No Doubts

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Following a brief conversation in the comments of my previous post, I made a commitment to Twack. One I believe to be exceptionally empowering and positive. I said that I would be writing this post and I wouldn’t be using a particular word. Well, apart from repeating a couple of things I said in that post to set the scene, I make that commitment to you too.

After the end of the next paragraph, I will no longer be using or allowing the use of the word “excuse”, or any of its synonyms, into my writing or thinking.

“Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Imagination is a very high sort of seeing”. Absolutely true indeed. If we can visualize achieving something, excuses lose any hold over us that they may once have had. . . Imagine, just for a moment that the word “excuses” doesn’t exist in any languages and there are no synonyms for it”.

How Can I Erase?

Simply put, by putting the “Law of Attraction (LOA)” into use. This isn’t a new practice, thing or latest fad. It’s been around for a very long time and I’m not going to try to trace the origins except to say that it has also been known as “The Law of Love”. Like the weather or gravity, it is a law of nature and impartial. Anybody can appeal to it and often we are not even aware that we do so. Yet, how often do we wonder why certain things drop onto our laps, welcome or not?

We Get What We Ask For

Each and every thought we have or put out, emits a frequency – everything in the universe

vibrates, so do we. I talked about love in a couple of recent posts because love is the highest frequency available to us. Checking back on some of the comments from those posts, it is evident that some people have had experiences that hurt and said they don’t feel the love. One person went on to say that he does love puppies. Love is there for all of us; we are limiting our thinking if we believe it is not so.

Here's Your Delivery

When we order a home delivery pizza, it will arrive as ordered so long as we specified exactly what we wanted. If we want onions on the pizza, or not, we must specify clearly and check that our order has been heard as we intended. If we just order a Neapolitan pizza, we will get precisely that unless we provide specific instructions. Sending mixed signals won’t provide what we truly want.

I would like success in my business please!

What on earth does that mean?

  • I want to earn a lot of money
  • I would like to enjoy what I do
  • Let me be Internet famous . . .

Different Things To Different People

A quick Google search for a simple definition of success offered this:

“Success can be a certain social status that describes a prosperous person that could also have gained fame for its favorable outcome. The dictionary describes success as the following: “attaining wealth, prosperity and/or fame”.

If we discussed this, I’m sure we would produce some common understandings but the thing that stands out is that this is a non-specific definition. We need to find some specifics for what we want because what we put out there is what we get back. It’s up to us to create our reality with detailed thinking, plans and passionate action. If we can’t do that, we will always find more reasons not too and success will remain illusive and something we believe we are not worthy of in our unconscious or even conscious thinking.

I Don’t Want That!

Have you ever thought about something you don’t want and wondered why you got it anyway?

As one of my favorite bands Coldplay sang, “you get what you want, not what you need”. It’s the price of putting it out there, whatever it was. The more you think about it, the more likely it is that you will get what you think about, you are creating your own experience.

You Are The Creator

What do you need? Let’s get clear about this, I mean really clear and with no doubts. If you want to be world-class in your niche; what exactly will it take? There can be no lack of clarity or doubt.

Write It Down; Share It

Once you are clear about what you need, write it down as though you already have it and be sure to K.I.S.S. it – Keep It Simple Sweetie – No ambiguities. Now share it with yourself, enjoy the buzz of what you have and Share It with the universe. Yes, I know our greatest critics are often those close to us because their thinking doesn’t always match what we see. Yet, if you vibrate at a high level of knowing that you will get what you need, your positive vibration will begin to affect them too. The naysayers will join your "yes" tribe if you want them.

If you are concerned about people who matter not supporting your journey, look closely at how you can get them involved; put it out there that you want them on your side. There’s no point in allowing the sun to set on an argument and it’s not about you being right or they wrong. It’s about sharing your clarity and sharing the love. Not everybody wants to drive a supercar; don’t expect them to want the same.

