How You Talk to Yourself Matters
What do you say when things go wrong? Perhaps call yourself stupid? If so that's perfectly normal - and also one of the reasons why most people never accomplish as much as they could in business and in life.
Change that now - and begin to do better.
Never disrespect yourself. If you make a mistake and screw something up (and we all do that from time to time!) simply learn from it and be thankful for the lessons you gain in the process, and move on.
While it may sound a bit corny and may seem a bit strange - what you believe to be true will in many cases be true.
So if you are always negative with yourself (including what you say to yourself) then you are far more likely to continue getting bad results. If you think you are going to fail and do poorly, then you probably will!
Likewise - when you change your own attitude and begin to develop a more positive outlook, a better mindset along with combing all that with persistent consistent action you begin to achieve better results in the process.
Have a great day, and make it count!
Best regards,
L.D. Sewell
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That’s so very true, LD,,,thanks for this important reminder. I hope you are keeping well.
Susan
Great to hear from you again LD, I hope all is well?
Having self belief and a positive mindset is key to success in all aspects of life my friend!
Take care ok...
It is so true. The way you look at yourself and life can have a massive difference in your mindset.
i believe this a lot. it's like manifesting when you see yourself as ugly or fat or stupid, other people feel or see that because it shows on the outside. when you start having a higher self-esteem it also shows on the outside too. A man had done an experiment with plants, and you could see the difference between the loved and cared for plants and the abused plants. he was yelling and screaming at the plant, and it wilted and looked ugly on the outside and was leaning over. The other plant he took care of he played classical music and said nice things to it. it was green and lushes and it stood up straight it grew larger than normal. the experiment was to show what happens when either yourself or others abuse us.
LD,
You are onto something.
Positive thoughts creat positive results.
The proof is in the positivity.
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Good morning LD,
Thank you for your blog post, I hope you're doing well.
It's very easy to be negative about ourselves at times, as we all make mistakes and can do silly things! Sometimes it's good to take a look back at the things we have achieved as a reminder of what we can really do.
I believe the words that we speak can have life or death, let's speak life into our business!
Have a great weekend.
Roy