The Power of the WORD

byPaulChetwyn

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What we say, write, and live out is shaping more than we realize.

Words do not disappear once spoken.
They land. They linger. They build—or they break.

Long after a conversation ends, its words continue to work quietly in the mind, the heart, and even the direction of a life.

The Psychology of Words

From a psychological perspective, words act as frames. They shape how we interpret reality, ourselves, and others.

The brain does not merely hear words — it responds to them. Repeated words become beliefs. Beliefs influence decisions. Decisions create outcomes.

This is why encouragement can unlock confidence, and why criticism—especially repeated—can paralyze potential.

Words are not neutral. They carry emotional weight and cognitive instruction.

The Spoken Word

The spoken word carries immediacy and emotion. Tone, volume, timing, and intention amplify its impact.

A spoken word can:

• Inspire action
• Calm fear
• Trigger defensiveness
• Wound deeply

A careless spoken word can do damage that years of explanation cannot fully undo. Conversely, a timely spoken word can redirect a life.

The Written Word

The written word has longevity.

Once written, words travel beyond their author, often detached from context or intent. Contracts, emails, messages, posts, and books shape decisions and reputations long after the moment they were created.

This permanence gives written words extraordinary power—for good or harm.

The Unsaid Word: Expressions and Actions

Not all words are spoken or written.

Silence communicates.
Body language communicates.
Actions communicate.

A lack of affirmation can wound as deeply as harsh speech. Indifference often speaks louder than insult.

People read meaning into what we do not say as much as what we do.

The Effect of Negative Words

Negative words:

• Undermine confidence
• Shape self-doubt
• Create fear-based thinking
• Anchor people to past failures

When spoken repeatedly—especially by authority figures, parents, leaders, or teachers—negative words can become internal narratives.

Many adults are still living under sentences spoken over them decades ago.

Positive Words and Their Impact

Positive words do not ignore reality — they frame it constructively.

They:

• Reinforce possibility
• Build resilience
• Encourage growth
• Strengthen identity

Well-spoken encouragement does not flatter; it aligns people with their potential.

Indifferent Words: The Hidden Damage

Indifference sounds like:

• “Whatever”
• “It doesn’t matter”
• Silence when support is needed

Indifferent words communicate disinterest, dismissal, and disengagement. Over time, they erode trust and connection.

Indifference often wounds more deeply than open hostility.

Words That Damage the Soul

Some words strike at identity:

• “You’re useless.”
• “You’ll never change.”
• “You always fail.”

These words attack who someone is, not just what they did.

Their effects include:

• Shame
• Fear
• Withdrawal
• Self-sabotage

Soul-damaging words often require intentional healing to undo.

Words That Build vs Words That Destroy

Words that build:

• Clarify
• Encourage
• Correct with dignity
• Strengthen purpose

Words that destroy:

• Label
• Condemn
• Belittle
• Strip hope

Every conversation contains a choice: construction or destruction.

Overcoming Negative Words from the Past

Healing begins by:

1. Recognizing false narratives
2. Replacing them with truth
3. Repeating new language intentionally
4. Aligning actions with healthier beliefs

Old words lose power when they are no longer believed.

The Biblical Meaning of “The Word”

In Scripture, “The Word” is not just speech—it is creative force.

“In the beginning was the Word… and the Word was God.”

God speaks, and creation responds. Jesus is described as the living Word, demonstrating that words are not merely communication, but manifestation.

Biblically, words:

• Create
• Bless
• Curse
• Heal
• Judge

This reinforces the idea that words are spiritual instruments, not casual sounds.

The Words We Speak Over Ourselves

Before words ever affect our business, our selling, or our relationships, they take root inside us.

The most influential voice in a person’s life is often not a parent, a teacher, or a leader — it is their own internal dialogue. The words we speak over ourselves, whether aloud or silently, shape identity, confidence, and direction.

These words do not simply pass through the mind; they land in the heart and settle into belief.

What Positive Words Spoken Over Ourselves Do

Positive self-directed words are not wishful thinking or denial of reality. They are intentional alignment with truth and possibility.

Positive words spoken over ourselves:

• Reinforce identity and purpose
• Build confidence and resilience
• Strengthen focus and motivation
• Encourage perseverance through difficulty
• Create openness to growth and opportunity

When repeated consistently, positive words:

• Rewire thought patterns
• Influence decision-making
• Shape expectations of success

They land as permission — permission to try, to grow, to persist.

Examples:

• “I am capable of learning this.”
• “I can improve with effort.”
• “I am becoming better prepared.”
• “This challenge does not define me.”

What Negative Words Spoken Over Ourselves Do

Negative self-talk is often subtle and disguised as realism.

Phrases like:

• “I’m not good at this.”
• “This is just how I am.”
• “I always mess things up.”
• “It’s too late for me.”

Negative words spoken over ourselves:

• Undermine confidence
• Reinforce fear and hesitation
• Shrink vision and ambition
• Create self-fulfilling limitations
• Anchor identity to past failures

They land as judgment — not just of actions, but of worth.

Over time, these words become internal laws that quietly govern behavior:

• We stop trying
• We avoid risk
• We settle for less than our potential

How Self-Spoken Words Land

Words spoken over ourselves land in three key places:

1. The Mind – shaping beliefs and expectations
2. The Emotions – influencing confidence or fear
3. Behavior – guiding action or avoidance

What we believe about ourselves determines how we show up in the world.

Change the words, and you begin to change the outcome.

Reclaiming the Language, We Use About Ourselves

Transformation often begins not with new circumstances, but with new language.

To reclaim internal dialogue:

• Identify recurring negative phrases
• Challenge their accuracy
• Replace them with grounded, constructive alternatives
• Reinforce new language through repetition and action

The goal is not empty positivity — it is intentional truth-telling.

The Effect of Words on Business and Selling

In business:

• Words shape brand identity
• Words influence trust
• Words close or lose sales

How something is said often matters as much as what is said. Successful leaders and salespeople understand that words must align with values, clarity, and credibility.

A poorly chosen phrase can lose a deal. A well-timed, well-chosen word can build a long-term relationship.

Words in Religion and Society

Religions are built on words — teachings, doctrines, prayers, creeds. Societies are shaped by narratives, slogans, laws, and promises.

When words lose integrity, institutions weaken. When words are used responsibly, societies stabilize.

Words shape culture.

How We Should Use Our Words Going Forward

To produce positive results, we must:

• Speak intentionally, not reactively
• Write with clarity and responsibility
• Align words with actions
• Correct without cruelty
• Encourage without flattery
• Remain silent when silence is wiser than speech

Words should be tools of alignment, not weapons of harm.

Final Thought

Every word we release sets something in motion.

Words shape minds.
Words build futures.
Words can heal or harm.

If we become more conscious of the words we speak, write, and live out, we do more than improve communication — we change outcomes.

Choose your words carefully.
They are working long after you stop speaking