How to Handle Haters and Jealous People
How to Handle Haters and Jealous People
Haters and jealousy come simultaneously to a person. A successful person has haters. Usually, people feel jealous of others either because they possess something which they don’t have or they want to have. Moreover, jealousy is not a positive factor. So there should be certain boundaries set by a person to maintain that no negative vibes come to him.
Neglecting haters and jealous people completely in life is not possible. But, it is possible to be positive in yourself. Try to spread a positive aura wherever you go irrespective of the other persons’ behavior. You may face difficulties, but being positive is way better than being negative. There are certain points in life which, when followed properly can help people to handle haters and jealous people easily.
Taking the below-mentioned points into your consideration will definitely help you:
- Believe in Yourself
- Avoid contact with Negative people
- Just don’t be a hater if you find a hater to you
You need to know one thing that haters are present either you do good or bad. For your every step you take there will be people who will criticize you to the core. But, that time you need to believe in yourself. No criticism can harm you, it can only motivate you to improve yourself. Never stop believing that you are not worth anything because this is not true. You are capable of doing everything if you have the will to do it.
Haters will hate you no matter what you achieve, they will try to spread jealousy in you. But, you need to have a control on yourself that you are able to spread only positive vibes.
You can’t make possible to not have a contact with the negative people. But, what you can do is that make a limited contact with the people whom you find negative. Negative people are the ones who shed negative criticism to you or demotivate you. You don’t need people in your life that aren’t positive to you.
Avoid contact doesn’t mean that you need to be rude to others by not talking to them. But, you can have a casual talk, and after that, you can leave the conversation with a decent reply. This way your contact will remain fine and good with no harm. This is the appropriate way of dealing with the people you find not good for you.
This is the prime point while considering the haters and jealous people. Because if you want to handle a hater you have to be a man of positive aura. If you treat a hater like a hater, it will surely have bad effects to you. Instead to a hater(a person who hates you for any reason); you can be good to him no matter what he does. This will not only bring changes to the person who hates you, but also develops positivity in you. Moreover, this step of being good to all proves to be an important benchmark in assuring good connections.
Handling haters and jealous people is important to survive in this big world. You should not let these negativities surround you so badly and have an effect on you. Start to ignore them because this is all that you need to do for being calm in yourself. Don’t let the hateness effect you in any case because you are a person of positive aura. And, those people who have positive aura needs no haters in their life. Try to live with all good things that will give you a peaceful and motivating life.
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Nice one Jay!! It's a challenge to stay positive but hey, game on! :)
I also notice that some of them are quite dangerous, can't always just ignore them, got to be careful too and not underestimate what a jealous person will try to do, especially if they are a bit psycho - and there is more of that around than is culturally acknowledged! Positivity and strategy = power!