light of the day you keep going because as someone said " there is nowhere else for you to go or anything else for you to do but focus on your dream.”

That is where success comes from, it doesn't happen overnight, if it does then it does not last because it is built from the wrong energy, you may have observed this in your life and in the lives of others.

Much has been said and written about the law of attraction, some folks say that we attract that which we vibrate, so compatible energies attract each other. this is one part of the equation, there is so much more.

So working hard and investing energy you must become successful, you will find success?

Not so, many folks stop just before they taste success, some get nervous. Why is that so?

The thing about success is that we do not have to go searching for it by its nature success will come and find you, sometimes it will only visit once in a lifetime if we invest the right energy it may arrive many times.

After all the work is done success will come to visit, we need to open the door when we hear it knocking, because success is a fickle thing and if we don't open that door it will go away.

The saying goes success builds success, it is true it creates momentum and that momentum is hard to stop the only ones that can do that is us, we can be the architects of our own demise at times.

An example of this could be content creation, you may be working really hard creating and polishing content, you hit a block or you skip a beat and you wind down, you lose a little bit of momentum, it is hard to build back up, if you have lived there you will know what I am saying.

I know for one that it is hard to keep functioning at a high level of intensity for very, long we all need to find our personal rhythms, the saying goes be comfortable in our own skins, and find that balance.

For some reason that balance is one of the hardest things to find, a wise man said,

“ Know yourself and you will know the truths of the universe “ so I guess that it starts and ends with us?

So when success does come knocking then all the work has already been done it is time to celebrate, for many at that time we tend to push it away or worse still walk away from it.

Why is that so?

We are attracting a return on our investment, I am not saying that we give out energy in order that we get something back, it is way more subtle than that.

So why, what is the key?

Every thing exists as energy, we are energy and we invest our energy for everything to exist there are cycles we are in a cycle right now it is called life and in that life, we are trying to create and live out a lifestyle, for everything to be complete we need to create and complete the cycle in a way we need to ground that energy, every thing functions with a polarity which is strange because positive repulses negative like two magnets pushed together, a simple demonstration.

So the work has been done the seeds are sown the summer has been long and the fields are golden the wind rustles through the heads of grain as the last warm rays of sunshine cast light over the field, it has been a long summers day, it is time to harvest, it is the natural order. On that day folks tend to shy away from it, why because there is one piece of the puzzle missing;

one singular polarity and that is to receive.

To complete the cycle and fulfill the natural order we need to learn to receive, when all that is in alignment then things will be as they should be that is where we find ourselves that is the seat of all that we are, that is the place that we unlock everything....................................................

This may sit with you, it may not it, that is ok .

Invest your time and when it is time to harvest receive the bounty and then share what you have gained and you will find that the cycle repeats its self over and over again.

Enjoy.

Alex