Why I absolutely LOVE Network Marketing!
Network marketing is the scariest thing for anyone not in sales... and even in sales!
Talk to people, what???? No way??? This is the beginning of an explosion of fears!
I don't care if you are extroverted... the myths of NM alone will run circles in your head and you'll find yourself saying "it's not for me" before you blink.
Fears will be coming out of your ear if you're not careful.
Fear of Success! That doesn't make sense! That's because you don't understand what it means. It means WHAT THEN?
Fear of Failure! Fear of Rejection! Fear of No! Fear of Yes! Fear of everything... Frankly the list is too long. AND, the worst part about it, it's ALL IN YOUR HEAD! NONE OF IT EXISTS!
#1 Who cares what your family is going to say... they are probably broke. Just because they can't do it doesn't mean you can't.
#2 If you find a company and product that makes sense to you, that you fall in love with (very important), the heck with everyone else. What others think of you and your business, is NON of your business. That's their problem and usually their shortcomings.
#3 Sales has always been where the big money is... this is why it cannot be an easy thing. If you do it dishonestly, you will lose it faster than you made it. The good thing is that the lessons you will hopefully take with you will help you make it again faster than before, but this is what people fail to understand, there really is a method to the madness.
#4 This business will teach you the biggest lessons in your life. Tolerance, Patience, Happy for No Reason, Positivity, Self-Development is KEY!!!! YOU MUST CHANGE!
Like I said, list is too long... but doing the same thing and expecting different results is one of the most absurd things we do as human beings.
If your business is not growing, I guarantee you are NOT doing what you are supposed to be doing... Are you visualizing your end-result, are you writing down your intentions, are you making a plan and doing something EVERY DAY even is small... The moment you get idle or park your behind consider launching again... which by the way, doesn't matter how many times you start again. FAILURE is the BEST thing that can happen to us... nothing to be afraid of if you look at this way... The wealthiest people have all more than failed... but they learned and started again BETTER!
The best training I received wasn't even from my upline... though I learned some great things about my business specifically... but I finally understood after I read Go Pro.. you DONT need to chase anyone... and your friends and family are there for you to practice and make all the mistakes with ... It doesn't matter if they get in or not...
Now that we got that covered... I think... What kind of self-development are you doing? I can't tell you how important this will be in your life... I've had lots to learn about finance... and I was in Operations... Sigh!
Think and Grow Rich, Rich Dad Poor Dad... these books are not famous for nothing... grab a copy and add it to your arsenal... There are so many!!
I LOVE that I get to share a good product with people. I LOVE that it is an amazing way to share wealth. I LOVE that we cheer ourselves on. I LOVE that we want the success of others. I LOVE that I get to share knowledge with others. I LOVE the camaraderie that comes with the business.
I used to be one of those people that would say "I'm not a sales person. I can't sell." but the truth is that I was selling my whole life. I was referring people to places. I was selling Avon for Mom. I was selling clothes. I was selling popsicles when I was 6 for God's sake! In other words, I was spitting out what I was programmed by society to say out of fear! Well, no more! Now, I just don't care if you join me or not. I love what I do, when I do it, and believe whole heartedly in it, like I do with WA. If I'm not succeeding in any part of it, it's because I'm not doing what I need to do, simple as that.
By the way, Wealthy Affiliate is network marketing... we're just hiding behind a computer... and what does everyone talk a lot about it... what makes you an Ambassador really, the community... Hmm, imagine that... people!
I personally laugh at all the websites that say "aren't you tired of chasing your family and friends".... whatever.... JUST DO IT!
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Hi Yessi
Great post girl! Really inspirational writing, and I just love your obvious enthusiasm for what you're doing. Live long and prosper!
My King, so nice of you to stop by. My enthusiasm is for life... it's the only way to live long and prosper... in peace. I hear it's why we're here.
That was a nice "Pep-Talk". Now What?
What is you niche?
What are your plans to be successful with your online Biz other than getting Websites built with WA?
How do you start a conversation & build Relationships with Prospects?
We’re not selling Information. We’re selling access to Benefits & Outcomes. What we’re selling is the making available & delivery of those Benefits.
Wally Wiki-Tips
at: https://my.wealthyaffiliate.com/wb5yjs/blog
My dear, I do "Pep Talks" for me first... others "enjoying" it is the cherry on top. Happy you took notice. ;)
Plans = Many
I came to WA as a result of many events... initially because I was going to be paying for my husband's website and all that comes with it. Instead, I decided to do my husband's website myself since I studied software programming and while I loved it I didn't do anything with it; and figured I would learn what's new in the internet. The rest was going to proceed on it's own. I got curious about blogging and ways to go about it since one of my sites will be mainly to express the things I love about my subconscious and would love to share for those seeking... etc etc. I went through a few sites offering a lot of what I didn't want, need, or trust, and then I was guided to WA. I fell in love with the concept Kyle and Carson had built. Things proceeded as they needed to, I suppose. It's been a great Metamorphosis for me this past year.
My niche are many, and I don't subscribe to the MLM perceived negativity but I don't push against it either. What you resist -> persists... so I try to steer clear and push smiles instead... After all, the braces cost me a nice penny or two.
That said, gourmet coffee is my MLM and as for conversations, I can have conversations anywhere... you'd be surprised. I'm not looking for people that need, I'm looking for those that desire... two very different things. I know the kind of leader I am, and with me you get more than just coffee!
