Yes, it has been a busy time ... will try and do one of these each week ...as long as people are interested!
Thanks for your feedback
Allan

If your involved count me in;
R.

Thank you ... made my day! 💖
Allan

Your too kind!
R.

Ger, thank you so much for your comment ... this is not as unusual as it may seem. So many of my Marketing friends have experienced these meltdowns caused by negative influences from their environment. We must find a way to isolate ourselves to stay positive and seek answers rather than giving in to the blame game!
So pleased you have been able to restore your marriage, congratulations to you and your spouse ... that is not easy! Working as a team you have great things ahead of you ... sometimes having survived a crisis brings us closer together ... I hope that is your case!
Best wishes to you and your family!
Allan

Thank you for your kind sentiments, Allan. My wife and I found ourselves again, even in the middle of chaos. Funny how life unfolds. We can choose to learn from our experience, or as you say “blame” others for our misfortunes.

Recently, we discovered both our daughters have Aspergers disorder/syndrome, which explains so much. Problems in school are common, and its difficult for them In social settings. This can be painful for us. Since diagnoses we now have direction.

Now we know how to help them. We are solution focused no matter what. We are so grateful to have found answers.

I am not religious, but, I sincerely ask for guidance, wisdom and clarity every morning. The next step always comes :)

We can think anything we want, so why think negative? There’s always a way.

Again, thanks so much for your kind words, Allan, we appreciate it.

“May the road rise to meet you, and the wind be always at your back”

Ger.

Thanks for sharing, Ger ...

With the diagnosis of Asperger's, comes greater understanding and improved outcomes, as your expectations of each other and yourselves change.

This leads to more appropriate expectations, which allows you and your wife, and of course your daughters, to be experience fewer disappointments, less worry, frustration, anxiety and drama.

As I am sure you know, there are many very successful people who have/had Asperger's (Einstein, Darwin, Tesla, Mozart) ... perhaps this article will be of some assistance ...

https://www.appliedbehavioranalysisprograms.com/lists/5-characteristics-person-aspergers-syndrome/

One of my mentors, in the Hypnosis world, has Aspergers and is leading a life of helping and healing others using his unique insights.

I wish your daughter's great success, as they discover their way, in our busy and complicated world ... guide and support them to their greatness!

Best wishes
Allan

So kind of you, Allan. The diagnoses was a blessing for us. I appreciate your heartfelt words of wisdom. Understanding, changed our expectations, brought down barriers and brought us closer as a family.

Thank you for your kind wishes for my daughters. Our focus is on their talents now, the rest will follow.

A great tip that slipped my mind, about mentioning the “great people”. That will surely lift their spirits, thank you! I’ll checkout the link also, I shall read it tonight.

Best wishes and good health.

Ger

We can never get too much positivity in our lives!
Best wishes, Alexandra, and thanks for your comment!
Allan