It All Starts With YOU!

byacademyofspi

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9 years ago

It doesn't matter what you want, what your goals or desires are, you must make the effort to create those goals into your reality. It doesn't matter if you are talking about wanting to create your first affiliate website, or wanting to get a promotion at your job, or wanting to accomplish anything else, it is all up to you.

Sadly though, many people live under the impression that if they jump through enough hoops and do this or that, then someone else will do something that will allow them to benefit and it will eventually allow them to get on track to accomplish their goals. They do not have enough self-confidence that they can do things on their own, so they hope that someone else will see that they are worthy and make it happen for them.

Yes, it sounds like crazy thinking to someone who doesn't have that type of thinking. But for those who do, it is really is crazy, but it is their everyday life. They are always trying to figure out how they can do nice things and get noticed by the decision makers, or those they perceive to hold power over them. Most people who have this type of disrupted thinking come from a broken or abused life as a child. They don't have a secure point of view about themself in the world.

I wish I could send a golden key to each person who suffers from thinking someone else is going to unlock the door to their accomplishment. With that golden key I would send instructions that say:
This key does not open any specific doors, but inside you resides the keys that will open every single door that you ever encounter. All you need to do to succeed in this world is to know that you hold the key. You may have to try several different keys from time to time. You may not get the door open on your first several tries, but if you plan well and are persistent you will find the right key and you will be able to enter any door that you see along your path to success. Do not allow anyone or anything to ever remove your key from you, it will never work for anyone else. This key is only for you, and it is the team of you and the key that it will lead you to your success.

I hope that if you have ever seen yourself as anything less that in total control over your future, that you will step up to the plate and hit one out of the ballpark, you have the ability, it is just the self-doubt that stands in your way.

If you have a goal in mind, and the desire that the goal happen, then you have the ability to accomplish it! All humans do, you are no different. That is not to say that there may be a need for some education, and some effort, but it can happen. If you want it to happen - make it happen - no one else will do it for you.

I have written several blogs to help those who have self-esteem issues get where they want to go. Please check them out:

• Am I Good Enough To Run A Succ
• Are You Ready To Be In Business
• Start With The Right Motivation
• Procrastination, puts a stop to everything!
• Designing A Website Is Like Running for Election
• Fretting Over How to Get Started

Wishing you to best as you get your affiliate website up and running!

by: Wendy Mae, Ph.D.
Academy of Spirit