Your FIRST Million Starts Way BEFORE You Make It.

Millionaires don’t become millionaires when they earn their first million. There, I said it.
Most people congratulate others on big achievements at the time of the achievement itself, however the thing that most people don't realize or notice is the many years and the trials and tribulations that went into that success.
This is especially relevant in the business world. This was relevant to any achievement I have had in my 20 year journey within the online world, and relevant to any milestone we have achieved with Wealthy Affiliate.
The effort that nobody sees, is what leads to the actual outcome that everyone sees. But most people from what I have seen, just want the easy part (showing success) and not the tough part (the effort it takes).
That leads me to...
We Want to Be Like Success, Not Hard Work .
You look around for inspiration, and naturally you likely turn to those that already successful. Rarely do you want to be the person that is struggling to get their business going or somewhere in the middle stages. In fact, that is likely someone that you don't aspire to be.
But I can tell you that EVERY single person that is succeeding, earning 7, 8 and 9 figures in the business world are those that were once those struggling person. And before that, they were people aspiring to be successful like others they looked up to.
So when you jump on Instagram and you see people rolling around in their flashy cars, find their private jets, they are giving you a glimpse into the byproduct of their effort over several years sometimes over several decades.
Those exact people at one point were aspiring to be in their exact position, the reality is though that they worked hard enough to make that happen and they persevered when most others may have not have.
I can assure you those people are the hardest workers in the crowd, that kept going even when they didn't feel like it.
That got up in the middle of the night because something in their business needed their urgent attention.
That worked without reward for a period of time, knowing that the reward would come down the road.
Most people want the flashy car, but they are unwilling to do the things that are unglamorous in their business. They things that LEAD directly to that flashy car signal of success.
The Gold Medalist Was Built in the Gym.
If you think in the perspective of an Olympian gold medalist, you are going to get a good idea of what "success" looks like.
They become them through the years that lead up to the sometimes "few second" event. They train and push themselves outside of their comfort zone for 10-15 years for that ONE event where they become medalist. That is EARNED much before the event actually happens though.
Just thinking in terms of a competitive swimmer, they spend hours upon hours waking up early in the morning to get to the pool to swim laps for hours on end in hopes of one day becoming a gold medallist.
There is no reward in this stage, sure there are successes in terms of progress, but the ultimate BIG GOAL has yet to be achieved.
If that swimmer has worked harder than other swimmers training around the world, worked with more vigor and consistency, they are going to likely succeed at a higher rate than them. They may win the gold.
The same goes for business. The good news is that most people quit within the first few months of trying something new so if you are able to persevere and to work hard for a sustained period of time (perhaps a year or two) then you are going to start to see results and you are going to outpace MOST people out there that would be deemed your competition.
Becoming a gold medalist in the business world isn't as hard as people think...it takes a committment that is greater than the broader average. And that isn't a huge commitment by any means.
Not to Your First Million Yet, Dig In!
If you haven't accomplished your first million within the online world, your journey to get there has already started.
I know there are many folks within the Wealthy Affiliate community that have earned over $1 million within the online world. This could be you, and WILL be you if you put for the effort now. The effort when nobody is watching. The effort when it feels like there is no reward.
The rewards WILL come. This is the exact moment when your million(s) will be made.
Become an "overnight" success 5 years from now, from the effort you put forth in the next years. What are you waiting for?
This is so encouraging for me, I want to see the hard work pay off so I'll keep pushing forward until I do.
Denise
I hope you're doing well. Thank you for another excellent and very true blog post.
I have seen many successful businessmen who struggled in the early days, in fact, I think they all did! I have a long-term customer who has worked exceptionally hard and still works very hard! He is highly successful, but one thing's for sure, he has certainly worked for it! It's easy to think the grass looks greener on the other side!
It's also very easy to look at people showing off their flashy cars on social networks and to dream about having nice things! But dreaming with no action will not achieve anything! I think we need to be careful about looking at people who show off, it's probably why I don't particularly do social media as such!
I always admire the young people here who have joined Wealthy Affiliate and taken solid action! They have literally turned their life around by taking solid action! I believe the majority of these members knew absolutely nothing about Internet marketing when they first joined the platform! It just proves what is achievable when we put our mind to something and take solid action!
Have a great day.
Roy
You knocked it out of the park with this post. Your message can apply to almost any field of endeavor. Not just in the online world. You made that clear with your sports analogy.
This result also applies to the corporate world. With one huge exception.
You do not control your destiny alone in corporate America. There are others who decide your fate, no matter how hard you work.
And if you are really good at what you do, there are colleagues who do not want you to succeed and could sabotage your results.
When you are an entrepreneur, especially in the online category, the buck stops with you. There is nobody watching over you and nudging you to complete your tasks, like your boss in the industry, Hence, you have to dig deep and develop the discipline and work habits to push on, even though you don't see immediate results.
Sadly, at least 90% of wannabe entrepreneurs are not willing to do that. It is so hard.
So they try to find a magic bullet thinking that is what the successful people found. When it dawns on them there is no magic bullet, they just give up and accept their status in life.
We are so fortunate that a place like Wealthy Affiliate exists. Being a member here is a real treat.
All the answers are staring us in the face. It is entirely up to us to run with the Program. Members who do will eventually succeed.
Perhaps in a year or two, Or maybe longer, It depends on how much effort we apply.
In my case, I do not have decades to make this work. I just turned 76. Even if it takes just one decade to make my first million, and I am still living, it will be well worth it.
By the way Kyle, in my last 10 years in my engineering job I did make over one million dollars. I was one of those six-figure earners, rare for an engineer. Why I am here trying to make one million dollars again is another story.
I'd like to share a secret. I am writing this response as a message to myself. I need to do more if I want to have the success I seek sooner rather than later.
Thank you Kyle for everything you do to give us this opportunity to turn our lives into GOLD.
Cheers!
Edwin
Only knowing that I'm following in the footsteps of successful people years ahead of me keeps me going.
I look forward to the day when I can look back and say, "I'm so glad I stuck at it."
Warm Regards,
Lily