So You Lack Self Confidence

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Do You Lack Self Confidence?

Lack of Self Confidence is a Universal Problem

It seems that everyone I've ever met has some type of self confidence issue at one time or another during their life. Some people have entirely too much confidence, while others have very little; both lead to consequences.

Overly Confident: Leaders, Money Makers, Inspirational Thinkers

Lack of Confidence: Well, we can see some of that by the homelessness, drug abuse, type of job, who follows whom, and did you know that studies show lack of self confidence and how you speak to yourself can also lead to health problems?

So you probably aren't reading this if you're over confident; read on if so.

The title was made for those who have tried various business opportunities, job offers, or okay, so baton twirling and dancing to steps wasn't my thing, but yea, I had to get that out.

Lack of confidence can and does affect many areas of our lives.

Whether it's from being too thin, too tall, can't read, spell or gramatically produce anything, overweight, scars, lack of limb, color pigmentation, or a myriad of other thoughts we have about ourselves, we almost all have self confidence issues in one way or another.

That's okay!

Now you know you're not alone. Rock on! ...or dance if you can.

If you've started your first blog, nice going, never be ashamed or afraid to share the knowledge, wisdom, hobbies or skillsets you have; not even when you can't spell, read, or write. * this could be me talking to myself :-)

You can always go back and change, add, delete things as you go.

What we must remind ourselves is that almost everyone goes through something; we're not alone in our feelings and insecurities and that should bring about some comfort and hopefully a feeling of "I CAN do this!" and "Nothing is going to stop me from living my dreams"

- - KNOW - - that you absolutely CAN do this business when you follow the training, put forth the effort, knowledge and learn from all the educators, and keep working at it as the community helps you through the process.

Do what you can to learn from the leaders - open email daily from WA - Kyle / Carson are the folks who make this education and system a win-win.

As you learn a lesson, go back and help new students and business owners in the training areas you've already taken.

RitaAnn~ on Wealthy Affiliate

Hi there, I'm RitaAnn~ and that's me in the photo. Nothing fancy, just something one of the young people in my life wanted to do for me and it turned out beautifully.

I also have a lack of self confidence where so many things are concerned.

When reaching out to some of the young people in my life who used to think I had it all together, he said he wanted to take some photos that I could use online for my profiles and projects.

I'm so pleased with the outcome here.

Take a moment to let me know you read this far by going to the link below and on that page add the information in the article.

Because I flucuate, it will be interesting to see how the profile rank moves according to who is looking at it - not just a number - you, the person reading this.

Be sure to come back over to this page to read more

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Take a moment to see how they put their profile and pages together. Utilize their strengths while building your own Profile and business.

Your profile:

On the menu at the top - in the circle click or 3 lines - upload your professional business photo.

Keep your profile updated for new students and possible business connections.

Learn to Learn and Earn

Not everyone learns the same way.

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If you're having problems understanding the training, reach out to the community on the lesson you're on and ask the question. Don't hesitate to jump right in, after all, it's your time. Make the education worth your time.

On the top menu you'll see: "Home", "Training", "Websites", "Classes etc.

* "Training" for Wealthy Affiliate - On the menu

Not everyone enjoys the same subjects, hobbies or experiences and that means you, with or without writing abilities can also build your business around your skills. There's always someone out there wanting to learn something, you might have information that's helpful to someone out there.

We all lack self confidence in one area or another in our lives. Don't let this education or funds keep you from building your business.

Your dreams are too important to hold back from learning to build your business.

We are not promised tomorrow so today must be conquered. :-)

Get started in the process of overcoming your fears, anxieties, lack of whatever it might be and put your big kid boots on and invest in yourself.

How to Invest in Yourself:

There are many ways to express this sentence.

* You could do this by having your hair or nails done, go out to eat, or other self expression.

You could also get a good technical education which is what I would suggest.

My thoughts on this are that technology is going forward and the more I learn about it, the more my income will help build my future.

* Start by upgrading here at WA if needed, with the least expensive ways if you're on a budget.

If you're a brand, product or service, you already know the funds are well worth the yearly cost - Jump in and go.

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* Find areas of income you're overspending on: soda, snacks, unhealthy food, habits

  • Take that income and use it toward your online business education
  • Find a side hustle to earn 1-4 hrs. day
  • This Educational system at WA is a great way to share this education with people who have knowledge they can help people with, or by sharing for earning - invest
  • * Freelance work
  • * Housekeeping
  • * Pressure Washer Cleaning
  • * Other ideas for building your pockets

The gifts that you were born with can compel you to move to the next level.

Don't give a second thought to spelling or grammar, just flow -

The thought might be "what do I absolutely love doing that I can help people with" or write about.

If you haven't started writing on your profile page, get started doing that now -

To find your profile see the menu and the circle, if you haven't uploaded your professional picture, do that now.

Step out of your comfort zone, take some time to see your future situation and jump right in; the water is just right here. :-)

Hit that Wealthy Affiliate Upgrade Button before you lose the discount and jump right in at building your online business.

You can also use the same link to delete your account if you don't want to build an online business.

If building a website isn't your thing, being helpful on this website can help you build a business.

You can also send your link via the training information to share this education and system with business owners and entrepreneur minded people.

Here's to your success and I look forward to seeing you on the inside,

RitaAnn~

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Well said RitaAnn, I am sure that most of us have dealt with a lack of self confidence at some points in our lives, a lot can be learnt here my friend!

Hi Jessiefido, you're right about the dealing with lack of self confidence.

I suppose most of us deal with it at different times during our lives as well.
Finding myself going full force in something I'm doing, thinking I'm doing alright, then to find something messes up and I'm the hardest person on myself.

What I have learned over the years is that there are some things millionaires have in common and one being an over comer of self confidence even when they feel lack of it.

When feeling 'worthless' or 'not good enough' it's the mindset being rerouted into a positive thought process that makes the difference.

Yes, many of us do go through it, the ones that make it to the top take command over the thought process and then command the thoughts to become productive instead of getting them down.

This community is really encouraging and inspiring and like you said "a lot can be learnt here" as WA is just what the doctor ordered.

Thanks so much for your encouraging words,

Here's to your success,

RitaAnn~

I totally agree with you here RitaAnn and the community here is a fantastic one!

Isn't it though, the people are so diverse and helpful no matter who you are.

Thank you for your encouragement,

Cheers!

RitaAnn~

Absolutely they are and you're most welcome my friend!

No I have no problem with self-confidence. Great post.

That's great to know Mutef, not everyone is as confident so you're on the right track, keep going.
:-)

RitaAnn~

A great message all newer members should have to read.

Regards,

Jason

Thank you 01Jason for stopping by and for your kind words,

Here's to your success,

RitaAnn~

Some excellent words of wisdom, Rita-ann!

Jeff

Well JeffreyBrown, thank you for those words of encouragement.

Hopefully it will help someone along the way at some time.

Thanks again,

RitaAnn~

You're welcome, and I believe that it will!

Jeff

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