So, why is CONGRUENCE so important?

What does it have to do with your success - or failure?

If I told you that it had everything to do with your success or failure, would you believe me?

Well, all my research and experiences tell me that it does. It is that one piece of the puzzle that holds everything together and determines not only WHAT we accomplish but also the LEVEL at which we accomplish what we set out to do.

And here's why.

To achieve success at anything, your thoughts, feelings, words and actions MUST be similar. They MUST be aligned.

You cannot simply say that you want to achieve something. You must also focus your mind, know and feel that you can, tell yourself, (and others), that you will and then take action towards your goal or objective.

If any one of these is not in alignment, you will not succeed and you will struggle to accomplish anything worthwhile.

Even if you do start achieving, it will not be sustainable because there is a weak element.

Let us look at some examples of what I mean.



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ThomasTay Premium
Interesting tips. I just use this method and come up with 3 ways to turn those negatives into positives.
I have stuck a note on my computer screen to remind myself to do those 3 positive actions.
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CassiOfTroy Premium Plus
HI, Thomas,

I appreciate the time you took to walk through this training on Congruence.
It is also good to know that the training was helpful.

Your feedback will help me frame the other modules. 🙂

Thank you!
Cassi
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Dhind1 Premium Plus
Love the positivity in this tutorial. It always seems to be easier to think negative thoughts.

This is why there is so much negativity in the news. Disaster sells, positive stories are far fewer and gather much less viewing than negative ones.

Thanks,

Alex
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CassiOfTroy Premium Plus
And that is the essence of my 'Strategy Of Congruence', Alex.

A conflicted mind cannot move a body towards positive action and sustainable success.
I learned that the VERY hard way.
Self-sabotage is real and more frequent than we care to admit.

It all begins in the mind and the great news is that you can re-wire your mind.

It begins with self-talk and this series will help you to Change Your Script! 🙂

Thank you for your kind feedback.

Cassi
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Dhind1 Premium Plus
I believe it Cassi.

I am finally making my way out of the doldrums. It has taken concerted effort and positive thinking to get here.

I always thought I was a positive person. It was not until I looked at it objectively that I saw the positives were superficial and I had to go deeper for change

Alex
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CassiOfTroy Premium Plus
I used to think that way too.

It was a challenge for me to understand why, after working so hard to build something for myself, I allowed it to be abused and implode.

The reality that I was my worst enemy hit me very hard.
Thankfully, I was able to hold on as I rode the rollercoaster of transformation and align with my truth.

Some bitter pills were swallowed and digested, I tell you.

I am happy to know that you are on the up and up again and I appreciate your sharing.

Cassi
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IamTracy Premium Plus
Thanks Cassi. Really appreciated this reminder and exercise today. Thanks for sharing.
Blessings
Tracy
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CassiOfTroy Premium Plus
You are welcome, Tracy.

Thank you for going through the tutorial. 🙂
Cassi
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PrimeWander Premium
Yes it is true! Thanks for the share dear CassiofTroy! 🙏❤️🥰👍👍👍
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CassiOfTroy Premium Plus
You are welcome,e Steve.

Thank you.
Cassi
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1Rudy1 Premium
Very interesting, Cassi. It's true, that our thoughts become actions, that goes for both positive and negative thoughts.

When we continue along the 'story' that we are not good enough, we continue following that same belief.

There is power in the belief that WE CAN! The more we believe in ourselves that we CAN do something, the better we will feel about ourselves when we complete the task or goal we created.

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CassiOfTroy Premium Plus
This resonates with your comments, Rudy:
"There is power in the belief that WE CAN!"

You must first believe that you can, that you are capable and that you are deserving before you start to achieve and receive.

Never sell yourself short. 🙂

Thank you for sharing.
Cassi
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1Rudy1 Premium
You're welcome, Cassi!

Rudy
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