Falling off the motiviation wagon
When I became a WA premium member in November of 2014 I was so pumped about it. I had a drive that I thought would never end. I read the feeds, watched the trainings and researched what I thought would be a "profitable" niche. I was sure that this new adventure into blogging/running a website was going to be it for me in terms of getting my own business off the ground and living a lifestyle of financial freedom.
Flash forward just a little over one month and guess what? My website is not completed, in fact it just recently changed to the status of "needs work" much better then the "unhealthy" status it recently held, I've rewritten the core pages at least 5 times and I still feel like I am not any closer to having a core page ready for marketing.
I found myself over thinking this whole thing and creating so much pressure for myself that I often avoid working on my site all together!
This month I am really focusing on getting my site to a state I am proud of. One that I want to share on several social media platforms, one that I am proud to market. I'm taking a step back and focusing on writing content that I am proud of, creating a base site that is just for me.
I've decided to view this adventure for what it is, an opportunity for me share my thoughts and expand my knowledge. Sure do I want this thing to take off and to be able to quit my job and life my life in a state of constant Saturdays? Of course! But I'm not there yet so if the only traffic "Life with Finicky Fido and the Frugal Feline" brings in is my mom viewing it, I can say that I gave it my all and that I at least learned the ropes because of it.
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It is very normal to feel that way, leave that away watch few motivational videos and keep your hard work up you will be fine.
Just hang in there and follow the plan. It's all mapped out! You'll do fine here. Key is stay consistent; I struggle, but I see new people come in and succeed right off. Be one of those! Just Do It. Best wishes.
It's normal to feel that way. Plus you are in it just a couple months. I suggest do something daily. Either an article, installing a new plugin or anything on your site or for y.our site but do something every day. Soon you'll be working on your site on autopilot and the results will come naturally. Trust me, we are all in the same boat. I wanted to just quit everything today on my way from work. Now I'm answering your inquiry and that motivates me to go write another article. Thanks :)
I am having exactly the same problem. I have about 5 or so pages out there for people to view and I am not sure how this happened but after only two weeks without telling anyone really my site was out there I have had 60 visitors and one comment who I belive is someone who actually found and searched for my website. Yet I am still discouraged and at a "blocked" point like you. I think we all get this way. I am hoping it passes soon as I have a lot of work to still do. I guess we just have to keep going!
David that is great that you're already generating traffic! Means you must be doing something right. Keep me updated on how your progress goes and pass along any tips you have for getting over the blocked hump!!!
Thanks so much! I am not too sure how this traffic I am getting will relate to overall down the road traffic. I hope it is good! RIght now I am working on Pinterest. This is a good temporary diversion and something I need to do for my web site. Hopefully it will increase more traffic!
We started around the same time. And I have similar emotions. I think it's just part of the first steps in this long and arduous journey we have chosen. Yeah, we all over-think the situation when we are starting out. Blessings to you in the new year as you make good progress and not look back
Thanks Tae! Its good to hear I'm not alone when it comes to lose of steam in the beginning. How is your site coming along?
I'm doing ok. I mean, assessing how we are doing is all about perspective. There are so many perspectives like emotions, progress, website development, networking, financial gain, etc. No one lives by the simple facts alone. We all live by the interpretation of those facts. And so, it's an ongoing challenge to have the right interpretation of what is going on. There are many days I share your emotions. But I try to treat it as work where I simply go to work whether I feel like it or not. I try not to get too high or too low or too excited about a small success or too discouraged by some big mistake. To be honest, I am a very emotional person. But I have to let my mind over-ride my heart. I post monthly updates about my progress to encourage others and to keep me accountable and count my blessings. Yesterday was exactly two months at WA and so I posted this: My TWO Months Update
Yes, I did make some progress. But it was a roller coaster of emotions and many moments of discouragement. But our faith in what we do must transcend our emotions and push us along. It is not easy. I mean, we committed to do this because it was the right thing to do...not because it was quick way to make a dollar. Let's just do it and I believe we will feel better about it later when the success comes. You're definitely not alone. Many in this WA community sympathize with you....including me. Many of us are in the same boat together. Blessings to you.
Thanks David its slowly coming back. I actually took the time this week to discuss my goals and brainstorm several ideas with some of my closest friends and career mentors. I think I'm shifting the whole thing towards my life in general. Really focusing on the millennial generation and some of the burdens that come along with that generation.
I really have a deep seeded need to "spread" my knowledge of how to become accomplished after college, starting a great career, paying off student loans, living a simplistic lifestyle and being self sufficient-all of that fun stuff. That is really the thing that comes most natural to me in terms of just talking about it so I think that is the direction I need to be headed at first.
I forgot I had written in this threat for some days while I'm working with my own motivation for other things. I'm glad you are recovering some motivation.
That sounds interesting, especially simplistic lifestyle.
I recognize this so well both for my website and for my other projects.
"I found myself over thinking this whole thing and creating so much pressure for myself that I often avoid working on my site all together!"
Planned tasks can become so big and so many so I don't know where to start or where to focus. I always do something, but usually not the things that would actually be best to start making money or achieving the legal resident status i need or so on.
Can i see your website even if it is not at the status level you want it in the end?
Maybe there is some way our sites/projects can help eachother through links or cooperation of some kind.
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Sometimes we all got to just step back and "BREATHE"
yes! great words of wisdom.