"if one is to lead a successful life" - Lesson 2f: The Self Mastery

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Here is Part F of Lesson 2: The Self Mastery"if one is to lead a successful life."

Everyone is continually receiving impulses that must be directed and controlled if one is to lead a successful life. That is the reason why a person must control the movements of his eyes, feet, fingers, etc.; this is another reason why it is important to control his breathing. The slow, deep, prolonged exhalations are of wonderful value. They steady the circulation, the heart action, muscles and nerves of the mind. If the heart flutters, the circulation is not regular, and when the lung action is uneven, the mind becomes unsteady and not fit for concentration. This is why controlled breathing is very important as a foundation for physical health.

You must not only concentrate your mind, but also the action of the eyes, ears and fingers. Each of these contain miniature minds that are controlled by the master engineer. You will develop much quicker if you thoroughly realize this.

If you have ever associated with big men, or read their biographies, you will find that they usually let the others do the talking. It is much easier to talk than it is to listen. There is no better exercise for concentration than to pay close attention when some one is talking. Besides learning from what they have to say, you may develop both mental and physical concentration.

When you shake hands with some one just think of your hand as containing hundreds of individual minds, each having an intelligence of its own. When you put this feeling into your hand shake it shows personality. When you shake hands in a listless way, it denotes timidity, lack of force and power of personality. When the hand grip is very weak and stiff, the person has little love in his nature, no passion and no magnetism. When the hand shake is just the opposite, you will find that the nature is also. The loveless person is non-magnetic and he shows that he is by his non-magnetic hand shake.

When two developed souls shake hands, their clasps are never light. There is a thrill that goes through both when the two currents meet. Love arouses the opposite currents of the positive and negative natures. When there is no love, life loses its charm. The hand quickly shows when love is being aroused.

This is why you should study the art of hand shaking and develop your social affections. A person that loves his kind reflects love, but a person that hates reflects hate. The person with a bad nature, a hateful disposition, evil thoughts and feeling is erratic, freakish and fitful. When you allow yourself to become irritable, watch how you breathe and you will learn a valuable lesson. Watch how you breathe when you are happy. Watch your breathing when you harbor hate. Watch how you breathe when you feel in love with the whole world and noble emotions thrill you. When filled with good thoughts, you breathe a plentiful supply of oxygen into your lungs and love fills your soul. Love develops a person, physically, mentally and socially.

Breathe deeply when you are happy and you will gain life and strength; you will steady your mind and you will develop your power of concentration and become magnetic and powerful.

If you want to get more out of life you must think more of love. Unless you have real affection for something, you have no sentiment, no sweetness, no magnetism. So arouse your love affections by your will and enter into a fuller life. The hand of love always magnetizes, but it must be steady and controlled. Love can be concentrated in your hand shake, and this is one of the best ways to influence another.


Last Part of Lesson 2 is in the pipeline

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Interesting information.

Thank you so much Juliana.

Success has a very wide range, but the most important one is to be in good health and be happy, all others will follow.

So sweet. I wish you good health. Be happy always

I wish you Wealth too.

Thanks Usibal

You are welcome my dear Lanu.

Thanks, Usiba!

You are welcome my dear Rebecca.

Thanks for sharing this thoughts!
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Ovidiu

Thank you my dear Ovidiu.

Thanks for your informational post!

You are welcome my dear Karin.

Good technique about shaking hand, I will try.

You will enjoy it. Thanks for dropping by my dear Nattawut.

Thank You for sharing this engaging post. There were lots of great pointers to remember. I must bookmark this page now!

Oh I'm so happy that you liked it and that you bookmarked it. Hope you liked the other parts as well. Tonight I'll publish the last part of this lesson.

Thank you for sharing these helpful tips to sail in the river of life, Usiba!

You are welcome my dear Gautam. I guess you noted the 100s of likes you received these day. Hope you be Ambassador soon.

Yes empathy and emotion build the strongest network!

Thank you my dear Michael.

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