Should I do this, or should I do that? This is a question all people come up against at least once in their life. I am a 69 year old female and I can't tell you how many times I've asked myself that question. Most of the time I chose the wrong answer and ended up in a pile of junk. You can dwell on the question for days, weeks or even months and end up doing nothing. Or you can choose to do something and have it blow up in your face. Or you can choose an answer and heave a sigh of relief becau