Just Learn an Important Life Lesson

byXeblaRacer

140 followers

7 years ago

As of yesterday, I have learned what I believed to be one of the most important lessons of my life.

"Never pursue anything out of expectation for money."

That's the main reason why I'm here. I wanted to create a second income so I can give myself an easier life. I have no intention of doing any blogging for free. When I tried to start two blogs, my mind began to overload and stresses me out.

Everyone's mind has a different way of dealing with blogging and stress. I tend to be hard on myself because I feel that if I don't do this, I'd be letting everyone who's been supporting me here down. So far, I couldn't bring myself to cope with it. Being a blogger is fun for several people, but it isn't for me. If I can stress myself out at an early stage, I'm terrified to know what I'd become in the future.

And if I was to do blogging, it'd be like this. Talking about myself. Not doing research based on certain niches. I tried to do a horror movie review, but it didn't feel right. It felt more like an obligation rather than to my entertainment.

At this point, I believe everyone should ask themselves this question.

"What would you do if you're not focusing on money?"

A lot of people in this word are driven by money. Their lives would've been entirely different if they have shifted their priorities. They have goals that require money. If you'd only keep your eyes on it, you'll be missing out on what most important to you.

Health, Friends, Family, and Love.

I picked up running because I like being active and healthy. But most importantly, I ENJOY it. I can zone out while running for miles and miles. It's one of the best decisions I've ever made. After two years, I 've reached 13.1 miles aka a half-marathon.

I picked up new skills because I love to learn. Every time I'd learn something new, I'm a step closer toward becoming the best version of myself. May hasn't arrive yet, but I feel like I've accomplished more than I did last year. If that's true, I look forward of seeing how much I'd evolve by the end of the year.

If you're here just for money, don't sign up for Premium membership unless you have plans.

I wouldn't be writing blogs. I'd be lying to myself. The only time I feel comfortable writing is for my fanfictions. My longest is over 400,000 words after five years. And when I'd finish that story, I'm going to start planning to create a novel. (If you want a link to that fanfiction, please let me know)

That's being said, I won't become an Affiliate Marketer here. I know that's the whole point of this website, but sometimes, I need to make a couple of same mistake before cementing it into my brain. I have to look after myself. Mental health is important to me.

This isn't a goodbye. I'll still be here to support you all. To have someone you can talk to if you need it. Until then good luck with your journey! :)