When you are at home, it is important to cut out some of the stuff and stress from work and take care of yourself. If you are always tense from work and your other obligations, it is hard to feel good about yourself. You never relax so the problem will just get worse. A better option to use is to work through self-care when you are at home.
Self-care means taking time away to take care of just yourself. Give up on the work, do not worry about the messy house, and even take a break from the spouse and kids. This time is just for you to recharge and feel better. It can be hard to do when there are a million things to get done. But with some hard work and scheduling the time into your day (with hard rules that no one can interrupt you), you will find that it can do wonders.
What you do for self-care can vary based on what seems to work the best for you. Each person is going to respond to a different task to help you relax. While some people may love to relax with a good book, others like to go out and enjoy some fresh air on a nature walk. If you are stuck on some ideas of what to do for self-care, some steps to use include:
- ● Read a book: Even one chapter a day can make a difference and will help get rid of all your troubles.
- ● Get fresh air: A walk around the block or even a nice nature hike can nourish your soul.
- ● Rock out: Pick a loud song and use it to drown out all the other noise.
- ● Laugh: Find something that will make you laugh and enjoy that for a bit.
- ● Maintain a regular workout schedule: Pick out an activity you enjoy, whether it is walking or something online, and do something good for your body.
- ● Eat a healthy meal by yourself; Having a few minutes by yourself will make a world of difference.
- ● Turn off the phone; Our phones are causing us a good deal of anxiety all the time. Figure out how to silence the phone and see what a difference it can make.
- ● Get to coloring: Adult coloring has seen a big increase in recent years because it is a good way to relax and do something fun.
If there is something that you really like to do that seems to relax, then add that to your schedule. You deserve a chance to relax and enjoy the life around you. And when you can make that happen, you will see that a lot of your stress and anxiety will start to go away, making imposter syndrome less prevalent in your life.
Thanks again!!
It helps me to think critically. I want to do videos and have a YouTube channel.
I'm being stuck in doing it. What comes to my mind every time I started is -- this video should be perfect in the eyes of my former office staff and friends.
This is where I got stuck as I always strive for perfection in all that I do. Is this impostor syndrome? Looking forward to your thoughts on this. Thank you, in advance, Catherine.
All the best,
Letty
But that's a long story that I'll leave for now. Suffice to say that I lost confidence because of it.
I was always a high performer at school, but I believed I wasn't. I never thought that anyone else had noticed my dilemma, that was until about a year ago. It was at this time that I was reacquainted with several people from my primary school days. One who told me how she had always felt sorry for me and how I was treated by this bully boy and a certain teacher, strange thing was I didn't even remember the teacher. Another told me how they had avoided me because I was to intelligent, he was sorry for his actions.
I'm telling you this because, thanks to your article, I finally understand why I feel the way I do and what I can do about it.
I can't believe myself just what a profound affect your blog has had on me. I'm a big man, no longer young. I have achieved much, suffered much and have surrounded myself with a beautiful family. I have a great life, yet here I am opening myself up to you, with tears pouring out of my old eyes. Thank you Catherine. Jim