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So, I've been here at WA for three months now, and I feel torn about my progress. I started out gang busters, got my website up and running, was buzzing through the lessons. All was going great! Then my job sent me out of town, and I was gone for a week. I brought my computer so I could work on my site while I was away, but that didn't work out because I was too busy at my other job.

When I got back, it felt like I had lost everything I had worked so hard for. The reality is that nothing actually changed, except in my mind!

Focus, focus, focus! I lost mine and am struggling to get it back. I expected I would be able to put in more time than I have, which makes me frustrated, but I'm back at it now.

I keep telling myself that only I can make me get back into the groove. I have found that I am getting distracted by my kids. They know I work at home now, except for two weeks a month, and they constantly ask for my help.

Solution - I am keeping hours now. When my kids call and want to chat or want me to take them somewhere or meet for lunch or whatever, I tell them I'm working from 9AM to 5PM every day. And I write it on my calendar so I don't schedule other things. It is something I have to stick to if I truly want to give this a legit shot!

Whatever hours you want to devote to your website/s, schedule it just like you would if you had a job to go to, or you will let yourself get distracted. At least, that's what happened to me!

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Good job.

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Nice and now you can enjoy family and work.

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This is definately sound advice, approaching it like that, Irvie!
How much do we check our watches when it's about a boss, and not getting penalized.......
Thanks!☺

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Great to hear from you Irvie! It sounds as if you have a tough situation under control

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Thanks, I certainly hope so.

You are doing great. I have only a few hours in the afternoon to devote.

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How long have you been with WA? And how's it going for you? I find staying motivated with support of the folks here makes a huge difference for me.

Well, I have been here 5 months. I find I am learning a lot but it's going slow but that's ok. I am loving it.
The support here is fantastic I know. To me, that makes all the difference in the world!

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Yes, the support is terrific! And it's been slow for me too, but I know that if I spent the time I should working on my website, I'd be doing better than I am. I hope you reach your goals here at WA!

Such a very good point - too many people think that working from home is a hobby, rather than a job! You can't always eb available for a coffee when someone drops in, or spend an hour on the phone. It's a great idea to schedule your time :)

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Thanks Jude. How do you stay focused?

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I won't lie, sometimes it's difficult. Cute cats and dogs on FB, for example! I allow myself 15 minutes every hour to check out FB, get up and stretch, have a walk round, get a coffee etc. Seems to work for me :)

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That sounds like a good idea! I was doing much better at first, and I had two alarms - one for every 15 minutes to stand and get a drink of water, and one for every hour to actually run up and down the stairs 10 times. I quit doing that and I really need to start again! Preparing for winter here can be time-consuming - getting firewood, hunting, canning - all those things that suck up my time but have to be done. Now it's time for me to get back at it!

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All the best :)

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Don't feel too bad. It's just the beginning and you will continue to improve when you decide to. I think you have. Don't beat yourself up.

I think you've got a good game plan. Stick to it and don't let others distract you...too much ;-)

Keep up the good work!

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Thanks Liz! How do you keep yourself focused? I get distracted too easily, but I'm learning to do better.

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Oh I'm a mess!! Lol But I'm trying to fix it. I think I have to master meditation to help focus better. Going to give it a try anyway ;-)

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Time for you to be resilient and bounce back. You got this!
I was in the same boat, the Army took me away for about 2 weeks for training and I let my site sit. I thought it was all over, but then I snapped out of it and kept going and now I'm happy that I didn't give up. Good luck to you and if you ever need anything please don't hesitate to ask.

-Jaime

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Thanks Jaime! It's great to have the support of folks at WA.

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