Conquering your Fear is one step forward
Hey Wealthy Affiliate fam,
Today, I want to talk about something that holds so many of us back the fear of failure, especially when it comes to creating your first vlog post. This vlog speaks more about me because this how I literally describe myself when I try to write a vlog post here in WA. So today, I ask a help from chat GPT to help me explain how I really felt when I do vlog post. If you've ever stared at your camera, heart racing, palms sweaty, wondering âWhat if I mess up?ââyouâre not alone.
Why We Fear Failure
Fear of failure often stems from:
- Worrying about what others will think
- Comparing ourselves to seasoned vloggers
- Feeling like weâre not âexpertâ enough
- Perfectionism that paralyzes us before we even begin
But hereâs the truth: failure isnât the enemy itâs the teacher.
Shift Your Mindset
Instead of seeing failure as a dead-end, start seeing it as feedback. Every vlog you post is a step forward, even if itâs not perfect. Remember:
- Your first vlog doesnât need to be flawlessâit just needs to be real.
- People connect with authenticity more than polish.
- Youâre building trust, not just traffic.
Practical Tips to Crush That Fear
Here are a few strategies that helped me and many others in the Wealthy Affiliate community:
- Start Small Record a short 1-minute video introducing yourself. No pitch, no pressureâjust you.
- Script Lightly Jot down bullet points instead of a full script. This keeps your delivery natural and less robotic.
- Practice Off-Camera Talk through your vlog out loud before hitting record. Get comfortable with your voice and message.
- Use the WA Community Share your draft vlog in the Wealthy Affiliate forums. The support here is unrealâyouâll get constructive feedback and encouragement.
- Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection Every vlog you post is a win. Track your growth, not your likes.
Final Thoughts
Fear of failure is just a sign that you care. And thatâs a good thing. But donât let it stop you from sharing your voice. Your journey, your insights, your storyâthey matter. And someone out there needs to hear it.
So go aheadâhit record, speak your truth, and let the Wealthy Affiliate community cheer you on. Youâve got this!
Wen
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You are doing a great job of conquering your fears, Sharing with us here at WA is such a generous thing to do. Yes, we do have those fears. It is nice not to feel alone in working through these things.
Sami
Excuse me, Shelly. Thank You.
I am going to echo Shelly here , Wen. Because I couldn't have said it better.
Thank you for sharing.
JD
Thank you for sharing Wen
Fear is natually many of our obstacles from experiencing more success. I am starting my first email marketing campaign. What has held me back was anxious feelings, but with the support of WA members I am moving forward to battle my fears of email marketing
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Happy to read and comment Wen
I try to make time every day to read and comment on other members WA posts. It is worth the time spent, you can learn new methods and become inspired
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Thank you for sharing, Wen. đ Fear is like a monster that can knock at your door any time of the day, but when it does, shift your mindset and stand firm in faith. Remind it, âYouâre not welcome here, and I will not open the door for you, God has not given me a spirit of fear!â
You're welcome Jocelyne, Thanks for the comment and I certainly agreed of what you have said.
wen