Phone call canceled!

byYadegm

163 followers

8 years ago

WHAAAAAT?

I know right?

Don't you dislike it, when you are waiting for that important phone call (important according to you or me) like a 15th year old, looking out the window waiting for her first boyfriend to come and pick her up, or when you are going to give her the first kiss (this is for you guys).

And then they send an e-mail saying, sorry we decided to cancel your call, only because: you do not apply to our strategy call on how to start your business, I asked why?

The why was very simple:

You don't have clients, how can I have clients if I am just going to start my business, and of course, your call was especially for that, because you are supposed to give people (me) strategies on how to become a perfect client catcher in no time.

So here I am, frustrated, disappointed, upset, angry, sad, I have all this mixed feelings, I thought I am going to mail this woman and tell her all I think about her, and then I thought about it.

Wait a minute, that is it! I know what this is all about.....

When growing up my mom...until the day of today she always tells me: "Baby...yes, she still calls me Baby (& I'm almost 50 BTW)..."If things don't come out they way they should, it is because is not meant to be, so is not your moment and is not worth it, the person is not worth it, business, opportunity or what 'ever' you're doing, "just let it go and walk away", there are better things, another door will open and much better, God has better for you, and He knows why He does the things He does". Thank You Mammy!

We never understand those words until we do...don't tell me when is the right time we understand them but there is always a time we do, and adulthood strikes us in the cheek and we say, "huh, mom was always right' ...it happened to me many years ago, can't say when, but it was long ago.

So going back to the canceled call.... instead of writing a sending to hell message to the lovely lady, I send her a Lovely you disappointed me and wish you the best wishes message and deleted her.

But Honestly:

Who needs that type of help, if they want to coach you for a better business, "LIKE THAT". For sure, they will never achieve their goals and dreams, we have our selves to do it, a little help is necessary but if they disappoint us because we have no clients, is it then a bad coach? I think that .... Is simply not worth it!!

I AM going to be a coach. Now I know what NOT to do, thank you for the first lesson Lovely Lady.

We all need to hang out with people that push us ahead, makes us big, that wants us to achieve the best of each other, I love "WA" because we are all cheering us UP and that is important. I Love the way we can learn step by step at "WA" and the communication with everyone is amazing and important.

After all these feelings, I had to remember my last Seminar in London, where I learned so many beautiful things that I can achieve for my life, most of all I remembered one especially with this situation and is that I will not allow to let my self down but instead Cheer up and I want to share them with you all.

'I have decided I Won't Settle for 'good' I WILL Settle for 'OUTSTANDING'

So we learned a part called "Science of Momentum" there we learned about being

S.M.A.R.T.:

• STRATEGY - check it, change it, re-engineer it, reinforce it, and strengthen it!
• MEASURE more often!
• ASSESS whether it's giving you the results you want
• REINFORCE what works, and
• TAKE NEW ACTION to continue the momentum!

So yes, she was not my momentum to keep my action, my strategy or and my plans to keep my goals and the vision for my business/plans going on, I need other people that will come my way and more doors will open, others will close, same for you too.

Don't accept the first bad because you think it will help, there are better ones out there, and remember that if a door closes, there are many others that will open, and much better ones!!

It's for the better of success for you all and for me!!

I hope this will help you all... and that you like my first post

Yade