Who do you Trust and why?
What do you have to go through to say "I trust you"? You make friends and you trust them there and there? After how long and after what, do you then say I trust you?
- When you select your Affiliate partners, do you trust them?
You have to earn my trust.
These are words that many will say to those seeking their trust. And it is on the challenged to prove they can be trusted. They might go to the ends of the earth to try and prove this but it is still up to you to trust them. So what is it that makes you trust?
- Will they pay up you make the sale?
- Will they pay you fairly?
- What kind of red tape do they have Set up?
These can be avoided by a simple read of the constructs. Do you read them? Many are in a rush to get affiliates. While your site is new and you have no traffic you get a 50 % offer per sale but as the site becomes better and you are closer to getting good traffic, you get readjustment to your contract 1% less, two three four. By the time you get sales, you are at 10%.
How do you trust that?
I am here for you. Call me when you need help and as soon as you find yourself in need! " Hey man, I need your help". The response is I am sorry man if it was another time it would have worked. I am busy today "have a great day".
When a friend asked for help and you can not break a sweat trying to help. Are you really a friend?
Good Friends are Hard to Come By.
Bad friends are always there but not when you need them. Only when they have an opportunity to gain from you. A friend in need is a friend indeed. If they were not in need indeed they would be elsewhere.
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
One of my friends once said to me, we can be friends but you are going to first prove your worth. I suppose your Affiliates don't have to prove themselves to you. At least they have to prove that you can trust them. What have they done to prove their worth? I have heard many affiliates saying that they are not being paid but they made sales.
I don't have friends now, because I am not trustworthy. The ones that I have, tolerate me. I miss the day, I could trust and not fear. But what does it take to trust?
I do not have answers but I ask. It might get me in trouble. But if the questions are not asked there are no answers and we remain in the dark.
I like a friend who will bring light and help me out of the dark. Are that king of a friend or do you run the minute you are challenged?
Thank you for taking the time to read. Please Share, Comment, and Like.
Cheers,
Ntlhane
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My heart has been shattered into pieces by people I trusted. Now I trade with caution. I love friends who are there on a rainy day for me. Friends who are available to wipe my tears or lend a hand when I am in need not only for them to benefit from me.
The best method is to tread carefully. That is if you don't want your heart in pieces. Senanelo.
Ntlhane
I WILL go the extra mile; I have many times, and there were times I paid a dear price for it. I too have found myself receiving nothing in return at times. It broke my heart because it came from deep inside me to sacrifice and help someone when I too needed it. Many times I wasn't asked if I needed something. Taken for granted by relatives and friends alike, I found myself alone, sometimes with only a book to read for comfort. ln all reality, it bought me more, and it gave me the understanding that immature people do not know how to give. They do not know how to love; they are unskilled in the heart as a toddler, many times.
Well, I stopped letting them play with my toys (me), and I had to sort of spank them in an emotional way. l told them to go 'learn" some manners, and while they were at it, do to some thinking. I know it's not good to stay in the rearview mirror, but these are those cases where if they don't they will look back on their own mistakes. They will remain a small child until they die, taking advantage of others. I think we are seeing a lot of that lately.
I applaud you Ntlthane for "growing up" and taking responsibility. Thus you matured and took the time to look into your heart and your purpose in life. You found it; and you found us, and we are YOUR FRIENDS, GOOD ONES WHO LOVE YOU Ntlthane!!
You made it home my friend. l thank you for the post; we all need to think about what you have said.
Love always Ntlthane, have a great day. I trust you as a friend, yes, I do. :)
It is not easy, Denise.
Love is a big one when it comes to Trust. It is because love is somewhat blind to what leads to trust. That is why when trust is broken in love it is so hard to prepare but still possible.
I admire those who are unable to repair trust in Love. They are able to separate the two.
Someone in Love might have their trust broken and still remain in love to have their trust broken again and again.
Like you say some don't even know what is it they are breaking when they break trust.
Thank you, for sharing. I trust that you always write from a place of love and caring.
Ntlhane
I will Ntlthane; that's why I enjoy this so much. I didn't have opportunity for a long time, and I am thrilled to have come out of a darkness after a long struggle to find light in my life again.
Thank you again for taking the time to be a good friend and share your feelings. Love rules Ntlthane. You have plenty of it. :)
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Very thought-provoking, Ntlhane.
Trust does not come easy. And it's in layers. For example, just because I trust someone not to intentionally lie to me, doesn't mean I trust them to do what they say they will do.
As I get older, though, I realize more and more just how trustworthy God is.
Lynn
That is great imagery, trust is like an onion. Levels Lynn.
I take that one, and age does give wisdom.
Ntlhane