No Doubt

If you have any doubts that you can take passionate action to achieve what you need, it’s certain that you won’t achieve. Eventually your passion will fizzle out and fade if you truly had any to begin with. To get what you need, you must be crystal clear about what you want. You will always get something although the wrong pizza may arrive if you don’t order correctly.

"If you see it in your mind, you're going to hold it in your hand". Bob Proctor

Wishing you a wonderful week


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Great post, Steve. Those Coldplay lyrics reminded me of the Rolling Stones song, You Can't Always Get What You Want. It's just vise versa.

Thank you Mickey.
"But if you try sometimes, well, you might find
You get what you need".
I forgot about that song, thanks for reminding me, great example.
😊 Steve

Interesting had to read a couple of times
Success and you have your eye on the prize
Great Post
TIM

Hi Tim, The Wayne Dyer quote keeps coming back at me, "change the way you look at things and the things you look at will change". Eye on the prize for sure, the rest will fall into place. . . feel as though I should unpack that one. I will later 😊

Steve

I agree....Eyes on the prize.....S.M.A.R.T....Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Timely... got it.cheers Jen

Eyes on the Prize is S.M.A.R.T. Thanks Jen, I like that one. I wrote a post a while back about SMART. Happy Tuesday

Steve

I'd wish you luck Steve but I have a feeling none will be necessary. Somethings are worth doing more than once, like reading your post for one. It really got me all 'pins and needley'. The secret is out, love is the answer.
Another, which I have said before, is one of my favourites:

"Some things in life are inevitable, success is one."

Say what you want, believe what you say and surround yourself with anything that supports the fact that you already have it.

Outstanding.

Thank you Twack. Your words sent the pins & needles right back at me - nice . . . Have you read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne? It's one of those read it books and then keep going back for reference. There's a docu movie by the same name too.
Your last sentence is the one - Awesome. It also reminds me of something you said recently about expecting a bill to arrive and although you didn't want it, it did. LOA says you DID want it but it was not what you needed. There's a Tuesday thought. Have a wonderful day.
Steve

Thank you and you're welcome. The LOA is simple and yet complex in the execution. I find that many struggle with two concepts, that of having that belief that it will happen, and acting as though it already has. I wrote the following that I find works quite well. .

"Believing in something and knowing it will happen are not one and the same thing, unless you decide that they are. When you know, without doubt or question, in your heart and mind that what you believe in will happen, then you have true belief."

Yes, 100% with you on that yet doesn't it go against so much we are taught and experience? I wonder if Rhonda Byrne called her book The Secret not only because it was traditionally not shared but because knowing what it contains is not enough. How to apply is the secret. Sharing this is one of my intentions and I have true belief that I can make it happen. It's more than thoughts, it needs passionate action too. So instead of ACT = Action Changes Things, I've made a PACT with myself. Passionate Action Changes Things.

Yep, totally agree. Explaining it is one thing, managing to do it in a way where people actually grasp the concept, is another.
Dictionary does a decent job, in regard to 'belief'

"confidence in the truth or existence of something not immediately susceptible to rigorous proof"

I still think that 'confidence' is a bit wishy washy, it's more than that. I tried to cover it in a post, a while back, though it had a slightly different theme.

Reading in a moment, Thanks. How about "faith" instead of confidence . . . ?

Faith is better.

Just before I fell asleep last night a wonderful 3-word phrase came to mind about faith and belief. It's still sleeping, can't seem to wake it. I guess it will do an Arnie soon.

No doubt.

lost in the mind-wash. Something must've superseded it. I told Sarah just before we both fell asleep, she doesn't remember either although did say it was a great definition. Stranger things . . .

As you know, the art of that type of memory retrieval, is trying not to think of it. That's what works for me anyway.

not thinking, not thinking, thinking, shhh be quiet, not thinking 🤣 Challenging

You can have excuses or success. You can't have both. Great post, as always! Christine

Thank you Christine. I choose success, it's the only one open to me 😊🌟

Steve

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