Single mom

byMaci31

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Updated 4 years ago

Single mom...

The status I got a couple of years ago.

A status I'm proud of,

but he is much condemned in society.

In my country, there is a worse variant, the name - a divorcee. (dismissed, taken off the chain, does what she wants). Humiliating.

There are also men who live alone with children,

but they are generally called "single parent, father."

One who is brave, strong, able to take his children by the hand and start over.

A single mother is for the world in most cases something else. It very often causes pity in others,

"What will she do, poor thing, alone?"

First,no one is ever alone with children,and second,

why “poor”? When a woman is "alone", it means that she is not married. For most people even today, in this modern world, it can mean - a potentially easy woman.

Well,my dears,it is better to be alone when you are really alone than to be alone in a relationship or marriage.

One friend of mine has been alone all her life,

and married.Two children,husband constantly on the road.

When he comes,he brings and distributes gifts,and that is where his participation in the "common" life ends.

She made all the decisions herself, looked after the children,caressed them,looked after them while they were sick,educated them herself,fed them herself ...

He (her husband) is like her third child.

She has to take care of him the most.

Yes,when he comes home,that everything is as he likes,

that his favorite dish is on the table,that there is peace in the house so that he can rest (from flying by plane),

that the children treat him extremely nicely,

that everything is washed,ironed,packed until the next trip.

Yes.

A couple of years ago,five or six of us friends agreed to go on vacation,to spend two or three days,

to relax.A plan made two months earlier.

When...one has to "process her husband to let her go",

the other has to organize babysitting because the

mother-in-law won't,

the third mother-in-law is sick so she has to see both her and the children who will take care of her.

Eventually the two of us,single mothers,left.

These others say,

"It's easy for you, you're alone, you don't have to account to anyone."

My dears...

And we have children,and we organize babysitting,and we have someone else to take care of,so we managed to take care of everything.

One husband said,

"Oh, these two are going without obligations,disbanded,

so you'll go wild there."

Primitive.

These are today's views on single mothers.

And that mother has to do everything herself?

That that mother is and mother and father at the same time?

That this mother has to take care of herself if her child is in the hospital,that that mother has to organize the transport of children to school,buy books,do homework,prepare food, clothes ...

All this with only one salary in the house,

because the ex-husband does not pay alimony for fear that the woman will buy something for herself from that money.

The fact that that mother has to pay the bills herself,she has to provide her children with pocket money,she can't buy herself a fur coat for the winter because she has to buy them for the children ...

I can list a thousand things, but I will refrain.

Yes, I am a single mother, and I am proud of that!

Proud to have put my children on the right track,

proud to be able to do all this on my own.

Therefore,peoples,a finger on the forehead ...

And think hard before you judge someone.

Zhe mother is the greatest fighter to walk this planet!

Maya