Do We Complain?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

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We all complain but have we ever stopped and listened to ourselves when we do? I don't think so - we are so busy venting that sometimes things are said and we never quite remember what we said. It is at those times we should have a tape recorder on and ready to play back when we have calmed down. If we could but listen to ourselves when we are complaining we would be amazed at what came out of our mouths. It would certainly give as a good idea of what we had to do to change circumstances. It is rare that I complain these days about things, people or circumstances, having come to realise that the solution is in my hands - not others - not my mother, my father, my sister, my brother my husband, my children or my friends. The buck stops with ME!!!!! I am the only one who can change my circumstances. I can choose to hide under a rock or face the challenge head on. Everything we do or say, every success or failure comes directly from that little unruly organ directly under our noses - OUR MOUTH!!! Talk success , believe success and the mind will follow and we will achieve success. You might think that is a cliche but the brain is like a computer. Mention you have a problem (which I don't anymore) and the brain will close down and not look for a solution, however mention the word issue or challenge and the brain, our computer, will look for any way to solve the issue. It will go over it, under it, around it or even through it and though that sounds simplistic it works. Whatever the brain can concieve the mind will achieve. It seeks out answers and sometimes those answers come at the most unexpected times - often when we are otherwise occupied and not thinking about the issue at hand. It is really great watching people working their way around the issues confronting them here on Wealthy Affiliate. To some understanding comes quite quickly - others take a little longer but definitely worth the effort. It is certainly gratifying to see so many people, both young and old sticking to the game plan in order to achieve what other well meaning people will tell you is impossible. I think many are actually surprise themselves with their achievements and what they can achieve with patience, persistence and dedication to ensuring their financial futures whether it be to put kids through college or providing for retirement. The help of a great community all willing and able to help with their expertise or knowledge is something some of the governments around the world should take notice of. It is a great compliment to all that the compassion and well being of our fellow marketers is alive and well and on show.

When next we complain remember that there is someone somewhere in the world who does not and probably will never have the advantage of doing what we do here at WA.

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I agree with Arleen. Be grateful for what you have instead of complaining about what you don´t have or don´t like! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings!

So true...

Great blog! I've been complaining at my daytime job way too long. I finally decided to take action and make some changes. Joining WA is my starting point :)

HI and thank you for your comments - I know the feeling but you have made a stand for your future if you are here so all the best and if there is anything I can do help please let me know
Carol

Great blog, and I have been guilty of going off on a big venting session! It is wasted energy, and I realised I need to turn that powerful energy for constructive things rather than anger!
life is certainly a school of learning, whatever age you are!
Thanks for the reminder, Lisa

HI Lisa, thank you for your kind comments. Sometimes it is worth stepping back and looking at ourselves
Carol

Very true... Do not complain. Someone, once taught me that there are 2 types of people. Those who complain and those who look for a solution and do something about it...!!!

So, which one are you...?

I am GREATFUL, to just have the opportunity to be here lol
Arleen Wright
Smile ;)...!

HI - had not heard from you and was concerned - glad to know that you are okay
Carol

Thank you... I fell about a month ago and I am just now getting back up... My care taker makes rules like... If I cannot make it to the living room I not well enough to be in the net or WA for that matter LOL...!

Feeling better and picking up where I left off... I miss being here and I often cannot wait to log in but I also understand my hubby and I must keep a BALANCE. Yet, I get so cut up on the information I often was not fully drinking my meds because I didn't want to sleep LOL.

Thank you Carol for your concern and I am now ready to go again... Well, continue to work on my website because I am ashamed but I haven't been WRITTING as much as I would had like but it's never too late to start, right beautiful ;)...!

Arleen Wright
Smile ;)...!

Tank you for letting me know you are okay - I have kept you in my prayers each and every day. I did not send you the final part of the story because I did not want you to be bored or overtax you with my ramblings
Carol

Hi beautiful ;)...!
I am slow but eventually I get to it Carol ;)...!

Just started a new med and my life seems like it's been totally taken off my previous schedule but after almost a month I am finally getting back to a schedule LOL...!

Great - when you are feeling up to it I will complete the story - final part - I think it will be up-lifting to you but in the meantime I am keeping you in my heart and prayers
Carol

Complaining doesn't usually change anything. It is wasted speech.

Great points - no-one can change what we say or do, other than ourselves :)

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