Who You Are Is What You Will Be
What is in the brain so important, it should only keep the best things there are. Most of us may fail if we do not take serious remedy on the issues of who we are.
Who you are is what you will be. If you are lazy and a procrastinator, chances are your life will go to a lot of challenges and hardships. Now, it will only be so if you are not able to calibrate you ways on the right side.
We need to understand the core of the matter, what makes someone for what a person is or who she/he is? Let start with learning the three components of a great character and personality.
There are 3 things in our character we have to really know - they are Right Mindset, Positive Attitude, and Correct Self-Belief. Know the three, is to have the keys to open your true you.
Most of the time we all have the potential in possessing the right mindset, positive attitude, and correct self-belief. It is all a question of your choice and resolve.
There is a saying, it is not what you want, it is what you are! It entails the reality of the truth in us. We may have noble intentions but our personality and character has the final say on the following parts of who you really are and not what you think you are. It is your self-belief, attitude and mindset. And therefore your life is pegged on what you really are.
If any of the three would lag behind on the criteria of what is right, positive and correct, the whole future may be critically affected.
We need to accept in ourselves who we really are. Knowing the truth is the start of metamorphosis to our true potential. Below are the knowledge by which we could gauge ourselves whether we are on the right mindset or not.
For there are people who are somehow within but not inside, there people who are in the middle but never in the right mindset totally and there are people who are totally outside the territory of a true mindset. We will discuss the right mindset. To get the understanding of the right mindset will have the right glimpse on the positive attitude and correct self-beliefs!
Who you are is the totality of your character and personality these two are enveloped with the intrinsic characteristics of who you really are based on your self belief, attitude and mindset.
I have tried to imbibe all there is to it in the right mindset, as well as in the positive attitude and correct self beliefs. For one a positive attitude see and anticipate great things to come and a correct self belief is while we are just human we can always aspire to be a superman. There is no substitute for being on top. For the top is not crowded and difficult.
Contrary to popular beliefs be on top is not difficult, to go there is not either, ask the man with the right mindset, positive attitude and correct self beliefs.
Sef-Belief
Self belief is both negative and positive. The higher the negativity the lower the rate of a better quality of thoughts.
Some of self belief that are detrimental to our success are: the limiting beliefs such as I am just but human, weak and hopeless.
Some misleading beliefs such as the superstitious belief, for example, there is a strong belief that if you run across a black cat or inadvertently killed a black cat you will suffer seven years of misfortune.
Correct self-belief such self-confidence is good for positive performance and results. It is a sense of belief that you can handle the challenges facing you.
Self belief is both negative and positive. The higher the negativity the lower the rate of a better quality of thoughts.
Self beliefs are the product of those around you, family, friends, people in school, religion, people among your peer group. The ones you heard and saw and felt
Your own internalization, your own interpretation and your own experience.
Attitude
Habit and tendencies and vices. You Drive, cultural influences, environment and experiences. Strength, weaknesses, talent, skills, passion and interest from our attitude directly or indirectly.
A calibrated one, one, we call positive attitude is a well balance of taking action effective, responsibly and excellently. The good habit could fully support positive attitude. The intrinsic character.
Attitude should also include GMRC - good manners and right conduct. Etiquette, respect, courtesy and politeness.
Positive attitude should have fundamental self-control and discipline in creating a habit of great work ethics and taking action on time for every task that are needed to be completed.
Attitude of being extrovert or introvert, pessimistic or optimistic. A go-getter or self-defeatist.
Great attitude is dynamic it gears towards what is right, correct and positive.
Mindset
Mindset is the total knowledge and understanding a person has where mindset originated from. It has a big source from family members, neighbors, school social clubs and the community as a whole. The mindset is what separate everyone as who has the best flow of thoughts. Thoughts are precursor of our mindset. The mindset of being aloof or indifferent is brought about by the fear of being dragged down to grave issues which might damage your reputation, integrity, freedom or life.
Mindset originates from the culture, customs and tradition in totality and the experiences, good or bad including good and bad memories. It is the product of what you are taught of, values you are shaped up, and the principles and conviction you formed within.
A whole some mixed of the three and spring cleaning of the bad ones in our self-beliefs, attitude and mindset produce an excellent character and personality.
Final Thoughts
I have tried to imbibe all there is to it in the right mindset, as well as in the positive attitude and correct self beliefs. For one a positive attitude see and anticipate great things to come and a correct self belief is while we are just human we can always aspire to be a superman. There is no substitute for being on top. For the top is not crowded and difficult.
Contrary to popular beliefs being on top is not difficult, to go there is not either, ask the man with the right mindset, positive attitude and correct self-beliefs. Our being us is a continuous improvement, a daily balancing act, adapting and adjusting on the challenges of daily life.
Start where you are, use what you have, do what you can to gain correct self-belief, positive attitude and right mindset before it's too late.
Maybe you have other thoughts on what constitute great great character and personality?
Best regards,
Florentino
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I am pleased to know, my dear friend, Lisa. It is already worth the effort for the good words yousaid. Have a great week.
I agreed with you who you are is what you will be. In this society, everyone argue he has the right mindset and right attitude, who can judge they are right or wrong.
Your article is a light and true for people to agree and follow. exclusive of those who do not want to make change on his attitude or mindset. Even God cannot help people who always think they are correct. Just a bit talkative today.
Exactly. That is the bottom line is in the action the right action is only produced with people whose attitude is positive, Self-beliefs is correct, and the mindset is right. Thanks, Stephen. Have a great week.
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Good morning, Florention. I just watched two sermons on TV (since I am voluntarily not attending church right now) and now I come online and read this which could qualify as a sermon on self-improvement. I'm not sure whether you are a preacher or a psychologist. Anyway, you surely do have some good counsel. Thanks, my friend.
I a delighted by your good words, my friend. God bless.