Avoid This Kind of People (7 of them)
In our lifetime we might have personally encountered people who are scammer, manipulator, user and opportunist. Avoid this kind of people, or person. However, most of what happened is harm is done when we realized the kind of person we knew. This encompasses different areas of life. Business, family, friendship, even in religious circles.
We only have to learn from experience. It is not bad to be a little careful but do not be a bigot, cynic or a hater. While it is good to take preventive measures by not believing quickly to a person that seemed good and nice. Remember good manners and right conduct can be faked. The person could be a great talker, very knowledgeable and convincing with a smile of a saint.
To be safe be watchful on this kind of characteristics. This is for sure.
1. They promise but don't deliver. Once, twice and thrice is a red flag. Be alert and avoid even do not contact this man again. Unless otherwise you know there are proven compelling valid reasons. Better still, run away from him or atleast avoid them.
2. The person who always keeps you from doing something you wanted and every time you ask him he loves to picture the futility of your plan. He always state the gloom and doom of tomorrow. They are Pessimistic people. They are virus that could contaminate you fatally - run away from him or atleast avoid them!
3. There are others who never see themselves making mistakes, putting as always the blame to others but not and never to himself. Even a brazen wrong he has committed has been proven, he would find a way to blame others for his mistake. He has this quality all his life. It is never a habit he could change, it is him in solid 100% of his being. I don't know about you, but run away from him or at least avoid them.
4. The person who follow you whatever you say. The person when you asked him for his opinion, it will end up parroting what you have said to him. He doesn't form his opinion. He doesn't want to think at all. He is complete dependent on your thoughts just because he doesn't want to think of any. Not because he is conscious of not speaking about sex, politics or religion. It is more than that, even music, food or cars, you can not get his opinion. Their brain are too lazy to think. They are brain-dead in some way. They are mentally always on a siesta mode. Run away from him or at least avoid them.
5. There is a person who live day by day without a plan or a vision. He lives in the moment. He is not interested to think ahead like t will be in the next 1-month much more in a year's. He is a man with no direction. Run away from him or at least avoid them.
6. There is a person who do believe in his own self-deception. Saying things which are not proper or right. The truth is twisted. He believes in his own lie that sometimes he speaks in an aura of full truthfulness. This is a person who has mastered self-deception. Run away from this person or at least avoid them.
7. The person who is over opinionated and thinks he is always right. He doesn't take the time to listen well. His mind is rigid and stiff, . Filled with self-belief. This is a guy who has over confidence and super self belief he began to think and what he though on something must be right and correct. Run away from this type of people or at least avoid them.
Yes this kind of people will only retard or stop your growth. Better live without them. Whoever you are with will sooner or later you would be similar. As we have proven in our WA community. A lot of us have found this platform the opposite of what I have listed. I still put it because you might have some of them in your real world. Watch out!
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Thanks for the type of people to watch out for. I try to always give everyone a chance, but after that, I have to cut ties and move on if they don't show they are a good kind of person. It is usually easy to tell. But sometimes I have been lured in with good bait and have been kept captive.
With 2020 Vision,
Karin 🎆🎇🧨😎
Great to know that you cut them off. But in the real world, we sometimes have some reasons so compelling as well that we tend to forgive and make up with some of them.
Can I add more radiators and less drains to the list?
Radiators first. Radiators are the people who put the life into the saying ‘smile and the world smiles with you.’
Drains
The Drains are those people in your life who one way or another leave you feeling diminished after you’ve been with them.
Thanks for sharing ! Always great to get your thoughts!
I have met a lot of good people doing online business and lot of snakes. If somebody is a snake I will find out soon enough.
Lol, the online business is filled with scammers, spoilers, jokers, and cynics inside out. Thanks, Neil.
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Excellent points made! I agree, there are people in our lives that would be best to avoid. Their negative energy does not help for a positive one in ourselves.
Sadly, it seems there are more of these type of people you've listed than not, at least where I work part time...no wonder I feel so drained by the time my day is done there! Glad I'm not there much, lol! Instead of letting it get to me too much though, I try to get a smile out of them one way or another...it usually helps to curb the negativity for awhile at least.
As for those friends and family that are negative and saying "oh, it won't work" are a bit harder to deal with however. I've pretty much let go of some old friends and family to a point...in that I don't talk about what I'm doing to them anymore.
I'll just show them successes as I achieve them, lol...thankfully my hubby, kids, and really close family and friends are positive about what I do now. Strange, how it seems those closest to you are often the hardest to convince, if ever! Best to just let it go!
Thanks for sharing and reminding us to watch out for these types of people!
Best wishes :) ~Sherry
You are blessed and thank you for your excellent input, Sherry! I appreciate you for sharing a pice of you!