Feeling Lost? Great, You Will Become Stronger
Everybody on this planet has moments when they feel tired. Everybody has moments when they feel exhausted, when they feel lost. You too, am I right? :)
The Feeling
Let's talk about the feeling itself first. How does it feel to be 'lost'? What do you feel? Well, I am going to tell you how I feel, since I guess everybody sense it differently.
There was a quotation that I really like and it goes just like..."I wanted to write exactly how I felt but somehow the paper stayed empty and I couldn't describe it any better". I consider this quote genius to be honest. Because that's exactly how I feel when I feel that loneliness covering me or when I feel that I am completely lost in a world full of things I completely understand and don't at all, both at the same time.
I love to write. I keep a notebook in which I'm writing everyday. How I feel, my daily goals and some personal quotes from time to time. And when I'm feeling lost, I'm somehow...stuck. I'm trying to find my words to tell exactly how I feel but I just can't.
We can have this feeling of being lost because of several reasons. Something bad happens in our life, career or day; we don't understand something anymore; we don't enjoy something anymore; we question our abilities; and so on.
The Good Part of This Feeling
Yes, there IS a good part in feeling awful haha. And that is you WILL become stronger! Yes, you will get over it at some point and you will come back on your feet stronger. The fact that you're feeling lost tells you that you're aware of something wrong that's going on in your life. It's very important to stay vigilant when it's about your career. It's important to notice when you shift away from your purpose, so you can get back on the track.
When you feel lost, clearly something's wrong. Either with the people you surround yourself with, either with your habits, either with a relationship in your life. And when you get this feeling, you know you have to take some action! Things are not going to solve by themselves, believe me.
If you are emotional intelligent and you don't give in your emotions (which I wasn't for sooo long), you will look the problem right in its eyes and it will disappear, instead of running from it- that way, it will be there forever.
Don't Despair, Bad Times Come to Pass
You know, I have a saying and that is In order to see the rainbow, you have to bear some damn rain first.
Bad times never come to stay. They come to teach us something, and after that they evaporate like they've never been there.
I have one last advice for you. Instead of asking yourself the question why me? every single time something happens to you (and believe me, it happens to everyone), just try to stay strong on your feet and say try me! Always try to see what's this bad experience trying to teach you.
Whatever you're going through, you need to know this: things will get better!
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I've encountered some difficult times and it was a challenge for me to get over them; I just regret the fact that I haven't been working at my fullest potential since I am a member here. It's been 2 months and I could've been further.
But what I know is that past doesn't exist and can't influence your future if you're emotional intelligent; so I won't look back and I will give my best! Promised.
Cheers!
Think of how I feel--been here over two years! You've probably got more done on your business than I do!
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I think society the way it currently is contributes to people feeling lost, depressed, alienated, confused and suicidal. Social Media was designed to bring people closer together, and it does but at the same time it alienates us. Most people in society are stuck wasting away in these prisons called jobs because they need money to survive in this Matrix. Just because your're making money doesn't mean your not wasting your life, a drug dealer makes hundreds and thousands a dollars a day selling drugs but he or she is still wasting their life. We only get one life to live and we spend it working for people and corporations that don't give a damn about us we are worth much more than that shit.
If I sound angry it's because I am. RubioAlex thank for writing this post and thank you for being AWAKE. Much Successs!.
I enjoyed your message to its fullest, trust me. I have the same opinion about the social media thing and about the stereotype that society has created along the years. Everybody's supposed to be different, yet 99% of the people are the same, following this stereotype that I was mentioning above.
The most important thing is to have a right balance. To have equilibrium in everything you do. Everything in this world is based on that. There is evil-good, there is darkness-light, there is cold-hot and so on. That's exactly how our life is, with its ups and downs. And we need to create the right balance between living our life and hustling for example. We need to create the right balance in absolutely everything in order to achieve that happiness.
I wish you all the best!
Thank you.