What is in A name? Or A title?

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A rose by any other name would smell as sweet. Yes I just quoted William Shakespeare's play, Romeo and Juliet because I think people who quote William Shakespeare appear to be smart lol

I remember when I was younger someone tried to test how smart I was by giving me Romeo And Juliet to read and then I should explain what I understood from the book. I read the book but I could not comprehend what the story was about, between thou's and shalt's I lost the plot, but I liked the pictures lol.

Baby Girl What Do We Call Her?

So what is in a name? when I was born, many moons ago, my parents couldn't decide what I should be called, see in my tribe when the first child is born, they are to be named after the farther's parents for example if the child is a girl, then she is named after the farther's mother.

And if the child is a boy he is to be named after the farther's farther, if the first two children are boy and girl, then both are named on the farther side, but if you get two boys one after another, one is to be named on the farther side and the other on mother side but if they are twins they are both named on the farther side.

I am sorry I don't mean to give you a lesson on my tribal practices, and I promise it will make sense and it will tie to Business in a minute I promise.

Please bear with me, I will make my point in a minute, so when I was born, my grandmother on my farther side, had the same name as my mother, and a child can not have the same name as the mother, that is the belief, and also it was considered taboo to discuss names before the child is born so they did not raise the issue until I was born.

The mystery Of The Name Continues

So when I was born, I had to remain un named for a few days until they could consult my grandmother about the issue.

Then they went to my grandmother and asked her, what should we call her? and she gave me the name that she thought befits me she named me after a flower and rain. Some thought, to be named after a flower was not a good idea although rain is a blessing in Africa, that's how people get to grow food and the cattle gets grass and you get milk so it was't that bad.

It was suspected that she did not actually name me after a flower, she had a lady friend who had come from a far away land and her name was Rose and despite the fact that there were political problems in the country, that would force them to be enemies, and also they could not communicate very well because of the language barrier, they still managed to become friends and then the lady had to leave the country in a hurry and they lost touch.

Of course all this happened before I was born so I really don't know for sure.

Now I am getting to my point, yesterday I was on Canva trying to design my business card for my websites, because I meet many friends when we are out and about and they ask me about my websites and I thought I would create business cards that include all my websites and I can pass them to my friends so they too can share with their other friends.

How Do You Rate Yourself In Your Business?

When I was creating the business card, I played with titles like, Rose CEO of my website Dot com or Rose Affiliate Expert at my website Dot com (I know I was pushing it lol) I would never call myself that, I would rather people call me that but not self proclaim. Then I tried Rose Founder and creator of my website Dot com. I think I will go with that one.

So this brings me to my question of the day, what do you consider yourself, what title do you give yourself when it comes to your business?

I know in your 9 to 5 you wait for other people to decide what your title will be but when it comes to your business, do you rate yourself low or high?

please share your thoughts below. And if I didn't bore you with my story, then please give me a like :)

Thank you so much for your time

Rose

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The beginning of your article made me see similarities between your culture and others here in my country in West Africa. Interesting.

Now, coming to your question: Like Kyle and Carson here, I give myself the title "Founder" or "Owner".

I think that is what I am. The title CEO can wait for a while!

Managing Director (Or CEO) or House Husband, sometimes I'm a neurosurgeon, all depends what mood I'm in and who I'm talking to.😂

As a house Husband (person), you have the right to pick one of 100's of titles, what are you feeling today? I'm sticking with adventurer or seeker lol

Other people seem to have far more problems with my lack of title than I do nowadays : ) It is so hard for them to figure out someone who now refuses to fit into a box.

Neurosurgeon oh my goodness are you operating on human beings or teddy bears 🧸 I don’t think I want to come to the hospital where you operate 😳😳😳🙆🙆🙆 I am sorry Twack lol 😂

hahaha

You are not coming anywhere near my brain, no matter what mood you are in Prof Twack! hahahaha

It's easy, just pick a point and prod.

" You can trust me, I'm a Doctor " 😉

Lol 😂 😂

I think the three of us are a bunch of crazy people thank goodness one of us is a neurosurgeon 😂😂😂😂

Yes sir doctor Twack sir 👨‍⚕️

I just spat my drink everywhere! You can stop picking points and prodding right now, Doctor Twack! We have had this conversation before, when you tried your two pronged approach ; ).


All the best people are crazy Rose! The Mad Hatter told us so hahaha

You are so right Sara lol 😂

It's perfectly safe, I have done the procedure many times with some very positive results. Obviously with any form of surgery, there are inherent risks and possible side-effects but these are very few and far between. The benefits are immeasurable.😜

Prof Twack (or are we calling you Doctor Twack now?) You have already invaded my brain with your Mind melding (and Patrick Stewart type Mind tricks) there is no way you are going poking and prodding in there.

My Mind is a very precious Labyrinth of maverick craziness that I would like to keep thank you very much. So kindly keep those hands to yourself (no matter how expert they are) hahaha

Such a shame, so much potential.

My potential is unlimited without your poking and prodding Dr Twack! ; )

What a great conversation to read.....what a laugh
Daisy
Ps Great post and something I hadn't even considered lol
And after reading this....the options are endless hahaha
Founder sounds nice though....Inspired by? Developed by? Created by?

Daisy

I like founder Daisy. Yes Twack and do try lol

Rose, it's a beautiful name. Having come from an American Indian tribe, I know how that works! I was named after both my grandparents. No one ever understood why my parents didn't name me Joseph instead of just Joe. Well, Joe was my Indian grandfather's name, not Joseph! I struggled with the U.S. Air Force as they insisted my name was Joseph.
Be proud of your name and heritage. There's a lot to a name!
Good post.
Joe

thank you so much, Joe

It is nice to know something of your family history. In this way we learn about people who may be different from us. Thank you for sharing with us.

Hi Rose,

The name you give a child at birth is so important because that child has to live with that name for the rest of his/her life unless he/she decides to have a name change.

It is interesting the way your tribe names the first borns within the family. My ancestors are of African descendent but I was born and raised in the Caribbean. My sister is the first born so she was named after our maternal grandmother and great grandmother. So, I guess we all, in some way or another, have our traditions that we follow.

When it comes to the business titles that we give ourselves, that is different situation because we have the ability to change our titles as we move along our business journey. Great job on your business cards!

When I decide to make myself business cards I do have a title that I have with my EIN so I will use that title which is - NJ Marketing - because I am an affiliate marketer. So my title will be: Nichola James Founder and Creator - NJ Marketing - with my websites URLs.

Thanks for sharing your story with us! Much success to you!

Kind regards,
Nichola

Thank you so much Nichola for reading and leaving me this wonderful comment, I am glad that you in the Caribbean also have your traditions. Its amazing how diverse this community is, I love it 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

Thank you for sharing the story behind your name Rose. For me, it is fascinating to read how people live in other parts of the world. I guess I prefer the title "author" if I had to choose. I have not thought about that much, guess I should.
Thanks again for sharing a little about yourself.
Ray

Thank you so much Ray

In the past I have had business cards with 'Pensions Administrator', 'Estate Agent', 'Mortgage Consultant' 'Financial Advisor',

Now I guess I could put Actor, class teacher, writer, website designer, affiliate marketer, creative director, or maybe just adventurer!

Great post and lovely story about your tribes traditions loved it : ).

Adventurer, I love it

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