How to Do What You Want to Do?
"Can I Do Exactly What I Want in My Life?"
My short answer is: YES! You can do whatever you want!
Thus I myself have learned to live. Of course, some limit must always be remembered! At least I don’t recommend that you hurt or misbehave with other people..
"Am I Selfish if I Do What I Want?"
It may be that you become more selfish when you do what you want, probably I have become too.
However, I feel that I am happier and more satisfied with my life, because i carry out my own things and dreams.
Consider for a moment these two options..
- If you do things in life according to the wants and desires of others - will it make you happy?
- If you do things in your life exactly the way you want to - would you be happier?
In which of the options do you feel you are more valuable to yourself and your life?
2 Good Reasons to Do What You Want
1. You Have More to Give to Your Environment
First, I feel that people who do more in their lives what they want to do themselves have more to give to their environment.
They may be selfish but then they are also much more valuable to the people around them.
2. You Understand Other People Better
Second, as you begin to realize your own desires, you will also begin to understand other people better. I have noticed that many of the people's lives that make them the things that they want.
They understand if someone else wants to do something different, because they themselves live that kind of life. Then it is also much easier to understand others.
I hope this was helpful to you. I boldly encourage you to get to know yourself and think about what you want to do in your life - and then do it!
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Very well stated. I have never thought of it exactly like that before but it is so very true. Each of us has unique things to offer others and unless we find out what we want and who we are, those things will remain dormant.
Thanks for your stimulating thoughts.
We wish you much success as you continue your journey here.
That is very true...know your true potentials and weaknesses. And Be yourself!
Have a very nice day!
laertesMD
I didn't think it was offensive, but I changed it so that no one would just accidentally offend..
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You do have to know yourself and do what you like but when you're married or even just dating, sometimes you will have to compromise and not always get what YOU want. Pros and cons to being single I guess. It can be a balancing act. 🤣
~Debbi
That's, of course, true that you will have to compromise different things sometimes! :)