Have You experienced this with a Family member?
Have you Experience this with your Family member?
I have one site. And it is nearly successful. I had so many visitors, an average sign up of 20 per day and successful paid membership of around 5 per week.
Thanks to Wealthy Affiliate for its "Request comment tool". It's so powerful. I manage to get to page 1, position number 1 and even set as featured snippet. Thanks to all of you...=)
My issue came when one of our Wealthy Affiliate family members manage to see my site thru this tool. He had almost the same niche. He bookmarked my site, took information from my site (Even copied directly some of the data), rephrased some of my lines and contradicted and opposed it.
I tried to reach to him and said that its illogical/pointless to present a review (And give negative Judgment and not just mere opinion) that is based only on other peoples' blog and NOT being inside (Or try to be a member to deeply investigate and then conclude) the program under review (Especially he speaks in English and the program is in Tagalog/Philippines).
I tried to give some corrections on the "Bad/Horrible Judgment that he posted on his site" with proofs of snippets. Fortunately, he apologized and corrected the mistakes. Things started to be fair from there. We are now in a "fair" situation.
My page is in page 1-number 1 position, while his page is on page 1-number 2 position. Two high ranking positions with opposite perspectives.
The sad part is the aftermath, now I only have around 1 sign up every 3 to 4 days and lost the paid membership up to now. I cannot blame that brother of ours since he wanted to rank high and gain profit in the process, plus I saw in his Facebook profile that he is jobless that made me understand his situation.
Everybody has free rights to do what he/she wants as long you held yourself accountable/responsible on your actions and you don't harm other people. Sometimes we might think that we are all just doing fine with everything until we realize the mistakes were there when it's done.
To be harmed by complete strangers is nothing but to be pinched by a family member has a deep impact.
Lesson: Let's all be careful-Let's care for each other.
We are Wealthy Affiliate and we are family. I always believed that and will always continue too.
I hope you learned a bit from this experience of mine.
Regards,
Rock
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This is a simply horrible thing to have done to you (If I am understanding the issue, correctly)
It looks like you handled it properly. however.
I would, however. monitor his site for a while....
Yes Mickey.
At first, it drove me nuts. But eventually, I realized that he might have desperately needed it. And I think he is still quite naive in the sense of being sensitive to a fellow family member or a friend.
Anyhow, I am monitoring his site until today, because he is slowly transforming back his page from neural mode back to being the opposite point of view of mine (After our nice conversation on how we gonna resolve things out).
Well, I guess I just have to leave it. To keep me positive...=)
Sometimes, nothing is perfect as some say. I just decided to move on...=)
Thanks for the comment...=)
Sorry to read that you are coping with this family conflict. No, I haven't experienced this, as a matter of fact, my family doesn't have the faintest idea of what I am doing online.
Thanks Loes.
It's a message about care, sense of accountability, loyalty and strength to move forward no matter what the situation present to us.
Rock
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Good for you because you stepped back, you took a look at what happened. You spoke your mind logically and pointed out where some of his moves were not on the note worthy side of his character where he could tidy up his actions a bit which would step himself up a bit higher.
All the while you did this with coolness,calmness, showing great considerations for his well being and life which you found out about during your investigations.
You know in your heart of hearts your success will pick up and reach a higher peak.
Your actions have expressed a great kindness which in my world is totally Gold.
Wishing you the Best Always.
Thank You JJordie.
Such a heartwarming and soul-calming message from you.
Deeply Appreciated...=)
Wish you all the best as well.