"Finding Myself" - The Cliche Drawback
Who am I? What am I supposed to be doing? What's my contribution? What makes me happy? How can I help others? What makes me tick? What comes to me effortlessly?
These are my questions as I tackle the age old, tell-tale battle of figuring out myself.... I joined this site out of what I think was borderline frustration, although I am not knocking this "method" in which I frustratingly decided to taake a step in SOME direction verses lingering and teeter-tottering on the edge of my destiny. I have been on a constant search to figure out what's destined to be the primary source of my fulfuilment. I'm 26 years old. I have done alot of things. I have been a lot of places. I 've been exposed to both ends of the positive and negative spectrum. I think that part of my issue has a lot to do with being exposed to too and so much at a young age.
I am truly looking to gain some insight in anyway that I can as to how I can optimize myself. I know that I have a presence. I know I can be somebody; but who???I am searching for that "click" so that I can plunge into my niche. I've always had trouble with making decisions and being wishy-washy. "What-If" rules me. I want to turn my back on what if syndrome and move forward. I am a single (divorced) mother with 2 children. I used to manage apartment communities. Alas, I have grown tired of having my "not so secure" income snatched out from under me when my owner/employer decides to sell. I want to depend on me. I have dibbled and dabbled in so much to the point that I can't pinpoint a niche.
I have produced comedy shows, performed stand up, written articles (aspired to be an author), sang, danced..... AAAGHHH!!!!
What is the pivotal question I should be asking in order to (finally) steer myself in the right direction???/
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Aujj, sometimes it is difficult to find out what you are or what you want to be. Some believe that everyone has a destiny. Some believes there is no such thing called destiny, even if there is any, you can change it by trying. Which group do you fall in?
If you do not know just try WA and keep trying if you want to have your online business on a sustainable business. Follow along the training and keep all other thoughts aside.
All these are my opinion. Hope this give you a thought.
Let us know if you need any help. Have a great time and take care. Love to kids.
Thank you. Your feedback is in alignment with a lot I've been introduced to on this path. I appreciate your genuine advice. Feel free to nudge me with your opinion at anytime!
I think you are doing pretty spectacular at the moment so dont be too hard on yourself. You are 26 and a whole life to lead yet...Love your kids, love your parents and be a great person, things will come your way.
I think that the most important thing for you right now is to be the very best mother that you can be to your children. That means putting them first right now. Children need to form tight bonds with their parents, or parent figures, from birth. They need to grow up with strong self esteem and you are the only one who can ensure that they will get that. This is not the answer you are looking for, I'll bet, because you are still on the threshold of your own life. But if you will give yourself to them for a few years, you'll save yourself from later years of guilt and kicking yourself when your children don't turn out so well because they didn't have all the parental love and guidance they should have had. Believe me, i know this from bitter experience. I wish I could go back and do it all over again. Boy, would I do things differently! I just didn't know how vitally important a mother is to her kids. It's a funny thing ---A lot of people think that kids don't really have any feelings, that they can be moved here and there for the convenience of their caregivers, that if they are fed and clothed and kept clean, that it's enough. But it's NOT. Not nearly enough. When a child is brought into the world, it should be made to feel special, to be nurtured, to be cultivated, its gifts be recognized and fostered. Otherwise, they grow up with all those life-denying "issues" that will ensure their lifelong misery. And, please, don't ever hit your kids. That's another thing I learned too late. It's weird to think that kids should be assaulted regularly by the very person who is supposed to love and cherish them. Not a good way to instill concepts of loving kindness in the next generation. But it certainly IS a good way to bring up absolutely furious people. And just wait till they become teenagers---Then it's payback time---Good luck!
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Sounds like you are using your niche research to find yourself.
What makes you the most happy? Is it your children?
Make sure that your bases are covered while you start this. It takes time to get this stuff going.
I would work through the goal setting training here. Try to peg down where you want to be both personally and financially and set time frames. Make sure you give yourself plenty of time and if you miss a deadline, just reprioritize.
Thank you for helping me put things in perspective. I was beginning to wonder if I had an issue or if the time it is taking me to establish myself is normal