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Uncertainty, fear for failing or fear for succes

Hope10

Published on January 21, 2018

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As we all know or will agree on, the truth is very subjective and some points even contradictive.
Like memories are subjectief.
At one point I could remember a fact that I knew happend in my childhood now my sister was there as well and was very sure about what I was wearing
The thing I was too!
I knew it was a red shoe as my sister was convinced it was a blue boot
we both had a false picture of our memory cause A picture showed us both wrong It was a red short boot with a bow....
This might seem so ridiculously unimportant yet it shows how easily two people can have a memory stacked and neither one of us had the feeling we could have been both wrong....
A perspective of the truth.... is easily to compare with the power of bending your reality for living a limitless life.
yet memories can BLOCK your progress in any shape of form.

Think about it this way if we are able to bend rules and yes even truths without even realising consiously -
otherwise we would not even be in this stage with so much progres take for example flying in the air is bending, lying yes even cheating on our true nature otherwise we would have been born with wings - the subjective thruth however is, we did get brains to be able to construct airplanes....

Uncertainty, fear for failing or far for succes and how to overcome this? GET OUT OF THE VICTIM STAGE

1 out of 3 american citizens feel happy so I think its fair to say the others feel unhappy about a stage in their life about
their Experiences
their Growth
or their Contribution

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and guessing a lot of them are trapped in that victim stage.

Thoughts create reality, this is scientificly proven
who had never experienced a thought about someone or some song and all of the sudden you hear it on the radio or get reunited with that person?

But how do you shift that thought that leads you to pain?
Pick the area with the lowest in your live, that makes you feel pain and for two minutes.
Then think about a solution imagine a solution FEEL the solution....
Do this three times a day for about 15 minutes and then let go....
Don't worry about HOW cause it doesn't matter the intention, life force or universe - no matter how you call it - will take care of it when you know what you really want cause this is also very important
KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT.
Own it
Once you have felt the solution LET IT GO, don't keep thinking about it, cause then you will get obsessed and you will end up with a disappointment, let it go and let the universe lead you towards your solution.

Our beliefs impact reality and a belief is a truth you create by thinking and feeling by so many factors which we thought we had or on the contrary believed we had no influence on. The thing is we do.... we are not what we do but what we belief, what we tell ourselfves.

WOULDN't IT BE NICE IF.....
A very useful tip from Vishen Lakhiani is leading your thoughts, your beliefs, your energy to what you want! Not only by visioning your future, imagining it which is the most powerful of all but also by asking and filling in the question wouldn't it be nice.... for example wouldn't it be nice if I was able to build some more valuable network of friends, wouldn't it be nice if I could go on more adventures and live life to the fullest by skydiving, horseback riding etc. , wouldn't it be nice if I took some more time to enjoy my family, wouldn't it be nice if I succeed without any guilt, wouldn't it be nice if my boss would appreciate me more, wouldn't it be nice if my kids would see and respect what I do for them out of love, wouldn't it be nice if I could follow a course that intrest me, wouldn't it be nice if I could open myself more and be less scared
those are only one of the possible wouldn't it be nice ifs..... the only challenge is to fill in the blank for yourself and practicing by imagination and creating a vision of your future.

Remember: the gap between where you are and where you want to go is your drive. Everyone who is on a learning curve has a dip when they are on a learning curve cause it does bring insight and growth.

The truth is, there is no truth and your beliefs only hold you back if you have limiting beliefs, usually formed by personal experience memories which are subjectief.

So yes it is possible to bend your mind and get what you want, but it does take practice as everything in life

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