I already have a website that sells but I want to personalize it more... http://www.coffeeconnoisseur.club. I also expect to be opening my Hypnotherapist practice at the end of this year.. AND, writing a book. How's that for exciting!
So you see, I have no need to prove anything to anybody. Really, nobody does. I do it all with calm and ease... Having fun is most important. I love my KNOWNS and relish when I deliciously find my UNKNOWNS can be moved up to a KNOWN. I seek my own wisdom.
Like they say, there IS more to life than meets the eye.
I belief benefits and outcomes will only be a direct result of what the person does or doesn't do, and more importantly thinks or doesn't think. We absolutely sell great information and tools in WA... and the best part about it is that when others join as a result of your link, you get paid not once as most affiliates, but over and over and over.. until the person either realizes it wasn't for them, or they make it a point to succeed... however long that takes! It's a great thing... I absolutely LOVE this model. As far as I'm concerned, it is one of the best way to share wealth...
It's a shame we think so little of ourselves, but it's part of our growth and must be what it is. Truth is we don't need any of this to make money, but I feel myself rolling to another "Pep Talk," so I'll leave it here..
A man is what he thinks all day long! ~ Ralph W. Emerson
Howdy Yesenia, (Texas Talk)
Just for ‘getting-acquainted’, where are you located (time-zone-wise)? I’m in the Dallas, Texas area.
Do you use a Mac or Windows PC?
Your areas of expertise (Programming, BA & Psychology) have desirable Benefits if you share them with me.
I really like your verbose writing style and the cherry on top of your “Pep Talks”.
A synopsis of your metamorphosis would be an interesting read.
I love gourmet coffee and would really like to get more than coffee from a relationship with you and anyone that knows ‘who-they-are, what-they-stand-for & where-they-are-going.
Sometimes our ‘needs’ & ‘desires’ coincide and when a resource is found, that is a beautiful thing. Having a conversation with such a resource is the ultimate.
I am in full anticipation of you coming Hypnotherapist Book.
You mentioned you ‘Knowns’ & ‘Unknowns’. I wonder if you noticed my mention of the same on my WA Profile Page. (https://my.wealthyaffiliate.com/wb5yjs)
“What if” we could reciprocate “Unknown Unknowns” with each other and convert them into “Knowns”? I would be all for that… and you?
Since ‘Benefits & Outcomes’ are the ultimate desired Result, that is what our ‘Offers’ should be. We should not ‘Offer’ the drill, but instead the holes, produced by the drill.
You stated that you can have a conversation easily, anywhere. Hypothetically, when you meet someone new and want to have a conversation, what do you use as a conversation starter?
I know you don’t use a typical “How-are-you?” type opener (which could result in an unwanted ‘brain-dump’ of negativity).
So, what is your favorite opener? Lets say that you feel this person may benefit from knowing about WA.
Because of your verbose writing style, I bet your conversations are something to behold.
So as to not become too verbose, myself, I will abstain for now, until I receive you reply.
Looking Forward To Your Reply,
Wally Wiki-Tips
That will be great. I will reserve a lot of time for your verbose reply.
I hope you are the type that responds to each & every question & topic.
Anxiously Waiting,
WWT
I am very curious how you're combining your network marketing and WA businesses. That's what I'd like to do. I'm just getting started. 3 years later, how's it going?
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Love this article!!!
Whatever you sell, you are the customers of the products you’re selling and because you love them you recommend them to others. And if someone you recommend the products you always have a chance to recommend them to others.
Many people say you will loose your friends but I believe that it has the best opportunity to meet the best friend who are like-minded. This future best friend will be speaking the same language and supporting each other! It’s like a local community.
I would rather buying something from your friend than a big brand store.
I love the book poor dad rich dad and his 21 century business book!
We are trained to think a certain way, but it’s time for us to think ourselves without bias.
Thank you for this article!
Thank you! :)
Hard to believe how long it's been since I wrote this article.
Actually, it's pretty darn good if I do say so myself... LOL...
I still believe in it... I still love it... And now, I have a new business I'm working on but so much has changed for me.
KEY for me has always been attitude. We better find the right one or create it if we don't have it.
I agree the opportunity to make new friends is incredible in NM.
We're afraid to lose old friends when really, we are shedding what we don't need anymore. You're friends will ALWAYS be a reflection of you...hence all the sayings about "choose your friends with caution"...or however they go. I believe when we change, everything around us will change. Always shoot for happier and always profess you're better and better every day.
Problem with friends (and family) is that they are not necessarily interested in things being better and better or choosing something different - they dont want to change. You then become the snob, the stuck up one, the one that has no time for friends, etc. It doesnt matter, they are not paying your bills or bringing anything positive to the table so we need to let them go. It doesn't mean we "unlike" them in Facebook. :) It does mean you don't fight it. They will come around when it's time for them, but it will be ok if they don't as well.
For me, how I feel always tells me where I'm going. If it feels good, I know I'm in the right place and I keep going, until it doesn't anymore. Then, I move on to something else that feels good. We stress out on the money part when really, money will come when we're happy automatically...and when we eliminate negativity and judgement.
LIFE IS WONDERFUL! NETWORK MARKETING IS AWESOME.
LOVE! :)
Yesi
So true about everything you said here. I have started to see who’s my good friend now.
I’m happy for you doing some new business! It must be interesting and bringing you a lot of joy!
:)
Tomo