Indecision! Is there any way out?

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"Give a man a month, he will do it in a month. Put a pistol to his head and ask him to do it in two minutes, he will do it in two minutes". - Parkinson's Law.

Usually, we dislike hesitation and indecision, but we have to face them countless times in life. As the stopwatch keeps ticking towards the last minute, we look at the clock in horror but we can't figure out which option is right.

We don't want to leave anything until the last moment, we want to hold everything in our hands, we think we can overcome the situation, and we can do something 'miraculous' at the last moment.

But when the situation actually comes, most of the time it's all about not giving up, and try our hearts out all because giving up doesn't pay off.

Indecisiveness is not a fault, but sometimes we have to get into a lot of trouble with it!

Today Let's find out, is there really any way out of indecision?

Think first before doing anything because the opposite doesn't help!

Sometimes you have to act before the dilemma comes. Thoughts, plans, hesitations, doubts - all before action, never in the middle or after.

If you can put the ball into the post before the referee gives the offside whistle, then maybe the goal is valid. The moment you stop, think and slow down, the chances of loosing increases.

People suffering from indecisiveness should always keep in mind when doing any work, "Think before you do."

MIND INSTRUCTION!

As instructed in various books, it is said that - in a time pressure test, when do you know that you are in danger?

When you find that your pen is not working for a couple of minutes, you can't think of anything, or you have to play a lot of tricks to solve a problem, time is running out but you can't finish the problem.

Then just skip to the next question - it's better to grab something a little at a time than to sit and lose it all. We think that if we give more time for two minutes, we can get full marks by correct solution, but if we get more by half of this and half of that - then there is more profit.

Sometimes we think,

I'm a very accurate person, I don't skip without put my full effort, and this way we wasting our precious time. wrong-right both are the part of life - we have to give up this dogma.

(Because it's proven that, when you stuck in your tendency for accuracy, you'll do nothing but increase your anger!).

Control your Emotions!

If you want to see something positive, don't think about what's comfortable or happy—think about what's profitable. Ask yourself - which do you want, the profitable path or the joyful path? Too hard questions?

Hopelessness and Depression is a big problems for us and sometimes for overall happiness we have to take some tough decisions.

It must be remembered that it's important to take the right decision, it does not matter how much it hurts you or someone else - no one pays or receives even a single penny of emotion or pain in practical life.

It's better to cry for a lifetime about a right decision than to cry for a lifetime about a wrong decision! In the first case, the mango will go, and the peel will also go - that is, you will suffer and will not get what you wanted; In the second case, at least the bark will remain (!), that is, you will get what you need even if it is difficult.

Why does depression bother you?

Do you know, one of the main causes of indecisiveness is depression? The causes of depression and indecisiveness are often undiagnosed. We ourselves are often not or cannot be aware of these effects or reactions.

We make hundreds of decisions a day and many times suffer from indecision. For example, when will I go to sleep? Which way can be reached quickly? How and when to say something? Is it right to say? When to go to work? Will I go today?

These are the examples which can be reversed if we wants to, but there are many more important decisions we have to make every day.

Most people make these decisions in seconds. But depressed people hesitate to make decisions on small matters. They feel that they will not be able to take beneficial or appropriate decisions. They suffer from great uncertainty about future outcomes. As a result, they waste their valuable time and more and more go nearer a blackhole.

Things to do in these situations!

1. Avoid complicated decisions or seek advice from others. In many cases, you may get confused about whether to accept advice or not. In that case, trust the reliable shoulder.
2. Think positive. Talk to yourself positively.

3. Don't overthink anything. Because we don't know the future. We can only proceed honestly. Leave the rest.

Positive thinking

We all are human being and hesitate at some point, it's okay! When you regret it, do it at the right time. We usually regret when we are surrounded by difficulty, here regret is most pointless. If the right measure was taken earlier, the bad time might not have come.

Keep profit in mind but do not greedy

Ignore the temptation. Few people can ignore the temptation. When you go to invest in the stock market, you may not even realize that you are mortgaging your home, property, money everything.

Never go into something where you can't get out more than you went in with.

Calculated risk!

Some people are a little adventurous by nature, they like to take risks, and they don't hesitate to risk everything they have. Some are very reserved in nature - will never try anything new, lest they be in danger. Some are intermediate level.

When the time comes, it is safer to make a decision based on the situation rather than on one's nature. As I like to take risks there is no guarantee that luck will bring a positive output for all my risks, so it is better to take calculated risks.

But defeat does not come when you lose, it comes with disappointment, a lack of enthusiasm for the next task, and the words of people.

According to Murphy's Law,

Even if everything falls apart, keep something in your hand, don't stand with a empty hand.

So be careful! Don't bet everything you own. There should be no shortage of spices for the next plan!

Keep the confidence

If you lose your confidence in yourself about anything, then the success will become a 'full moon in the sky' comes rarely!

Do not lose faith in yourself in other people's words about any general matter. If that is the case, many times in life you will have to carry not only the basket of disappointment but also the basket of pain and shame.

Whatever you do, do it with full confidence in yourself.

Remember one thing, every person has his own personality. The way you think about something or from the point of view, of someone else may not think the same way.

But that doesn't mean your decision or you are wrong. Respect yourself and your decisions. Love the wishes. You see, at the end of the day, you will either be a Loser or a Gainer.

Don't wait Make a plan. May we be stronger than our dilemmas. If you miss a moment while making a decision, that moment is a loss'. Start and gradually makes small decisions!

There was lots of time wasted by only thinking, now get down to the field. The more you work, you see the Decisions should be comfortable;

And gradually Suffering from indecisiveness is no longer bother you in life!

Once you build a strong mindset along with hard work about anything then the hesitancy is reduced significantly.

Wish you all a great Saturday, Work hard and Party harder.

Preetam